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We're done.

I've told her that I hate the idea that she is going to see him. That it hurt, and if we planned to try to work on things, this would hurt it.

She simply said its over and done.

We will stay together long enough for the adoption to be final. The next day we file our divorce.

We've agreed to go by whatever a child custody coach recommends for us. Unfortunately that could mean I end up a Disneyland dad, or I'm the one with full custody. It could go either way. He's a psychologist who will make a plan based on what is best for the kids' well being.

I am at a low point. She took what should have been a happy time and ruined it.


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See you Cowgirl,
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Do you have a career to fall back on?


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You're better for it dude, even if she DID stay with you, you probably never would've trusted her again.


 
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My apologies Charlie. Really hope things do take a turn soon :(


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I missed everything that happened last week. Can someone sum up what happened?
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My signature is my name printed, I was never taught how to write cursive. FML.


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I'm really sorry Charlie. This is probably the worst form of betrayal anyone can go though.

You have my support and respect.


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I am always around, but never seen. I am often avoided, but you can't out run me. for I will come when you're old and grey, or maybe even the very next day. I will come with cold embrace, and give you rest with a chilled kiss on your face. I come in many forms of emotional state, whether it's irony, love, laughter, or hate. I am everyone's final fate.
Stay strong, comrade. We're here for you.


 
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"With the first link, the chain is forged. The first speech censured, the first thought forbidden, the first freedom denied, chains us all irrevocably."
—Judge Aaron Satie
——Carmen
All your wife has to do to get custody is give the judge a link to this site.

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All jokes aside, this really fuçking sucks. You're a good guy, Charlie. I'm sorry all this is happening to you.


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YouTube

My favorite break up song.


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Well, you have a much higher chance of getting custody now, at least.


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I am always around, but never seen. I am often avoided, but you can't out run me. for I will come when you're old and grey, or maybe even the very next day. I will come with cold embrace, and give you rest with a chilled kiss on your face. I come in many forms of emotional state, whether it's irony, love, laughter, or hate. I am everyone's final fate.
And another one for you, friend.
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Hello again Charlie. I would say it's nice to see you again, but under the current circumstances it would sound like false praise.

I'm incredibly sorry this has happened and I wish anything I could say wouldn't sound like bullshit.
Stay strong Charlie. :/


 
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I'm sorry to hear that this didn't work out for you. However this also gives you the opportunity to seek someone who is as committed to you as you are to them and I know you'll be a great dad to Nicolas and Alex.

If you ever want to blow off some steam when you get home I'm sure there's a bunch of people on here that would love to play vidya with you.

Hell if you find yourself in the bay area I'll see if I can buy you a drink.


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lord Commisar nailed it. We'd all buy you a drink if you were in the area. Here's another song!
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I neither fear, nor despise.
You're better for it dude, even if she DID stay with you, you probably never would've trusted her again.
Precisely. Plus she broke her vows to you Charlie.
As far as that is concerned, you can get a divorce and be free from that.

You could possibly mend the relationship if you tried, but the chances are slim.
Also slim are the chances you'd ever trust her again.

You did the right thing for your family.


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I cant argue with progress, just you.
Im sorry Charlie this happened. You are a really good guy and dont deserve this. I hope everything turns out for the best after everything settles.  Like Commissar said if we are ever in the same area. First drink is on me.


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See you Cowgirl,
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Unbelievable. I mean it's believable, but wow. This is seriously messed up.

Don't worry man. You'll be alright. I hope you get custody.
Of course he will, why wouldn't he?
Last Edit: October 02, 2014, 04:43:35 AM by Septy


 
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See you Cowgirl,
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Unbelievable. I mean it's believable, but wow. This is seriously messed up.

Don't worry man. You'll be alright. I hope you get custody.
Of course he will, why wouldn't he?
Judges can be stupid. He has a very good chance at full custody, but still. It's not a certainty.
Joint-custody. Both he and his wife will have custody, I see no reasoning to give full custody to one parent or the other. There has been no domestic violence so they should both get custody.


 
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See you Cowgirl,
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Unbelievable. I mean it's believable, but wow. This is seriously messed up.

Don't worry man. You'll be alright. I hope you get custody.
Of course he will, why wouldn't he?
Judges can be stupid. He has a very good chance at full custody, but still. It's not a certainty.
Joint-custody. Both he and his wife will have custody, I see no reasoning to give full custody to one parent or the other. There has been no domestic violence so they should both get custody.
She shouldn't have any custody. She cheated on him, and she just abandoned him again to meet up with the other dude, presumably to have sex.

She shouldn't have any type of custody. That's why I said I hope he gets full custody.
And that's not going to happen, she's still going to get custody unfortunately. This is the U.S after all.


 
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You guys,

Custody doesn't work the way you think it does. I would have to show that she is a danger to her children to get full. Besides, I do want her in their lives. Adopted or no, she is their mommy. I can't take that away from them or her. Remember, that even when the recent past is negative, we were married for 15 years. There was some good times there too. I will always love her, how could I not?

But, whatever she chooses, wherever she goes at this point, I can't be with her anymore. She did betray me, and she is showing no signs she wants to reconcile.