I've  become entirely happy with my self imposed semi-reclusion and singularity.

Help me.

Just be yourself, find a hobby or something other people will look at and possibly like you. I know everyone says it, but really just be yourself. There's actually a few girls who like me, it's such a weird feeling.

Relationships aren't all that great unless you really love somebody.

Problem with you is you didn't even try to meet people in college. You'd just play games all the time expecting some 10/10 to come through your door and give you a blow job. I remember a thread you made 2 years ago saying if you should go to a party and you decided not to go even though everybody in the thread was telling you to go.

I'm not sure what to tell you. All you do is wallow in self pity instead of taking the steps to be where you want to be. If you want something, go get it. It's that simple.

My time in college I had: One three month relationship sophomore year. Completely one-sided and we had nothing common, guess I was desperate.

Dated two women junior year, I think two dates each before they said not interested

Senior year, one date

Quote from: RomanGladiator on March 20, 2015, 09:09:13 AM

Quote from: challengerX on March 20, 2015, 08:59:21 AM

Relationships aren't all that great unless you really love somebody.

Problem with you is you didn't even try to meet people in college. You'd just play games all the time expecting some 10/10 to come through your door and give you a blow job. I remember a thread you made 2 years ago saying if you should go to a party and you decided not to go even though everybody in the thread was telling you to go.

I'm not sure what to tell you. All you do is wallow in self pity instead of taking the steps to be where you want to be. If you want something, go get it. It's that simple.

My time in college I had: One three month relationship sophomore year. Completely one-sided and we had nothing common, guess I was desperate.

Dated two women junior year, I think two dates each before they said not interested

Senior year, one date

What did you do and how did you act for all these women (barring the first one) to all be uninterested? Obviously they were interested at first. What did you do with them?

Nothing out of the ordinary. Went out to eat or coffee, and talked.

I'm not trying to sound like a badass, but the single life is nice because you can flirt with any girl you want and hook up. If you do the same, you'll enjoy it too rather than be desperate for a relationship.

I don't think anybody here can offer any solid advice. Because the one truth to it all, is that it is, at it's core, random chance.

That's all it is.

I sat down one day, and asked myself. Why am I not approached by anybody? Why, when I try to approach, do things end in a hang up or a hitch? Because for once here, just once, and only once. I will admit that I have more good qualities than bad. And while my bad qualities can be hard to deal with, I'd bet any money that in sight of somebody I'd just like to spend time with, they'd lessen.

I even did the general, estimated mathematics based on the number of my people in my province on age range, population centers, and so on.

I'm an outsider on who I am, what I do, and how I think.

I'm not alone. But the sheer chance, of bumping into a singular, other person like me, who likes me, is actually astronomically low. Even my family, has a terrible track record.

My mother got into a relationship, got divorced. Single ever since.

My father, same deal.

My Uncle. Always single.

My sister has been the only one to break that. And how'd she do it?

Chance. That's all it is. My only advice to you?

Either put everything you have into finding somebody. All your effort, every single thing you can try. Or saddle up for the long haul because it's one you'll do alone, likely for a very long time.

Ever thought that maybe you are one of the many growing group of people, that realize being single means freedom.

Yeah, but can binge gaming and watching as many movies as I want really fill the void of being with someone? It doesn't anymore. I've had three years of doing that.

I'm actually enjoying my bachelor status. Seems like a lot of effort to be in a relationship.

Quote from: Forgewolf on March 20, 2015, 09:47:18 AM

Ever thought that maybe you are one of the many growing group of people, that realize being single means freedom.

Yeah, but can binge gaming and watching as many movies as I want really fill the void of being with someone? It doesn't anymore. I've had three years of doing that.

Who said being single = being a recluse that only plays games and watches movies?

Quote from: RomanGladiator on March 20, 2015, 10:52:24 AM

Quote from: Forgewolf on March 20, 2015, 09:47:18 AM

Ever thought that maybe you are one of the many growing group of people, that realize being single means freedom.

Yeah, but can binge gaming and watching as many movies as I want really fill the void of being with someone? It doesn't anymore. I've had three years of doing that.

Who said being single = being a recluse that only plays games and watches movies?

That's what it's like for me. Sure, I work part-time, but I have too much escapism in my life that it barely feels like I'm experiencing anything else besides those things.

come to my house and play Mario Party with me

Try these tutorials.

Try Grindr.

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