Moral Dilemma

Deesbee · September 21, 2014, 04:12:00 AM

So I have 99 problems and sadly, a bitch is one. So I have been with this girl for around 2-3 months, we work well together and we have been happy, really the only problem has been with other guys hitting on her. Around 1 month ago she confessed to me something she was lying about, she was actually a year younger than she originally had me believe. I was mad but I forgave her and we just don't talk about it, but by this time I had talked to her parents (I only mention this because it tells you that they know I exist).

Around a week ago the girl stopped talking to me (we live around 2 hours away from each other so a lot of communication is through FB), I started getting worried but out of nowhere she sent me a message saying she couldn't talk, another day or 2 with no response and she started explaining. Her parents took her phone and most access to talk to me, because they didn't want her to be with an older guy, so later in the conversation she told me they set her up with another guy who was closer to her age, and she ended up enjoying the first date. I appreciated her honesty but I was still upset.

She told me she still loves me, and she wants to be with me but she's afraid that she cannot keep me happy in this current state. I told her I am fine if she stops seeing this other guy, and this is where it got more complicated, she told me this guy is a family friend and he is head over heels for her and she doesn't like hurting people, but I had to draw the line somewhere and I told her that it's him or me. It was at this point her parents came home and she had to go, so we haven't really figured it out yet.

After she went I started talking to my best friend (also female) who knows everything about our relationship and she told me to cut it off with the girl (my best friend was never really a fan of how she treated me and thought of her as manipulative). I told her I couldn't and that I cared too much to just end it and leave her in the dust. At this point she proposed a deal, we would hang out and while hanging out she would block the girl, and after that we could spend some "quality time" together. I haven't had sex in around a year so in the heat of the moment I agreed. This is all supposed to happen tomorrow and I am really not sure what I should do. Should I go through with it? Should I cancel and keep trying with the girl? Or should I move to bel-air and become the fresh prince?

For the long post here is cleavage:

ಠ_ಠ · September 21, 2014, 04:12:57 AM

I'm glad I only read the first two sentences before glancing at the last sentence.

Deesbee · September 21, 2014, 04:14:04 AM

Quote from: Nuka on September 21, 2014, 04:12:57 AM

I'm glad I only read the first two sentences before glancing at the last sentence.

It's a real dilemma, I just wanted to make a fresh prince joke :p.

ಠ_ಠ · September 21, 2014, 04:14:47 AM

Quote from: Mr Whiteflame on September 21, 2014, 04:14:04 AM

Quote from: Nuka on September 21, 2014, 04:12:57 AM
I'm glad I only read the first two sentences before glancing at the last sentence.
It's a real dilemma, I just wanted to make a fresh prince joke :p.

Oh. Damn.
Now I look silly.

Deesbee · September 21, 2014, 04:15:22 AM

Quote from: Nuka on September 21, 2014, 04:14:47 AM

Quote from: Mr Whiteflame on September 21, 2014, 04:14:04 AM

Quote from: Nuka on September 21, 2014, 04:12:57 AM
I'm glad I only read the first two sentences before glancing at the last sentence.
It's a real dilemma, I just wanted to make a fresh prince joke :p.
Oh. Damn.
Now I look silly.

Nah you still look sexy AF.

Solonoid · September 21, 2014, 04:30:05 AM

Day 9: I am certain I will die on this wall.
I have been too long without food, water, or general reprieve.
Tell my wife I love her.

Deesbee · September 21, 2014, 04:33:21 AM

Quote from: Solonoid on September 21, 2014, 04:30:05 AM

Day 9: I am certain I will die on this wall.
I have been too long without food, water, or general reprieve.
Tell my wife I love her.

At least I put cracks in.

gats · September 21, 2014, 04:37:58 AM

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really the only problem has been with other guys hitting on her.

Only insecure beta faggots find this a problem, if she likes you then why the fuck are you worried by it?

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she was actually a year younger than she originally had me believe

I was going to ask why this is a problem but then I remembered you're really young.

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Her parents took her phone and most access to talk to me, because they didn't want her to be with an older guy

Stop going out with little kids.

Deesbee · September 21, 2014, 04:41:25 AM

Quote from: Gatsby on September 21, 2014, 04:37:58 AM

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really the only problem has been with other guys hitting on her.
Only insecure beta faggots find this a problem, if she likes you then why the fuck are you worried by it?

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she was actually a year younger than she originally had me believe
I was going to ask why this is a problem but then I remembered you're really young.

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Her parents took her phone and most access to talk to me, because they didn't want her to be with an older guy
Stop going out with little kids.

Wow, still butthurt after all this time? Lel, fuckin' pathetic.

gats · September 21, 2014, 06:43:49 AM

Quote from: Mr Whiteflame on September 21, 2014, 04:41:25 AM

Quote from: Gatsby on September 21, 2014, 04:37:58 AM
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really the only problem has been with other guys hitting on her.
Only insecure beta faggots find this a problem, if she likes you then why the fuck are you worried by it?

Quote
she was actually a year younger than she originally had me believe
I was going to ask why this is a problem but then I remembered you're really young.

Quote
Her parents took her phone and most access to talk to me, because they didn't want her to be with an older guy
Stop going out with little kids.

Wow, still butthurt after all this time? Lel, fuckin' pathetic.

You have a dilemma, I'm giving you advice.

Deesbee · September 21, 2014, 07:05:16 AM

Quote from: Gatsby on September 21, 2014, 06:43:49 AM

Quote from: Mr Whiteflame on September 21, 2014, 04:41:25 AM

Quote from: Gatsby on September 21, 2014, 04:37:58 AM
Quote
really the only problem has been with other guys hitting on her.
Only insecure beta faggots find this a problem, if she likes you then why the fuck are you worried by it?

Quote
she was actually a year younger than she originally had me believe
I was going to ask why this is a problem but then I remembered you're really young.

Quote
Her parents took her phone and most access to talk to me, because they didn't want her to be with an older guy
Stop going out with little kids.

Wow, still butthurt after all this time? Lel, fuckin' pathetic.
You have a dilemma, I'm giving you advice.

Avoiding the point of how butthurt you are again? Lol, this is just pathetic man, get over your ego.

gats · September 21, 2014, 07:18:17 AM

Quote from: Mr Whiteflame on September 21, 2014, 07:05:16 AM

Quote from: Gatsby on September 21, 2014, 06:43:49 AM
Quote from: Mr Whiteflame on September 21, 2014, 04:41:25 AM

Quote from: Gatsby on September 21, 2014, 04:37:58 AM
Quote
really the only problem has been with other guys hitting on her.
Only insecure beta faggots find this a problem, if she likes you then why the fuck are you worried by it?

Quote
she was actually a year younger than she originally had me believe
I was going to ask why this is a problem but then I remembered you're really young.

Quote
Her parents took her phone and most access to talk to me, because they didn't want her to be with an older guy
Stop going out with little kids.

Wow, still butthurt after all this time? Lel, fuckin' pathetic.
You have a dilemma, I'm giving you advice.
Avoiding the point of how butthurt you are again? Lol, this is just pathetic man, get over your ego.

Haha yes I'm the butthurt one

Sprungli · September 21, 2014, 07:20:49 AM

Fuck her in the first place

^This predictive text thing is going well

More Than Mortal · September 21, 2014, 07:22:30 AM

So your options are stick with a probably shitty, potentially manipulative, relationship or stick your dick in somebody else?

In what fucking realm of reality does this trespass on morality?

Deesbee · September 21, 2014, 10:44:14 AM

Quote from: Gatsby on September 21, 2014, 07:18:17 AM

Quote from: Mr Whiteflame on September 21, 2014, 07:05:16 AM

Quote from: Gatsby on September 21, 2014, 06:43:49 AM
Quote from: Mr Whiteflame on September 21, 2014, 04:41:25 AM

Quote from: Gatsby on September 21, 2014, 04:37:58 AM
Quote
really the only problem has been with other guys hitting on her.
Only insecure beta faggots find this a problem, if she likes you then why the fuck are you worried by it?

Quote
she was actually a year younger than she originally had me believe
I was going to ask why this is a problem but then I remembered you're really young.

Quote
Her parents took her phone and most access to talk to me, because they didn't want her to be with an older guy
Stop going out with little kids.

Wow, still butthurt after all this time? Lel, fuckin' pathetic.
You have a dilemma, I'm giving you advice.
Avoiding the point of how butthurt you are again? Lol, this is just pathetic man, get over your ego.
Haha yes I'm the butthurt one

Consider you have gone out of your way to attack me in every thread, as well as admitting it on the main site, yeah you are XD.

gats · September 21, 2014, 10:47:06 AM

Quote from: Mr Whiteflame on September 21, 2014, 10:44:14 AM

Quote from: Gatsby on September 21, 2014, 07:18:17 AM
Quote from: Mr Whiteflame on September 21, 2014, 07:05:16 AM

Quote from: Gatsby on September 21, 2014, 06:43:49 AM
Quote from: Mr Whiteflame on September 21, 2014, 04:41:25 AM

Quote from: Gatsby on September 21, 2014, 04:37:58 AM
Quote
really the only problem has been with other guys hitting on her.
Only insecure beta faggots find this a problem, if she likes you then why the fuck are you worried by it?

Quote
she was actually a year younger than she originally had me believe
I was going to ask why this is a problem but then I remembered you're really young.

Quote
Her parents took her phone and most access to talk to me, because they didn't want her to be with an older guy
Stop going out with little kids.

Wow, still butthurt after all this time? Lel, fuckin' pathetic.
You have a dilemma, I'm giving you advice.
Avoiding the point of how butthurt you are again? Lol, this is just pathetic man, get over your ego.
Haha yes I'm the butthurt one
Consider you have gone out of your way to attack me in every thread, as well as admitting it on the main site, yeah you are XD.

Butthurt

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DAS B00T x2 · September 21, 2014, 10:48:07 AM

So what's the actual age gap?

Deesbee · September 21, 2014, 10:53:59 AM

Quote from: DAS B00T x2 on September 21, 2014, 10:48:07 AM

So what's the actual age gap?

she told me she's 16and she's actually 15 I'm 17 turning 18 in Jan.

Deesbee · September 21, 2014, 10:54:30 AM

Quote from: Gatsby on September 21, 2014, 10:47:06 AM

Quote from: Mr Whiteflame on September 21, 2014, 10:44:14 AM

Quote from: Gatsby on September 21, 2014, 07:18:17 AM
Quote from: Mr Whiteflame on September 21, 2014, 07:05:16 AM

Quote from: Gatsby on September 21, 2014, 06:43:49 AM
Quote from: Mr Whiteflame on September 21, 2014, 04:41:25 AM

Quote from: Gatsby on September 21, 2014, 04:37:58 AM
Quote
really the only problem has been with other guys hitting on her.
Only insecure beta faggots find this a problem, if she likes you then why the fuck are you worried by it?

Quote
she was actually a year younger than she originally had me believe
I was going to ask why this is a problem but then I remembered you're really young.

Quote
Her parents took her phone and most access to talk to me, because they didn't want her to be with an older guy
Stop going out with little kids.

Wow, still butthurt after all this time? Lel, fuckin' pathetic.
You have a dilemma, I'm giving you advice.
Avoiding the point of how butthurt you are again? Lol, this is just pathetic man, get over your ego.
Haha yes I'm the butthurt one
Consider you have gone out of your way to attack me in every thread, as well as admitting it on the main site, yeah you are XD.
Butthurt

Ohh pushed into dat corner doe.

SecondClass · September 21, 2014, 11:06:12 AM

Quote from: Gatsby on September 21, 2014, 04:37:58 AM

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really the only problem has been with other guys hitting on her.
Only insecure beta faggots find this a problem, if she likes you then why the fuck are you worried by it?

Quote
she was actually a year younger than she originally had me believe
I was going to ask why this is a problem but then I remembered you're really young.

Quote
Her parents took her phone and most access to talk to me, because they didn't want her to be with an older guy
Stop going out with little kids.

Pretty much this.

Also, way to hide a shitty girl problem thread as a "moral dilemma" thread.

DAS B00T x2 · September 21, 2014, 11:08:07 AM

Quote from: Mr Whiteflame on September 21, 2014, 10:53:59 AM

Quote from: DAS B00T x2 on September 21, 2014, 10:48:07 AM
So what's the actual age gap?
she told me she's 16and she's actually 15 I'm 17 turning 18 in Jan.

All "niceeeeeee" aside, she founded the relationship on a lie and her parents clearly don't approve of you. Are you willing to deal with that?

Deesbee · September 21, 2014, 11:12:36 AM

Quote from: DAS B00T x2 on September 21, 2014, 11:08:07 AM

Quote from: Mr Whiteflame on September 21, 2014, 10:53:59 AM

Quote from: DAS B00T x2 on September 21, 2014, 10:48:07 AM
So what's the actual age gap?
she told me she's 16and she's actually 15 I'm 17 turning 18 in Jan.
All "niceeeeeee" aside, she founded the relationship on a lie and her parents clearly don't approve of you. Are you willing to deal with that?

I have so far and if she breaks breaks it off with the other guy I'm fine with anything life throws at us.