How do you deal with her leaving?

K'tan Dantaktee · January 21, 2015, 09:57:44 PM

Title says it all.

She brought me back from the brink, gave me a reason to change and better myself. She made me want to be good; she's the one who led me to God. She was the one who I shared everything with, the one who I always felt comfortable with; the one I could always talk to. For years, she was my closest friend and the one I wanted to spend every second of the rest of my life with; the one I would have died a thousand deaths for. I loved her with every fiber of my being. I was hardened and unfeeling for so long; committing so many things I still regret to this day. Emotions were foreign to me; love, happiness, joy, anything good was alien. I felt nothing but hatred and malevolence, and then I met her. And then suddenly: nothing. Complete severance of communication. She goes out of her way to avoid me, and whenever we end up in the same discussion she immediately just breaks off. She ignores my calls, texts, messages, even my simple "hello's" when I walk by. She was the reason I turned away from the darkness; she was my anchor. Now that she's gone, what is to stop me from simply falling back into it? I already have done so to a degree.

Sorry for the rant; I just needed to get that out.

ITT: Share what you do when those you love leave you.

DAS B00T x2 · January 21, 2015, 09:59:42 PM

Spoiler

Mad Max · January 21, 2015, 09:59:55 PM

Quote from: KtanDantaktee on January 21, 2015, 09:57:44 PM

she's the one who led me to God.

I'm sorry to hear that.

Jim · January 21, 2015, 10:00:44 PM

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Verbatim · January 21, 2015, 10:00:50 PM

I don't take breaking communication well, no matter who you are. I tend to do everything in my power to rectify the situation.

Muffin Master · January 21, 2015, 10:00:55 PM

Distract yourself with gaming or go out with mates. Play some sports. Read some shit. Relax with music. Chat to others, go out and meet new people.

Ásgeirr · January 21, 2015, 10:01:52 PM

Never had that happen

Nexus · January 21, 2015, 10:02:20 PM

Music and blow. Nigga.

Azumarill · January 21, 2015, 10:02:21 PM

i cant empathize. just find a way to distract yourself from the pain and then slowly, surely try to move on.

nͫiͤcͫeͤ · January 21, 2015, 10:02:21 PM

get a new gf as quick as possible

Verbatim · January 21, 2015, 10:03:11 PM

Quote from: Verbatim on January 21, 2015, 10:00:50 PM

no matter who you are.

Well, correction. You have to be someone I like/care about, obviously. If some dumb no-name cunt mutes me because I call him a dumb no-name cunt, then... well, I mean, I'm not gonna give as much of a shit, quite obviously.

Or if I hate you in general. If I hate you, I want nothing more than for you to mute me.

Yu · January 21, 2015, 10:04:00 PM

Didn't bother me much, considering it only lasted a month for me.

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Ushan · January 21, 2015, 10:08:20 PM

Well, I can't tell you anything about being left, I do know a lot about letting go.

R o c k e t · January 21, 2015, 10:10:11 PM

I hurt like everyone else does. I ask questions, I wonder.
But I don't turn my back on the things that kept me going.

I cling to them. And though I'd delve in dark thinking, I wouldn't let myself fall in.
Keep close to those who build you up. That's how you overcome struggle.

K'tan Dantaktee · January 21, 2015, 10:10:57 PM

Quote from: Mad Max on January 21, 2015, 09:59:55 PM

Quote from: KtanDantaktee on January 21, 2015, 09:57:44 PM
she's the one who led me to God.
I'm sorry to hear that.

It beats homosexual satanist who passed the time by breaking people and destroying friendships/families/relationships.

You know how in cartoons and shows the "bad guy" pops the balloon of a kid and/or smacks the ice cream out of their hand? I actually did that once, just for the hell of it. I also tormented a young couple who recently had to watch their 2 year old daughter die of cancer. I regret the latter more.

Mad Max · January 21, 2015, 10:13:28 PM

Quote from: KtanDantaktee on January 21, 2015, 10:10:57 PM

Quote from: Mad Max on January 21, 2015, 09:59:55 PM
Quote from: KtanDantaktee on January 21, 2015, 09:57:44 PM
she's the one who led me to God.
I'm sorry to hear that.

It beats homosexual satanist who passed the time by breaking people and destroying friendships/families/relationships.

Yes, because obviously that's the only other choice.

PSU · January 21, 2015, 10:13:45 PM

Quote from: Mad Max on January 21, 2015, 09:59:55 PM

Quote from: KtanDantaktee on January 21, 2015, 09:57:44 PM
she's the one who led me to God.
I'm sorry to hear that.

A+

OT: I get sad whenever "she" being either my wife or mom leaves for an extended period of time. To cope? Netflix makes the time past faster.

K'tan Dantaktee · January 21, 2015, 10:15:36 PM

Quote from: Mad Max on January 21, 2015, 10:13:28 PM

Quote from: KtanDantaktee on January 21, 2015, 10:10:57 PM
Quote from: Mad Max on January 21, 2015, 09:59:55 PM
Quote from: KtanDantaktee on January 21, 2015, 09:57:44 PM
she's the one who led me to God.
I'm sorry to hear that.

It beats homosexual satanist who passed the time by breaking people and destroying friendships/families/relationships.
Yes, because obviously that's the only other choice.

Yes, it is. Darkness or light. It all starts off "innocent," and then it gradually gets worse. I started off as an atheist who recently left his faith because of stuff, and then slowly I did this and that, getting darker and darker.

Tyger · January 21, 2015, 10:18:44 PM

Jerk off until your dick bleeds

Ushan · January 21, 2015, 10:19:41 PM

Quote from: KtanDantaktee on January 21, 2015, 10:10:57 PM

Quote from: Mad Max on January 21, 2015, 09:59:55 PM
Quote from: KtanDantaktee on January 21, 2015, 09:57:44 PM
she's the one who led me to God.
I'm sorry to hear that.

It beats homosexual satanist who passed the time by breaking people and destroying friendships/families/relationships.

You know how in cartoons and shows the "bad guy" pops the balloon of a kid and/or smacks the ice cream out of their hand? I actually did that once, just for the hell of it. I also tormented a young couple who recently had to watch their 2 year old daughter die of cancer. I regret the latter more.

You didn't do it because you were an atheist, you did it because you were an asshole.

SecondClass · January 21, 2015, 10:22:32 PM

The only person who's departure affected me didn't leave voluntarily, but I still didn't get to say goodbye. There wasn't much I could do. But, the point of this was to tell you that if you let go of her, you can at least get some closure.

cxfhvxgkcf-56:7 · January 21, 2015, 10:23:09 PM

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Mad Max · January 21, 2015, 10:23:18 PM

Quote from: KtanDantaktee on January 21, 2015, 10:15:36 PM

Quote from: Mad Max on January 21, 2015, 10:13:28 PM
Quote from: KtanDantaktee on January 21, 2015, 10:10:57 PM
Quote from: Mad Max on January 21, 2015, 09:59:55 PM
Quote from: KtanDantaktee on January 21, 2015, 09:57:44 PM
she's the one who led me to God.
I'm sorry to hear that.

It beats homosexual satanist who passed the time by breaking people and destroying friendships/families/relationships.
Yes, because obviously that's the only other choice.

Yes, it is. Darkness or light. It all starts off "innocent," and then it gradually gets worse. I started off as an atheist who recently left his faith because of stuff, and then slowly I did this and that, getting darker and darker.

Your faith, or lack thereof, has nothing to do with that stuff.

DAS B00T x2 · January 21, 2015, 10:23:31 PM

Quote from: KtanDantaktee on January 21, 2015, 10:15:36 PM

Quote from: Mad Max on January 21, 2015, 10:13:28 PM
Quote from: KtanDantaktee on January 21, 2015, 10:10:57 PM
Quote from: Mad Max on January 21, 2015, 09:59:55 PM
Quote from: KtanDantaktee on January 21, 2015, 09:57:44 PM
she's the one who led me to God.
I'm sorry to hear that.

It beats homosexual satanist who passed the time by breaking people and destroying friendships/families/relationships.
Yes, because obviously that's the only other choice.

Yes, it is. Darkness or light. It all starts off "innocent," and then it gradually gets worse. I started off as an atheist who recently left his faith because of stuff, and then slowly I did this and that, getting darker and darker.

Right, so when do I start burning down orphanages and raping little girls, because I've been atheistic for more than a few years now.

aREALgod · January 21, 2015, 10:30:15 PM

Take that and add on 6 years of history with that person and that's similar to something that happened with me. Only now, oddly enough, she's back in my life.

Also, v this v is how I dealt with it, and still do at times. THANKS DAS U UNDERSTAND ME BBY

Quote from: DAS B00T x2 on January 21, 2015, 09:59:42 PM

Spoiler

Assassin 11D7 · January 21, 2015, 10:31:40 PM

Quote from: DAS B00T x2 on January 21, 2015, 10:23:31 PM

Quote from: KtanDantaktee on January 21, 2015, 10:15:36 PM
Quote from: Mad Max on January 21, 2015, 10:13:28 PM
Quote from: KtanDantaktee on January 21, 2015, 10:10:57 PM
Quote from: Mad Max on January 21, 2015, 09:59:55 PM
Quote from: KtanDantaktee on January 21, 2015, 09:57:44 PM
she's the one who led me to God.
I'm sorry to hear that.

It beats homosexual satanist who passed the time by breaking people and destroying friendships/families/relationships.
Yes, because obviously that's the only other choice.

Yes, it is. Darkness or light. It all starts off "innocent," and then it gradually gets worse. I started off as an atheist who recently left his faith because of stuff, and then slowly I did this and that, getting darker and darker.
Right, so when do I start burning down orphanages and raping little girls, because I've been atheistic for more than a few years now.

I think you need to convert to Islam for that. Atheists are only allowed a +10 Euphoria boost and the ability to steal from children while slapping good God-fearing Christians with their dicks.

DAS B00T x2 · January 21, 2015, 10:33:27 PM

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Quote from: DAS B00T x2 on January 21, 2015, 10:23:31 PM
Quote from: KtanDantaktee on January 21, 2015, 10:15:36 PM
Quote from: Mad Max on January 21, 2015, 10:13:28 PM
Quote from: KtanDantaktee on January 21, 2015, 10:10:57 PM
Quote from: Mad Max on January 21, 2015, 09:59:55 PM
Quote from: KtanDantaktee on January 21, 2015, 09:57:44 PM
she's the one who led me to God.
I'm sorry to hear that.

It beats homosexual satanist who passed the time by breaking people and destroying friendships/families/relationships.
Yes, because obviously that's the only other choice.

Yes, it is. Darkness or light. It all starts off "innocent," and then it gradually gets worse. I started off as an atheist who recently left his faith because of stuff, and then slowly I did this and that, getting darker and darker.
Right, so when do I start burning down orphanages and raping little girls, because I've been atheistic for more than a few years now.
I think you need to convert to Islam for that. Atheists are only allowed a +10 Euphoria boost and the ability to steal from children while slapping good God-fearing Christians with their dicks.

Well fuck. How do I change my class again?

Elegiac · January 21, 2015, 10:37:28 PM

Don't listen to Ryle. Combine Nexus, Verbatim and Tyger's advice. Become a mean, lean reclaiming machine. Like Sandy at the end of Grease, LOL.

Assassin 11D7 · January 21, 2015, 10:38:53 PM

Quote from: DAS B00T x2 on January 21, 2015, 10:33:27 PM

Quote from: Assassin 11D7 on January 21, 2015, 10:31:40 PM
Quote from: DAS B00T x2 on January 21, 2015, 10:23:31 PM
Quote from: KtanDantaktee on January 21, 2015, 10:15:36 PM
Quote from: Mad Max on January 21, 2015, 10:13:28 PM
Quote from: KtanDantaktee on January 21, 2015, 10:10:57 PM
Quote from: Mad Max on January 21, 2015, 09:59:55 PM
Quote from: KtanDantaktee on January 21, 2015, 09:57:44 PM
she's the one who led me to God.
I'm sorry to hear that.

It beats homosexual satanist who passed the time by breaking people and destroying friendships/families/relationships.
Yes, because obviously that's the only other choice.

Yes, it is. Darkness or light. It all starts off "innocent," and then it gradually gets worse. I started off as an atheist who recently left his faith because of stuff, and then slowly I did this and that, getting darker and darker.
Right, so when do I start burning down orphanages and raping little girls, because I've been atheistic for more than a few years now.
I think you need to convert to Islam for that. Atheists are only allowed a +10 Euphoria boost and the ability to steal from children while slapping good God-fearing Christians with their dicks.
Well fuck. How do I change my class again?

Have you tried turning it off and back on again?