my gf is broken and wants a fucking sexless relationship so no thanks
Quote from: Zonda on November 12, 2017, 04:48:59 AMmy gf is broken and wants a fucking sexless relationship so no thanksLOL I'm keeping a list of this memeEmberIanZonda
Damn dude. How so?
Quote from: Zonda on November 13, 2017, 03:29:51 PMQuote from: Flee on November 13, 2017, 05:37:18 AMDamn dude. How so?i don’t actually hold those views. We’ve spoken about it and she just wants to wait for a change in our housing circumstances before we resume our sex life. The only thing that really bothers me about it is how much she wanted to avoid the conversation in the first place, when we both know how massive each other’s sex drives can be at times. You can’t just pull a 3 month dry spell out of your ass and expect your partner to think nothing of the change.You guys live with other people or something? You can still get down in the car or something. Maybe something else is up.
Quote from: Flee on November 13, 2017, 05:37:18 AMDamn dude. How so?i don’t actually hold those views. We’ve spoken about it and she just wants to wait for a change in our housing circumstances before we resume our sex life. The only thing that really bothers me about it is how much she wanted to avoid the conversation in the first place, when we both know how massive each other’s sex drives can be at times. You can’t just pull a 3 month dry spell out of your ass and expect your partner to think nothing of the change.
Quote from: challengerX on November 13, 2017, 06:29:16 PMQuote from: Zonda on November 13, 2017, 03:29:51 PMQuote from: Flee on November 13, 2017, 05:37:18 AMDamn dude. How so?i don’t actually hold those views. We’ve spoken about it and she just wants to wait for a change in our housing circumstances before we resume our sex life. The only thing that really bothers me about it is how much she wanted to avoid the conversation in the first place, when we both know how massive each other’s sex drives can be at times. You can’t just pull a 3 month dry spell out of your ass and expect your partner to think nothing of the change.You guys live with other people or something? You can still get down in the car or something. Maybe something else is up.moved back in with my parents after shit went down with my housemates but I already know something’s up. It was really convenient that she stopped having sex with me the same week she met this other guy I caught her being affectionate with over text. She’s adamant she’s doing nothing wrong but literally every warning sign was there and she gets super defensive without me even bringing it up. She’s actually a highly manipulative person and I’ve called her out on several occasions, each time she changes the subject when she knows she’s in trouble. She’s managed to fuck up every single past relationship she’s had in a similar way and then found a way to blame it on the other guy.
Quote from: Zonda on November 13, 2017, 07:27:45 PMQuote from: challengerX on November 13, 2017, 06:29:16 PMQuote from: Zonda on November 13, 2017, 03:29:51 PMQuote from: Flee on November 13, 2017, 05:37:18 AMDamn dude. How so?i don’t actually hold those views. We’ve spoken about it and she just wants to wait for a change in our housing circumstances before we resume our sex life. The only thing that really bothers me about it is how much she wanted to avoid the conversation in the first place, when we both know how massive each other’s sex drives can be at times. You can’t just pull a 3 month dry spell out of your ass and expect your partner to think nothing of the change.You guys live with other people or something? You can still get down in the car or something. Maybe something else is up.moved back in with my parents after shit went down with my housemates but I already know something’s up. It was really convenient that she stopped having sex with me the same week she met this other guy I caught her being affectionate with over text. She’s adamant she’s doing nothing wrong but literally every warning sign was there and she gets super defensive without me even bringing it up. She’s actually a highly manipulative person and I’ve called her out on several occasions, each time she changes the subject when she knows she’s in trouble. She’s managed to fuck up every single past relationship she’s had in a similar way and then found a way to blame it on the other guy.Ditch her. Once a hoe, always a hoe,and when it happens again you'll have no one to blame but yourself
Quote from: Casper on November 13, 2017, 07:42:18 PMQuote from: Zonda on November 13, 2017, 07:27:45 PMQuote from: challengerX on November 13, 2017, 06:29:16 PMQuote from: Zonda on November 13, 2017, 03:29:51 PMQuote from: Flee on November 13, 2017, 05:37:18 AMDamn dude. How so?i don’t actually hold those views. We’ve spoken about it and she just wants to wait for a change in our housing circumstances before we resume our sex life. The only thing that really bothers me about it is how much she wanted to avoid the conversation in the first place, when we both know how massive each other’s sex drives can be at times. You can’t just pull a 3 month dry spell out of your ass and expect your partner to think nothing of the change.You guys live with other people or something? You can still get down in the car or something. Maybe something else is up.moved back in with my parents after shit went down with my housemates but I already know something’s up. It was really convenient that she stopped having sex with me the same week she met this other guy I caught her being affectionate with over text. She’s adamant she’s doing nothing wrong but literally every warning sign was there and she gets super defensive without me even bringing it up. She’s actually a highly manipulative person and I’ve called her out on several occasions, each time she changes the subject when she knows she’s in trouble. She’s managed to fuck up every single past relationship she’s had in a similar way and then found a way to blame it on the other guy.Ditch her. Once a hoe, always a hoe,and when it happens again you'll have no one to blame but yourselfi was prepared for it to end in tears from the start my guy. She’s admitted to me that she wants to be a hoe for a bit while she’s young but she wants me more than that lifestyle. She’s actually an incredibly honest person and takes the relationship very seriously, and I know for a fact that she hasn’t actually cheated, but I’m gonna get her to admit that what she did with that guy was emotional cheating. With that sort of person you just can’t let them get away with anything or they’ll walk all over you. There’s a few undiagnosed mental disorders but it doesn’t really excuse that kind of behaviour.
Quote from: Zonda on November 13, 2017, 07:27:45 PMQuote from: challengerX on November 13, 2017, 06:29:16 PMQuote from: Zonda on November 13, 2017, 03:29:51 PMQuote from: Flee on November 13, 2017, 05:37:18 AMDamn dude. How so?i don’t actually hold those views. We’ve spoken about it and she just wants to wait for a change in our housing circumstances before we resume our sex life. The only thing that really bothers me about it is how much she wanted to avoid the conversation in the first place, when we both know how massive each other’s sex drives can be at times. You can’t just pull a 3 month dry spell out of your ass and expect your partner to think nothing of the change.You guys live with other people or something? You can still get down in the car or something. Maybe something else is up.moved back in with my parents after shit went down with my housemates but I already know something’s up. It was really convenient that she stopped having sex with me the same week she met this other guy I caught her being affectionate with over text. She’s adamant she’s doing nothing wrong but literally every warning sign was there and she gets super defensive without me even bringing it up. She’s actually a highly manipulative person and I’ve called her out on several occasions, each time she changes the subject when she knows she’s in trouble. She’s managed to fuck up every single past relationship she’s had in a similar way and then found a way to blame it on the other guy.She's cheating on you.
omgZonda's a cuckLOL
Quote from: Verbatim on November 11, 2017, 12:09:24 PMi think there's a degree of closed-mindedness and willful ignorance that i think you personally need to get over in order to see my point hereAnd I think you're just as, if not more, guilty of this as I am. I've never met anyone with such contrarian views on sexuality. Your most deeply held philosophy villifies everything related to reproduction. I remember you talking about how gross genitals are and how you should hate what they do. You have thought for years now that sex and just about everything that goes with it is disgusting, wasteful and borderline evil because of the possible consequences. This whole conservation can be summarized pretty easily. You called me out on saying I thought it was pointless to stop having sex because you think it's pointless to begin with. I gave you some very real benefits which I think make it anything but pointless, some of which you ignored (the role it serves in relationships) or didn't really get to (the prostate cancer one that isn't compensated by just urinating). Your response to that was giving me alternatives which don't all accomplish the same things while being as effortless, fun and effective (and no, I don't think it's false to say that 10 minutes of sexual stuff before bed is more fun or takes less effort than switching your diet or working out). I'll gladly admit that we all have our biases, but I think that you've become so entrenched in your views that you are as "closed-minded and willfully ignorant" as anyone here, if not more so. Having a discussion about the practical benefits of sex is a difficult thing to do when one of the people involved already holds the opinion that it's disgusting, wasteful and evil, and is kind of pointless because there will never be scientific research that concludes that jerking off at the end of the day is the objectively best way to spend those 15 minutes.I also think that you are, to a certain extent, pretty clueless about some of this. As far as I know, you've never been in a committed and long-term relationship, or even had sex in the first place (although I might be wrong here). I think you underestimate how important that kind of intimacy can be for bonding, building trust and maintaining a healthy relationship. If you've never experienced this, it's near impossible to really understand. But either way, this is a pretty futile discussion. If we continue this a dozen more posts, it'll always just come back to how we should rationalize away all feelings and emotions, and how we should all live a certain way until everyone's stopped having kids and we're all dead, and that just makes these discussions a bit of a pointless chore in the end.
i think there's a degree of closed-mindedness and willful ignorance that i think you personally need to get over in order to see my point here
You called me out on saying I thought it was pointless to stop having sex because you think it's pointless to begin with. I gave you some very real benefits which I think make it anything but pointless, some of which you ignored (the role it serves in relationships) or didn't really get to (the prostate cancer one that isn't compensated by just urinating). Your response to that was giving me alternatives which don't all accomplish the same things while being as effortless, fun and effective (and no, I don't think it's false to say that 10 minutes of sexual stuff before bed is more fun or takes less effort than switching your diet or working out).
I think you underestimate how important that kind of intimacy can be for bonding, building trust and maintaining a healthy relationship. If you've never experienced this, it's near impossible to really understand.
Quote from: Verbatim on November 14, 2017, 12:56:12 PM"i'm finding it difficult to bond with my girlfriend because she hasn't touched my peepee in a long time""i'm having trust issues with my wife because she doesn't let me touch her fatty round parts anymore""oh no white stuff hasn't come out of my penis in like two days i've lost control of my relationship i want to die"you're right, i have absolutely no fucking idea what being that pathetic is like, and i NEVER want to knowhahahahaha
"i'm finding it difficult to bond with my girlfriend because she hasn't touched my peepee in a long time""i'm having trust issues with my wife because she doesn't let me touch her fatty round parts anymore""oh no white stuff hasn't come out of my penis in like two days i've lost control of my relationship i want to die"you're right, i have absolutely no fucking idea what being that pathetic is like, and i NEVER want to know
Flee just drop it he can't understand because he hasn't experienced it.
Quote from: Verbatim on November 14, 2017, 01:11:30 PMQuote from: challengerX on November 14, 2017, 01:07:59 PMFlee just drop it he can't understand because he hasn't experienced it.yeah i'm gonna have sex and then i'm going to completely change my mindonce i put my genitals inside of someone else's genitals, my entire philosophy will just implodetoo much on the tacos homie I ain't feelin it😂😂😂
Quote from: challengerX on November 14, 2017, 01:07:59 PMFlee just drop it he can't understand because he hasn't experienced it.yeah i'm gonna have sex and then i'm going to completely change my mindonce i put my genitals inside of someone else's genitals, my entire philosophy will just implode
Who else is gunna do No Fap November with me?
