What a night. I think I might snap.

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You should consider handling  your relationship issues before obtaining another infant.
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You best as hell fight the hardest for full custody. Make the point that you're the only one doing parenting and her disloyal behavior can have the possibilities of turning into child neglect


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If I'm not here, I'm doing photography. Or I'm asleep. Or in lockdown. One of those three, anyway.

The current titlebar/avatar setup is just normal.
Jesus, that is horrible news to hear. Not that it means much, but I hope you come through it all right.


And good on you for maintaining responsibility of care for the children. That is seriously hard shit to do considering the larger problem atm.


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Take care of yourself aswell, if you don't it will only hurt the kids more.


 
 
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Christ...

I'm really sorry to hear that, talk about it all piling up at once...

Whatever happens, I'm sure you will do a great job raising the both of them. This one is just from personal experience with shitfest broken homes but having siblings can make it easier, but that really depends a lot on the age and maturity of them, as well as what's going on.

Obviously you will know better as you are the one in the situation but from the sounds of it, it might be that you are raising them on your own.

This is the bit I want to highlight though, from what I've seen in broken homes (My own and those of my friends/former classmates) those with a decent father, or even a great one will turn out alright in the end. If the mother is just straight up not fit to be a mother, then provided the father is a stand up guy - they will come out alright. If the father is a shithead/absent and the mother isn't great... their chances are lowered somewhat. But in this case, I'm sure they will be alright. Especially with you raising them.

I will say good luck for the custody battle if it comes to that, you will more than likely get fucked over by it.


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Well good luck, and for the record, you deserve better than that poor excuse of a wife, seriously


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Im sorry Charlie. That some stupid shit to just drop out of nowhere. How do you think this is going to turn out for Nicholas and soon Alex?


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I can't even imagine what you must be going through.


 
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Fucking christ. You wanna swap shoes charlie? I've got a week left at the most in my state if this all keeps up.

I'm not really sure what I can say. Just, don't set your anger on Ms. Charlie. Take care of yourself, and keep your head straight. You got two little ones to take care of now. They're going to need you.


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Whatever happens, keep your children apart from it. I don't know what effect nasty break ups have on toddlers and infants, but it can't be good.


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Abandon everything. Leave the life behind that you once knew. Start fresh.


 
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Damn, life has been treating you like shit.
Sorry to hear.


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"flaming nipple chops"-Your host, the man they call Ghost.

To say, 'nothing is true', is to realize that the foundations of society are fragile, and that we must be the shepherds of our own civilization. To say, 'everything is permitted', is to understand that we are the architects of our actions, and that we must live with their consequences, whether glorious or tragic.
Shit just keeps getting worse for everyone recently, it seems.


 
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We knew the world would not be the same.
A few people laughed, a few people cried, most people were silent.
I remembered the line from the Hindu scripture, the Bhagavad-Gita.
Vishnu is trying to persuade the Prince that he should do his duty
and to impress him takes on his multi-armed form and says,
"Now, I am become Death, the destroyer of worlds.."
I suppose we all thought that one way or another.
Not to be rude, but it seems like you were craving for some new women anyway with the way you go saying things around here on this forum.


 
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We knew the world would not be the same.
A few people laughed, a few people cried, most people were silent.
I remembered the line from the Hindu scripture, the Bhagavad-Gita.
Vishnu is trying to persuade the Prince that he should do his duty
and to impress him takes on his multi-armed form and says,
"Now, I am become Death, the destroyer of worlds.."
I suppose we all thought that one way or another.
Shit just keeps getting worse for everyone recently, it seems.
ugh, you have no idea...
I keep my personal life private, but 2014 has by far been the worst year of my life.


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"flaming nipple chops"-Your host, the man they call Ghost.

To say, 'nothing is true', is to realize that the foundations of society are fragile, and that we must be the shepherds of our own civilization. To say, 'everything is permitted', is to understand that we are the architects of our actions, and that we must live with their consequences, whether glorious or tragic.
Shit just keeps getting worse for everyone recently, it seems.
ugh, you have no idea...
I keep my personal life private, but 2014 has by far been the worst year of my life.
We could make an entire thread dedicated to keeping track of everyone's problems at this point, and it could be the officially dedicated Most Depressing Thread on this website.

I don't think I could say this has been the worst year of my life, it's mostly just all the past shit in my life catching up with me and making me depressed with where I am in life and where I want to be instead.


 
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We knew the world would not be the same.
A few people laughed, a few people cried, most people were silent.
I remembered the line from the Hindu scripture, the Bhagavad-Gita.
Vishnu is trying to persuade the Prince that he should do his duty
and to impress him takes on his multi-armed form and says,
"Now, I am become Death, the destroyer of worlds.."
I suppose we all thought that one way or another.
Shit just keeps getting worse for everyone recently, it seems.
ugh, you have no idea...
I keep my personal life private, but 2014 has by far been the worst year of my life.
We could make an entire thread dedicated to keeping track of everyone's problems at this point, and it could be the officially dedicated Most Depressing Thread on this website.
Except I'm still keeping my personal life private because there are too many jackasses here.


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"flaming nipple chops"-Your host, the man they call Ghost.

To say, 'nothing is true', is to realize that the foundations of society are fragile, and that we must be the shepherds of our own civilization. To say, 'everything is permitted', is to understand that we are the architects of our actions, and that we must live with their consequences, whether glorious or tragic.
Shit just keeps getting worse for everyone recently, it seems.
ugh, you have no idea...
I keep my personal life private, but 2014 has by far been the worst year of my life.
We could make an entire thread dedicated to keeping track of everyone's problems at this point, and it could be the officially dedicated Most Depressing Thread on this website.
Except I'm still keeping my personal life private because there are too many jackasses here.
Nobody has been shown to be that much of a jackass to make fun or insult people for serious personal issues, that and nobody knows who you are, so a few comments about your life doesn't really give them much to use against you.

Still understand though


 
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We knew the world would not be the same.
A few people laughed, a few people cried, most people were silent.
I remembered the line from the Hindu scripture, the Bhagavad-Gita.
Vishnu is trying to persuade the Prince that he should do his duty
and to impress him takes on his multi-armed form and says,
"Now, I am become Death, the destroyer of worlds.."
I suppose we all thought that one way or another.
Shit just keeps getting worse for everyone recently, it seems.
ugh, you have no idea...
I keep my personal life private, but 2014 has by far been the worst year of my life.
We could make an entire thread dedicated to keeping track of everyone's problems at this point, and it could be the officially dedicated Most Depressing Thread on this website.
Except I'm still keeping my personal life private because there are too many jackasses here.
Nobody has been shown to be that much of a jackass to make fun or insult people for serious personal issues, that and nobody knows who you are, so a few comments about your life doesn't really give them much to use against you.

Still understand though
You'd be surprised.


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Im so sorry Charlie.
My mom discovered my father's affair during my Senior year. The day after New Year's.

I can tell you this from the child's perspective: there will be a lot of anger and feelings of betrayal. But make sure you process all of those feelings. Don't hold it in and avoid dealing with it.  You'll want to know why, but you may never get those answers, or it'll take time.






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Get of my lawn

Not to be rude, but it seems like you were craving for some new women anyway with the way you go saying things around here on this forum.

Things have been going badly for a while.


 
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We knew the world would not be the same.
A few people laughed, a few people cried, most people were silent.
I remembered the line from the Hindu scripture, the Bhagavad-Gita.
Vishnu is trying to persuade the Prince that he should do his duty
and to impress him takes on his multi-armed form and says,
"Now, I am become Death, the destroyer of worlds.."
I suppose we all thought that one way or another.

Not to be rude, but it seems like you were craving for some new women anyway with the way you go saying things around here on this forum.

Things have been going badly for a while.
Seems like.


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Get of my lawn


Not to be rude, but it seems like you were craving for some new women anyway with the way you go saying things around here on this forum.

Things have been going badly for a while.
Seems like.

In a perverse way, I felt relieved. At least now I know.


 
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Not to be rude, but it seems like you were craving for some new women anyway with the way you go saying things around here on this forum.

Things have been going badly for a while.
Seems like.

In a perverse way, I felt relieved. At least now I know.

My sympathies charles. It's still got to hurt. It's not something I've yet had the displeasure of encountering. But you have your life, and that counts for something. You have a future ahead. Maybe with ms. charlie, maybe not.

But so long as you've got breath in your lungs, you have something to look forward to. Life's an adventure. But there's bumps on the road, always. Fix your flat tire and keep rolling on the road charles.



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Shit dude. I can't believe Mrs. Charlie would do that to you.


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"Ornate chandeliers suspended from a vaulted ceiling lit the spacious chamber; Jack tilted his gaze overhead and noticed how far away they were.  His thoughts wove around those bright lights, like a dance of ether masses spiraling in precious unison. Why must we try to clutch desperately for the mere threads of this world when we can clasp onto a tapestry of untold magnificence beyond this plane of existence?"
fckin bitches man

I feel your pain
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"I've been battling with the struggle of love and anger and the anger has won. It's impossible for me to go back to the way I was. I've tried changing back but it didn't work. I still had it in me and doubt it will ever go away. I have no control over it anymore. It has become part of me."
Whatever happens, keep your children apart from it. I don't know what effect nasty break ups have on toddlers and infants, but it can't be good.
Actually they'll probably do better than him for a while.

Stuff like this is heavier on older kids.


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I'm surprised Rose hasn't been rubbing it in your face.


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I keep my personal life private
Yeah, good idea. No one's interested.