Do all men cheat?

PSU · October 09, 2015, 11:29:25 AM

Walked into the break room today at work and the view was on TV. One of the ladies was making some huge deal about how all men cheat.

Now obviously this isn't true, but do MOST men cheat?

I began to think about it and most dudes I have known have cheated on their girlfriends. I know thats the anecdotal evidence, but it began to make more sense to me. I also looked it up and apparently gay relationships have the highest rate of cheating.

Your thoughts?

Mad Max · October 09, 2015, 11:31:08 AM

I think most people cheat, regardless of gender. Some make it a habit. Some do it once and realize how shitty it is.

PSU · October 09, 2015, 11:34:03 AM

Quote from: Mad Max on October 09, 2015, 11:31:08 AM

I think most people cheat, regardless of gender. Some make it a habit. Some do it once and realize how shitty it is.

Very good point

Korra · October 09, 2015, 11:35:29 AM

In my experience, 1/2.

MyNameIsCharlie · October 09, 2015, 11:44:59 AM

I'd say in the same amount women cheat. In my case, Ex-Mrs Charlie cheated, in Foehammer's case, her baby-daddy cheated.

If you think about it, it takes two

Mad Max · October 09, 2015, 11:46:51 AM

Quote from: MyNameIsCharlie on October 09, 2015, 11:44:59 AM

I'd say in the same amount women cheat. In my case, Ex-Mrs Charlie cheated, in Foehammer's case, her baby-daddy cheated.

If you think about it, it takes two

I think it's shitty when the person who is cheated on gets mad at the third party for hooking up with your girl/guy. It's not the third person's fault.

Ender · October 09, 2015, 11:56:33 AM

Quote from: Mad Max on October 09, 2015, 11:46:51 AM

Quote from: MyNameIsCharlie on October 09, 2015, 11:44:59 AM
I'd say in the same amount women cheat. In my case, Ex-Mrs Charlie cheated, in Foehammer's case, her baby-daddy cheated.

If you think about it, it takes two
I think it's shitty when the person who is cheated on gets mad at the third party for hooking up with your girl/guy. It's not the third person's fault.

It depends.

If they knew it is

If not then it's fine.

ΚΑΤΑΝΑΛΩΤΗΣ · October 09, 2015, 12:11:00 PM

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Cindy · October 09, 2015, 12:28:21 PM

Quote from: HEAT SEEKING GHOST OF SEX on October 09, 2015, 12:13:58 PM

I cheated on a long-term girlfriend three times this year. I genuinely never thought I'd be that kind of guy, even a week before I started.

But when I did, honestly, I had trouble even feeling guilty.

So maybe it is true. I don't really know. I don't intend to cheat on anyone again.

Sounds like you're a pretty shit person, m8

MyNameIsCharlie · October 09, 2015, 12:29:05 PM

Quote from: Mad Max on October 09, 2015, 11:46:51 AM

Quote from: MyNameIsCharlie on October 09, 2015, 11:44:59 AM
I'd say in the same amount women cheat. In my case, Ex-Mrs Charlie cheated, in Foehammer's case, her baby-daddy cheated.

If you think about it, it takes two
I think it's shitty when the person who is cheated on gets mad at the third party for hooking up with your girl/guy. It's not the third person's fault.

I don't get mad at him for that. I get mad that he allowed her to run to his arms when he knew she had a newborn to care for in Florida. He should have had her deal with her life first, and got the nookie second

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Winy · October 09, 2015, 12:46:51 PM

I don't know, I googled the statistic and it said that 70% of men cheat at some point, but I feel like that isn't true...

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Cindy · October 09, 2015, 12:56:10 PM

Quote from: HEAT SEEKING GHOST OF SEX on October 09, 2015, 12:51:59 PM

Quote from: Winy on October 09, 2015, 12:46:51 PM
I don't know, I googled the statistic and it said that 70% of men cheat at some point, but I feel like that isn't true...
well

Some men don't have enough game to cheat

Some men lie about not cheating

It could go either way

Pretty sure "not having enough game to cheat" isn't the major factor in why people don't cheat, tho

SecondClass · October 09, 2015, 06:25:03 PM

I've only cheated once, and it wasn't an ongoing thing, just a night at a party. Other than that, I have no idea. I feel like men are more prone to it than women, though.

🍁 Aria 🔮 · October 09, 2015, 07:06:21 PM

http://www.kinseyinstitute.org/publications/PDF/Infidelity%20in%20hetero%20couples.pdf

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A total of 506 men (M age= 32.86 years, SD= 10.60) and 412 women (M age= 27.66 years, SD= 8.93), who indicated they were in a monogamous sexual relationship, completed a series of questionnaires, including the Sexual Excitation/Inhibition (SES/SIS) scales and the Mood and Sexuality Questionnaire, and answered questions about, among others, religiosity, education, income, relationship and sexual satisfaction, and sexual compatibility. Almost one-quarter of men (23.2%) and 19.2% of women indicated that they had ‘‘cheated’’ during their current relationship (i.e., engaged in sexual interactions with someone other than their partner that could jeopardize, or hurt, their relationship).

Mattie G Indahouse · October 09, 2015, 07:09:01 PM

Well I beat San Andreas using cheat codes.

Anonymous (User Deleted) · October 09, 2015, 08:10:24 PM

Quote from: PSU on October 09, 2015, 11:29:25 AM

I also looked it up and apparently gay relationships have the highest rate of cheating.

CK97 · October 09, 2015, 10:40:22 PM

Elai · October 09, 2015, 10:52:09 PM

I don't know. My personal experience is limited.

People are pretty shit though so I would have to say yeah, most people cheat.

PSU · October 10, 2015, 10:46:33 AM

Quote from: Kupo on October 09, 2015, 08:10:24 PM

Quote from: PSU on October 09, 2015, 11:29:25 AM
I also looked it up and apparently gay relationships have the highest rate of cheating.

All you gotta do is go and google it. Pretty easy to get info.

gats · October 10, 2015, 11:23:54 AM

Probably

Cadenza has moved on · October 10, 2015, 11:48:14 PM

Is it really that hard to keep it in your pants? I mean what's the point of getting in a relationship if you're just going to cheat?

Isara · October 11, 2015, 02:42:24 AM

I think lots of people cheat, but they just associate cheating with their partner's gender as a whole. I've met many guys who mainly complain that women cheat too often, and other hand the same with women about men.

Risay117 · October 11, 2015, 07:00:24 AM

Yes and No. Main reason of cheating is thst people are too pussy to end a dead relationship or are not aware of a dying relationship until they do. Basically boredom of the status quo. But ending a relationship is not easy and people usually do end up making the mistake of trying to avoid the topic.

But that is my opinion. What do I know about relationships.

rC · October 11, 2015, 09:18:37 AM

Quote from: HEAT SEEKING GHOST OF SEX on October 09, 2015, 12:13:58 PM

I cheated on a long-term girlfriend three times this year. I genuinely never thought I'd be that kind of guy, even a week before I started.

But when I did, honestly, I had trouble even feeling guilty.

So maybe it is true. I don't really know. I don't intend to cheat on anyone again.

you're shit dude

Ásgeirr · October 11, 2015, 10:40:54 AM

I sure as hell wouldnt be able to