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The Flood / Re: I feel my friend is ignoring me
« on: March 09, 2016, 11:00:18 AM »
As much as I'd like to joke with you, I'm too down for it.

I think I'm the friend that's ignoring Gaara444

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The Flood / Re: I feel my friend is ignoring me
« on: March 09, 2016, 09:42:20 AM »
Not knowing is just painful though. Nor do I want to end up with a negative view on friends like you said.

As for your pal. Give it some time. Don't press him too much. Just wait and see.

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The Flood / Re: I feel my friend is ignoring me
« on: March 09, 2016, 08:38:00 AM »
I really hope this is just complete overreacting and that they've just been either really busy or something else is bothering them. They haven't unfriended my on FB yet but I'm pessimistic and feel they'll do it if they want to. I don't want to lose contact with them, it would make everything we ever discussed awkward and it would make being on here awkward.

Alright.

I know that feel tho. Sometimes the person has just moved on from you and they're just avoiding you so they don't have to have that conversation. It sucks, but you kind of have to accept that they don't really want to hang out with or talk to you anymore and if they do it's because you're friends with someone else.

I kind of get the feeling that I'm having a situation like that happening with me right now as well too.

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The Flood / Re: I feel my friend is ignoring me
« on: March 09, 2016, 06:42:36 AM »
I already have two, since I've been bugging them about the problem since it became noticeable. I just don't know if they would be willing.

I do have to say if they're purposefully avoiding you online they probably have their own insecurities they're struggling with.
While waiting for them to respond I'd start evaluating candidates who might help a backup message transfer plan.


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The Flood / Re: I feel my friend is ignoring me
« on: March 08, 2016, 11:54:57 PM »
I still talk with Noel, but Noel isn't who I'm struggling with.

Don't know if it's true or not, but I skimmed and saw someone say it's Noel.

So Noel kind of went off the deep end and doesn't post here anymore.

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The Flood / Re: I feel my friend is ignoring me
« on: March 08, 2016, 11:54:01 PM »
I wouldn't mind doing that, but I feel they lurk enough that so long as this thread stays relevant they would eventually see it. If nothing good comes out of this thread I might try that, but it would have to be with someone I more than just half trust on here. In the mean time, I have to go to bed and get ready for work, I would like to try and keep this thread up and noticeable for as long as possible.

True...
If they won't respond to you directly, find someone who could act as a medium for transferring messages?


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The Flood / Re: I feel my friend is ignoring me
« on: March 08, 2016, 11:48:49 PM »
They could just say that to me and I would be perfectly okay with that. And is why I had been hold myself back from trying to bug them everyday.

Do you think they might perceive you as needy and desire space?

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The Flood / Re: I feel my friend is ignoring me
« on: March 08, 2016, 11:43:28 PM »
That doesn't help the current situation I'm in though. If I did something wrong to upset them, finding a new friend isn't going to change their views.

You can have both the old friend and the new friend. Making a new friend, however, will make you less needy on the old friend

I think you're being a bit silly here man

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The Flood / Re: I feel my friend is ignoring me
« on: March 08, 2016, 11:38:43 PM »
They don't come off as misanthropic at all.

All of them were simply them doing something different. The first few simply moved and they never bothered to stay in contact, the last two was probably the most painful with one telling me they don't want to keep friends they made from before and the other simply got an SO and never cared to make the time for me and after a long struggle I gave up.

I don't want it to happen again. If I did something wrong I am more than willing to admit my wrong doing, even if this thread isn't humbling enough. I just want them to know I'm still thinking of them, and that in the past six months they were the silver lining in all the negative experiences I've had. Regardless of the fact that our friendship has only been online, they were the closest friend I've had I shared with them more than I'm willing to share almost anybody. If I lose them, I don't think I'll be able to trust people anymore.

As someone who blows off their friends periodically I'm familiar with being both busy and not wanting to talk to other people. At all. I'm not sure how misanthropic your friend is though, so I really don't know I'm commenting from a point of similarity.
Maybe you did something to upset them?
You said you've lost friends in the past, do you suspect a cause?


If they're upset with me, why would I put myself in a situation to make them even more upset?

Here's an idea, why don't you just fucking tell us who it is?

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The Flood / Re: I feel my friend is ignoring me
« on: March 08, 2016, 11:24:24 PM »
If by compulsive you mean they post like say Verbatim or Jester? No, but they certainly do post with genuine interest to the community.

When they use the site, do they do so compulsively?

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The Flood / Re: I feel my friend is ignoring me
« on: March 08, 2016, 11:19:51 PM »
I would think so, they don't post as often on here as they did. However, I'm sure they have the time to just write "I'm super busy". I'm pretty sure there's more to it than just that.

Do you think they're busy because their goals demand a lot of their time?
Would you like me to respond in a similar quoting format?

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The Flood / Re: I feel my friend is ignoring me
« on: March 08, 2016, 11:14:18 PM »
I don't understand the question.

How ambitious is this person?

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The Flood / Re: I feel my friend is ignoring me
« on: March 08, 2016, 10:54:04 PM »
I don't replace friends like defective hardware. What good is a new friendship if I can't save an old one?

Make new friends

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The Flood / Re: I feel my friend is ignoring me
« on: March 08, 2016, 10:51:48 PM »
I didn't want to cause them trouble by making this thread, but it's been so painful and I want them to at least know whatever is going on that I still care about them and the last thing I want is to lose their friendship. I just hoped that they would know that before this thread is bumped into oblivion.

:[

That sucks bro

Noel doesn't post on here.

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it's noel

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The Flood / Re: I feel my friend is ignoring me
« on: March 08, 2016, 10:46:46 PM »
I don't have their number to call, but I'll send a message to get their attention and I get nothing back. It couldn't be just a matter of them being too busy, I see them active elsewhere.

They ignore your calls and texts?

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The Flood / Re: I feel my friend is ignoring me
« on: March 08, 2016, 10:43:06 PM »
I can't get a hold of them at all. I would say everything I have said if I could just get some sort of response.

Tell em how bad you feel

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The Flood / Re: I feel my friend is ignoring me
« on: March 08, 2016, 10:33:28 PM »
I don't want to cause any more trouble for them than I already have, but this was my last resort.


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The Flood / Re: I feel my friend is ignoring me
« on: March 08, 2016, 10:27:23 PM »
I would if I could, but I can't even get their attention anymore. I would like to keep this thread up in a desperate attempt to get them to notice.

Just bring it up directly and address it instead of stressing about it in the dark

They live all the way up north.

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find the person and address the issue in berson

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The Flood / I feel my friend is ignoring me
« on: March 08, 2016, 10:18:26 PM »
I don't like blogging but I feel I have to in this case.

I have a friend that I used to chat with almost nightly, however at the turn of the year they've been very busy. It went from them always starting a conversation with me to me starting them every once in a while. I was very open with them about a lot of my personal life, and they told me I could talk to them about anything. They were the first real friend I had in a very long time. However recently I haven't been able to talk with them. I try to talk with them and I just get silence. I know they're busy, but I just feel like there's something else. A simple "I'm busy" or "I don't want to talk" would even be okay but I can't get anything at all.

I don't know what to do. I don't know if I did something wrong, or that if they just don't want to talk to me right now, or if there's something else, but not knowing is scary and it hurts. I'm so sick of losing friends I consider close while they move on and I stay left behind. I don't want to lose another one, but it hurts so much. I lose sleep over it, I can't work without in the back of my mind, I can't enjoy the things I used to enjoy because it's happened so many times and I don't want it to happen again with them.

I'm so terrified right now and it hurts so much, and I can't do anything unless I get this resolved but I can't because I don't even know if I did anything wrong or what I should do to fix it, and I'm so lost now. I need advice.

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The Flood / Re: How did you celebrate International Women's Day?
« on: March 08, 2016, 08:59:19 PM »
Yeah! Break the divisive bathrooms!

The fact that we consign people to women and man is gross.

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The Flood / Re: You're sitting in front of two buttons
« on: March 08, 2016, 08:06:16 PM »
WE WUZ KINGZ.

did you know ancient jews were black?

did you know the indus valley civilization was black?

did you know ancient egyptians were black?

did you know ancient greeks were black?

did you know ancient persians were black?

did you know romans were black?

did you know vikings were black?

did you finns were black?

did you know turks were black?

did you know abkhazians were black?

did you know mesoamericans were black?

did you know you're black?

did you know i'm black?

did you know everyone is actually black?

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The Flood / Re: WHO HERE /biscuit/??????
« on: March 08, 2016, 08:05:45 PM »
Das is smoking some serious shit and is hallucinating.

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The Flood / Re: I got a new pic for yall
« on: March 08, 2016, 07:59:18 PM »
Lol!

I think I'd kill myself if I ate like Load.

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The Flood / Re: You're sitting in front of two buttons
« on: March 08, 2016, 07:58:46 PM »
I love you Chally, I laughed harder than I should have at it.


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The Flood / Re: I got a new pic for yall
« on: March 08, 2016, 07:57:36 PM »
Fish ain't meat.



but if I had a steady supply of salmon I would be all over it.

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The Flood / Re: You're sitting in front of two buttons
« on: March 08, 2016, 07:53:51 PM »
This. These buttons are not mutually exclusive to their devices.

World peace, because a peaceful world is a coonless world.

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The Flood / Re: I got a new pic for yall
« on: March 08, 2016, 07:53:00 PM »
What about meats? Your stomach looks like it's about to cave in.

LOL. I'm like 170 pounds, just so you know. I try to get cheese, avocado, and olives and olive oil in my diet for fat.

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The Flood / Re: I got a new pic for yall
« on: March 08, 2016, 07:46:39 PM »
Alright, a real legitimate question I have is: Do you eat? I don't know if it's just the picture or the angle but that looks rather unhealthy. Simply put, your body from under the chest downwards looks like it's not getting enough mass.

I'm not offended by constructive criticism.

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The Flood / Re: I got a new pic for yall
« on: March 08, 2016, 07:24:17 PM »
JESUS CHRIST WHAT THE HELL IS THAT ABOMINATION?!

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The Flood / Re: why was kupo banned
« on: March 08, 2016, 07:06:39 PM »
He posted PMs again. I don't think the hard ass parent approach should be taken though. I think they should really ask him honestly to stop. Unless ya know, they enjoy banning him.

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