How do I make friends?

Dan · June 22, 2016, 04:11:50 PM

Basically haven't made any new friends since graduating high school.

pls help

DAS B00T x2 · June 22, 2016, 04:18:54 PM

Get a job.
Go do stuff with your coworkers on the weekend
Accidentally fall in love with one
Slowly open him up to experimenting with other men
Get fired for dating a coworker because he told his best friend who he thought he could trust about his new conflicting feelings
Be ridiculed as you take your stuff out of the office, you faggot

SecondClass · June 22, 2016, 04:19:20 PM

meet me irl and we can be best friends <3

Casper · June 22, 2016, 04:29:18 PM

I dunno, my friend and I cant figure it out at college. The only friends we have are the ones from high school. Normal people are so boring

Desty · June 22, 2016, 04:36:08 PM

You have to find ways to relay information about yourself while also taking in info about them. Then there's the fact that you have to find activities, or any sort of interaction factors that you both need to share.

You could meet the coolest person ever, and that person could like you, but if there's no reason to hang out you won't. On the other hand you could see the coolest person ever but that person could be oblivious to you. If you introduce yourself and ask for a number they'll most likely disagree since you're a total stranger, and you could be a nuisance or a really boring person.

Alternatively you could go on the internet and find friends through chat rooms or forums/games whatever

gats · June 22, 2016, 04:44:02 PM

You don't. That shit is normie af

Ushan · June 23, 2016, 12:07:57 AM

Join a cult?

Winy · June 23, 2016, 12:14:06 AM

You need to get out of your comfort zone and just go to places where others are.

Parties, bars, etc.

Jive Turkey · June 23, 2016, 12:21:04 AM

Explain to me your situation.

Age?
Work?
School?
Do you live in a big city or small town?
Roommates or live alone or with parents?

The basic advice is to frequent areas where people who share your hobbies will be. Art galleries, libraries, skatepark, IDK lol. For me I can quickly make friends because of the gym, many people similar to me frequent there no matter what city I live in.

You're going to have to step out of your comfort zone and talk to people, be friendly and agreeable but don't seem TOO eager to make friends. Most people are actually a bit uncomfortable with adding a new person to their social group right away.

snee0rp · June 23, 2016, 01:29:03 AM

Uh, you don't get to bring friends.

Death · June 23, 2016, 01:39:05 AM

Just open your mouth.
Like, don't sell your body, just talk to people. and if you're charismatic people will like you.

Kiwicake · June 23, 2016, 01:58:14 AM

I honestly don't know

I think I'm only getting better at alienating them instead

Naru · June 23, 2016, 02:18:17 AM

just tell them you eat ass