An old man mistook me for a woman today

Considering we grew up in an era being told that you're supposed to lie about everything on the internet and not reveal any real personal information, coming clean in the new era of zero anonymity is kind of to be expected.

Its a transition between the old way and the new way that we all have to make.

I still regret some of the lies I made on b.net to preserve my personal identity to people who I considered my friends.

But that's what we were taught by people who could never have expected just how real the human interaction people share online really could be.

It's not your fault.

Dietrich Six · May 02, 2017, 12:48:22 PM

What am I reading

Solonoid · May 02, 2017, 12:50:19 PM

Quote from: Dietrich Six on May 02, 2017, 12:48:22 PM

What am I reading

The chapter in the chronicles of Sep7agon in which my boyfriend starts becoming my girlfriend.

Dietrich Six · May 02, 2017, 12:52:09 PM

Quote from: Ramona on May 02, 2017, 12:50:19 PM

Quote from: Dietrich Six on May 02, 2017, 12:48:22 PM
What am I reading
The chapter in the chronicles of Sep7agon in which my boyfriend starts becoming my girlfriend.

But I'm blind

Mr. Psychologist · May 02, 2017, 12:57:36 PM

Quote from: SecondClass on May 02, 2017, 12:10:15 PM

im so shit

only told my sister btw

i hate me so much 21 y/o doesmt have own place

Ask yourself this, is it that you have chosen not to move out because you like it at home?
Or is it because it's barely possible for someone of your age to move out and live independently with the sort of money you can earn?

As sol has already said above, these are values that were taught to this generation by a generation that lived in very different times. Don't hate yourself over something that is out of your control, just work towards the day where it is possible.

Ian · May 02, 2017, 01:02:36 PM

I'll also chime in: Don't ever get a pet. Just did groceries today, $100, 18 of which went to fucking catfood and litter. Pets are expensive.

Quote from: Mr. Psychologist on May 02, 2017, 12:57:36 PM

As sol has already said above, these are values that were taught to this generation by a generation that lived in very different times. Don't hate yourself over something that is out of your control, just work towards the day where it is possible.

Mr. Psychologist · May 02, 2017, 01:03:42 PM

Quote from: Ramona on May 02, 2017, 12:24:10 PM

Quote from: SecondClass on May 02, 2017, 12:11:56 PM
coming clean to sep7 and my fam

this is weird

its like 2 different lies
Considering we grew up in an era being told that you're supposed to lie about everything on the internet and not reveal any real personal information, coming clean in the new era of zero anonymity is kind of to be expected.

Its a transition between the old way and the new way that we all have to make.

I still regret some of the lies I made on b.net to preserve my personal identity to people who I considered my friends.

But that's what we were taught by people who could never have expected just how real the human interaction people share online really could be.

It's not your fault.

I still remember the anxiety on my grandparents faces when I was talking about friends that lived in another country.

I'm not too sure why, but I guess the degree of separation between two people talking online actually allows for a lot more honesty (with yourself, and with them). There are things that I can quite comfortably talk about online with friends, that would just sit unsaid and hidden with my friends in person.

Even the terminology doesn't sit right, I hate the term/distinction of 'internet friends' and 'IRL friends' because to me it just sounds like the friendship with people online is hollow.

It'll be interesting to see how Gen Z turns out having grown up with smartphones in their hands.

Mr. Psychologist · May 02, 2017, 01:04:41 PM

Quote from: Ian on May 02, 2017, 01:02:36 PM

I'll also chime in: Don't ever get a pet. Just did groceries today, $100, 18 of which went to fucking catfood and litter. Pets are expensive.

Quote from: Mr. Psychologist on May 02, 2017, 12:57:36 PM
As sol has already said above, these are values that were taught to this generation by a generation that lived in very different times. Don't hate yourself over something that is out of your control, just work towards the day where it is possible.

Tbh life with a pupper >>>> life without

Even if the little bastards never stop barking when I'm trying to work.

Ian · May 02, 2017, 01:07:08 PM

Quote from: Mr. Psychologist on May 02, 2017, 01:04:41 PM

Tbh life with a pupper >>>> life without

I think part of the problem is I ended up with a second cat I had no intention of taking care of and I'm now stuck with him because taking him to a shelter when he already has a home here is a huge dick move against the thing.

Quote

I'm not too sure why, but I guess the degree of separation between two people talking online actually allows for a lot more honesty (with yourself, and with them). There are things that I can quite comfortably talk about online with friends, that would just sit unsaid and hidden with my friends in person.

This also rings true for me.

Casper · May 02, 2017, 01:29:22 PM

Happens to me a lot at dinner. One woman came up to me once while I was shopping with my mom, and she like "Miss, can you help me?" and then got an attitude after my mom corrected her.

Solonoid · May 02, 2017, 01:36:21 PM

Quote from: Casper on May 02, 2017, 01:29:22 PM

Happens to me a lot at dinner. One woman came up to me once while I was shopping with my mom, and she like "Miss, can you help me?" and then got an attitude after my mom corrected her.

It used to happen to me all the time.

Not so much anymore.

Probably because I don't shave as much as I should, and usually have 5 o'clock shadow.

smh I'm not even trying to go trap mode

Aether · May 02, 2017, 02:31:23 PM

Quote from: SecondClass on May 02, 2017, 12:10:15 PM

i hate me so much 21 y/o doesmt have own place

I'll be 26 in 20 days and I live with my family still. I know plenty of other's that still do as well. My old weed man was about 30 still living with his mom, was cheaper that way.

ಠ_ಠ · May 02, 2017, 03:19:37 PM

Quote from: SecondClass on May 02, 2017, 12:05:34 PM

i live with my sister and mom an stepdad not w/ myself

i dont give a fucking shit anymore, full honesty

considering your circumstances it was kind of hard to believe you were able to support yourself so this isn't surprising

SecondClass · May 02, 2017, 03:20:14 PM

Quote from: Nuka on May 02, 2017, 03:19:37 PM

Quote from: SecondClass on May 02, 2017, 12:05:34 PM
i live with my sister and mom an stepdad not w/ myself

i dont give a fucking shit anymore, full honesty
considering your circumstances it was kind of hard to believe you were able to support yourself so this isn't surprising

yep im a liar and a moocher

Coomer · May 02, 2017, 03:21:51 PM

Yeah sure

ಠ_ಠ · May 02, 2017, 03:26:27 PM

Quote from: SecondClass on May 02, 2017, 03:20:14 PM

Quote from: Nuka on May 02, 2017, 03:19:37 PM

Quote from: SecondClass on May 02, 2017, 12:05:34 PM
i live with my sister and mom an stepdad not w/ myself

i dont give a fucking shit anymore, full honesty
considering your circumstances it was kind of hard to believe you were able to support yourself so this isn't surprising
yep im a liar and a moocher

eh
at least you're slowly becoming more honest over time

Hahahaha very funny Zonda · May 02, 2017, 04:33:03 PM

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Solonoid · May 02, 2017, 04:39:52 PM

Quote from: ねこ on May 02, 2017, 04:33:03 PM

Wait aren't we Gen Z?

No, the Millenial Generation is Gen Y.

I think Millenials are as old as thirty-two and as young as seventeen.

Onyx Sentinel · May 03, 2017, 07:21:16 AM

I'm confused, on your profile it says your female, so? What's this thread about?

challengerX · May 03, 2017, 07:54:48 AM

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