Asexual Discussion

Cheat · September 12, 2014, 01:25:05 AM

Quote from: Weed Commando on September 12, 2014, 01:23:54 AM

Quote from: Cheat on September 12, 2014, 01:20:41 AM
Nah. Count me out and let someone else have the fun.

Spoiler
I'm asexual, anyway.
Asexual as in "I'm a butthurt fedora-wearer and I'm trying to repress my urges" or actually asexual?

Let me try this...hold on.

>Is 22
>Doesn't want to fuck anyone
>Ever.

EDIT: Split the topic so we don't derail the thread. I suppose this could be an AMA or something.

Reciffo_Smmoc · September 12, 2014, 01:26:50 AM

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Solonoid · September 12, 2014, 01:28:00 AM

Quote from: Cheat on September 12, 2014, 01:25:05 AM

Quote from: Weed Commando on September 12, 2014, 01:23:54 AM
Quote from: Cheat on September 12, 2014, 01:20:41 AM
Nah. Count me out and let someone else have the fun.

Spoiler
I'm asexual, anyway.
Asexual as in "I'm a butthurt fedora-wearer and I'm trying to repress my urges" or actually asexual?
Let me try this...hold on.

>Is 22
>Doesn't want to fuck anyone
>Ever.

>somehow magically isn't a little bitch about it like verbatim

Spoiler

This is why greentext should be automatic.

MyNameIsCharlie · September 12, 2014, 01:29:16 AM

Quote from: Cheat on September 12, 2014, 01:25:05 AM

Quote from: Weed Commando on September 12, 2014, 01:23:54 AM
Quote from: Cheat on September 12, 2014, 01:20:41 AM
Nah. Count me out and let someone else have the fun.

Spoiler
I'm asexual, anyway.
Asexual as in "I'm a butthurt fedora-wearer and I'm trying to repress my urges" or actually asexual?
Let me try this...hold on.

>Is 22
>Doesn't want to fuck anyone
>Ever.

I've been there. Cheat, we need to party in DC. You need a little more.

In DC... If I get a hall pass... let's just say that the weekend would be legendary. I think I have some Cialis left over from a urologist friend that used it to party. That WILL be needed.

Sandtrap · September 12, 2014, 01:31:00 AM

Quote from: Cheat on September 12, 2014, 01:25:05 AM

Quote from: Weed Commando on September 12, 2014, 01:23:54 AM
Quote from: Cheat on September 12, 2014, 01:20:41 AM
Nah. Count me out and let someone else have the fun.

Spoiler
I'm asexual, anyway.
Asexual as in "I'm a butthurt fedora-wearer and I'm trying to repress my urges" or actually asexual?
Let me try this...hold on.

>Is 22
>Doesn't want to fuck anyone
>Ever.

Hey guess I'm late for the party too. I'm not real big of a fan of partners even. Longest I've been on my own in complete isolation without a word of human contact was three months.

That was fun.

Cheat · September 12, 2014, 01:32:27 AM

Quote from: Weed Commando on September 12, 2014, 01:26:50 AM

Quote from: Cheat on September 12, 2014, 01:25:05 AM
Quote from: Weed Commando on September 12, 2014, 01:23:54 AM
Quote from: Cheat on September 12, 2014, 01:20:41 AM
Nah. Count me out and let someone else have the fun.

Spoiler
I'm asexual, anyway.
Asexual as in "I'm a butthurt fedora-wearer and I'm trying to repress my urges" or actually asexual?
Let me try this...hold on.

>Is 22
>Doesn't want to fuck anyone
>Ever.
Well, that's not really conclusive. Was the fact that you've never fucked anyone imposed on you, or did you just pass up opportunities cause you didn't really give a shit?

Eh...no opportunities, but I don't see myself ever actually wanting to "go for it" if it were to occur.

I mean, I guess it's possible on some remote level that I'm subconsciously suppressing my urges, but I'm not aware of it and it doesn't cause me any strife unless my consistent lack of partner is brought to attention in real life. And even then it's just a bit awkward to explain that I don't have a girlfriend/boyfriend and never have.

EDIT: This conversation should probably go to a new thread before we derail this one any more.

Reciffo_Smmoc · September 12, 2014, 01:36:22 AM

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Juuzou · September 12, 2014, 01:42:48 AM

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Cheat · September 12, 2014, 01:44:53 AM

Quote from: Weed Commando on September 12, 2014, 01:36:22 AM

Quote from: Cheat on September 12, 2014, 01:32:27 AM
Quote from: Weed Commando on September 12, 2014, 01:26:50 AM
Quote from: Cheat on September 12, 2014, 01:25:05 AM
Quote from: Weed Commando on September 12, 2014, 01:23:54 AM
Quote from: Cheat on September 12, 2014, 01:20:41 AM
Nah. Count me out and let someone else have the fun.

Spoiler
I'm asexual, anyway.
Asexual as in "I'm a butthurt fedora-wearer and I'm trying to repress my urges" or actually asexual?
Let me try this...hold on.

>Is 22
>Doesn't want to fuck anyone
>Ever.
Well, that's not really conclusive. Was the fact that you've never fucked anyone imposed on you, or did you just pass up opportunities cause you didn't really give a shit?
Eh...no opportunities, but I don't see myself ever actually wanting to "go for it" if it were to occur.

I mean, I guess it's possible on some remote level that I'm subconsciously suppressing my urges, but I'm not aware of it and it doesn't cause me any strife unless my consistent lack of partner is brought to attention in real life. And even then it's just a bit awkward to explain that I don't have a girlfriend/boyfriend and never have.

EDIT: This conversation should probably go to a new thread before we derail this one any more.
You could be. I dunno, just get into a really intense (and social situation (involving girls)), and see what happens?

I can't see anything like you're suggesting happening, to be honest. I don't really view anyone as sexually attractive, so we'd either end up talking about something really awesome or it would be awkward and we'd go our separate ways.

For real, in one of my classes I didn't even realize an overwhelming portion of the entire room was made up of women until it was pointed out to me.

MyNameIsCharlie · September 12, 2014, 01:46:30 AM

I responded to you in my thread, when I guess it belonged here:

Quote from: MyNameIsCharlie on September 12, 2014, 01:44:07 AM

Quote from: Cheat on September 12, 2014, 01:32:27 AM
Quote from: Weed Commando on September 12, 2014, 01:26:50 AM
Quote from: Cheat on September 12, 2014, 01:25:05 AM
Quote from: Weed Commando on September 12, 2014, 01:23:54 AM
Quote from: Cheat on September 12, 2014, 01:20:41 AM
Nah. Count me out and let someone else have the fun.

Spoiler
I'm asexual, anyway.
Asexual as in "I'm a butthurt fedora-wearer and I'm trying to repress my urges" or actually asexual?
Let me try this...hold on.

>Is 22
>Doesn't want to fuck anyone
>Ever.
Well, that's not really conclusive. Was the fact that you've never fucked anyone imposed on you, or did you just pass up opportunities cause you didn't really give a shit?
Eh...no opportunities, but I don't see myself ever actually wanting to "go for it" if it were to occur.

I mean, I guess it's possible on some remote level that I'm subconsciously suppressing my urges, but I'm not aware of it and it doesn't cause me any strife unless my consistent lack of partner is brought to attention in real life. And even then it's just a bit awkward to explain that I don't have a girlfriend/boyfriend and never have.

EDIT: This conversation should probably go to a new thread before we derail this one any more.

No, no. Its OK. I think this has a lot to do with Verbatim and several others.

The urge to go into debauchery is as old as humankind. I guess we used to call it rutting. Or do we call it that now?

Anyways, I see it a a necessary cathartic release. When I was single, I would lose myself, my sense of self in the moment. Others were just trying to get laid. I was seeking to destroy myself in order to rebuild myself.

Anyways... It led to awesome sex, and great times. I suggest trying it. Nothing beats the type of sex you get when you are trying to ruin yourself.

Cheat · September 12, 2014, 01:49:36 AM

Quote from: MyNameIsCharlie on September 12, 2014, 01:46:30 AM

I responded to you in my thread, when I guess it belonged here:

Quote from: MyNameIsCharlie on September 12, 2014, 01:44:07 AM
Quote from: Cheat on September 12, 2014, 01:32:27 AM
Quote from: Weed Commando on September 12, 2014, 01:26:50 AM
Quote from: Cheat on September 12, 2014, 01:25:05 AM
Quote from: Weed Commando on September 12, 2014, 01:23:54 AM
Quote from: Cheat on September 12, 2014, 01:20:41 AM
Nah. Count me out and let someone else have the fun.

Spoiler
I'm asexual, anyway.
Asexual as in "I'm a butthurt fedora-wearer and I'm trying to repress my urges" or actually asexual?
Let me try this...hold on.

>Is 22
>Doesn't want to fuck anyone
>Ever.
Well, that's not really conclusive. Was the fact that you've never fucked anyone imposed on you, or did you just pass up opportunities cause you didn't really give a shit?
Eh...no opportunities, but I don't see myself ever actually wanting to "go for it" if it were to occur.

I mean, I guess it's possible on some remote level that I'm subconsciously suppressing my urges, but I'm not aware of it and it doesn't cause me any strife unless my consistent lack of partner is brought to attention in real life. And even then it's just a bit awkward to explain that I don't have a girlfriend/boyfriend and never have.

EDIT: This conversation should probably go to a new thread before we derail this one any more.

No, no. Its OK. I think this has a lot to do with Verbatim and several others.

The urge to go into debauchery is as old as humankind. I guess we used to call it rutting. Or do we call it that now?

Anyways, I see it a a necessary cathartic release. When I was single, I would lose myself, my sense of self in the moment. Others were just trying to get laid. I was seeking to destroy myself in order to rebuild myself.

Anyways... It led to awesome sex, and great times. I suggest trying it. Nothing beats the type of sex you get when you are trying to ruin yourself.

My friends and I have had some fun times; nothing as crazy as what you're describing, but I've stupid stuff while out in the world before.

I guess I'm just not a rutter.

Verbatim · September 12, 2014, 01:50:56 AM

I wish I was asexual, but I'm not.

Cheat · September 12, 2014, 01:52:55 AM

Quote from: Verbatim on September 12, 2014, 01:50:56 AM

I wish I was asexual, but I'm not.

What is you?

Verbatim · September 12, 2014, 01:54:39 AM

Boring old hetero.

Sex is philosophically useless to me, but not... carnally.
I still have a libido. It's an irritant.

MyNameIsCharlie · September 12, 2014, 01:54:59 AM

Quote from: Cheat on September 12, 2014, 01:49:36 AM

Quote from: MyNameIsCharlie on September 12, 2014, 01:46:30 AM
I responded to you in my thread, when I guess it belonged here:

Quote from: MyNameIsCharlie on September 12, 2014, 01:44:07 AM
Quote from: Cheat on September 12, 2014, 01:32:27 AM
Quote from: Weed Commando on September 12, 2014, 01:26:50 AM
Quote from: Cheat on September 12, 2014, 01:25:05 AM
Quote from: Weed Commando on September 12, 2014, 01:23:54 AM
Quote from: Cheat on September 12, 2014, 01:20:41 AM
Nah. Count me out and let someone else have the fun.

Spoiler
I'm asexual, anyway.
Asexual as in "I'm a butthurt fedora-wearer and I'm trying to repress my urges" or actually asexual?
Let me try this...hold on.

>Is 22
>Doesn't want to fuck anyone
>Ever.
Well, that's not really conclusive. Was the fact that you've never fucked anyone imposed on you, or did you just pass up opportunities cause you didn't really give a shit?
Eh...no opportunities, but I don't see myself ever actually wanting to "go for it" if it were to occur.

I mean, I guess it's possible on some remote level that I'm subconsciously suppressing my urges, but I'm not aware of it and it doesn't cause me any strife unless my consistent lack of partner is brought to attention in real life. And even then it's just a bit awkward to explain that I don't have a girlfriend/boyfriend and never have.

EDIT: This conversation should probably go to a new thread before we derail this one any more.

No, no. Its OK. I think this has a lot to do with Verbatim and several others.

The urge to go into debauchery is as old as humankind. I guess we used to call it rutting. Or do we call it that now?

Anyways, I see it a a necessary cathartic release. When I was single, I would lose myself, my sense of self in the moment. Others were just trying to get laid. I was seeking to destroy myself in order to rebuild myself.

Anyways... It led to awesome sex, and great times. I suggest trying it. Nothing beats the type of sex you get when you are trying to ruin yourself.
My friends and I have had some fun times; nothing as crazy as what you're describing, but I've stupid stuff while out in the world before.

I guess I'm just not a rutter.

You really should try it. I never thought of this before, but everyone benefits from having the "let's all do shots" guy in their social circle. At a certain point of drunkeness... well you lose your inhibitions. At that point anything is possible. I used to think I was asexual, and in one night I had three women. I've never repeated it... but after so many drinks the testosterone speaks for you. Since then I haven't had much in the way of inhibitions, but more in the way of responsibilities. Now I am the shots guy.

The liberator

MyNameIsCharlie · September 12, 2014, 01:56:55 AM

Quote from: Verbatim on September 12, 2014, 01:54:39 AM

Boring old hetero.

Sex is philosophically useless to me, but not... carnally.
I still have a libido. It's an irritant.

If you can see this, though I think I am muted, try this. Let go. Rut. Praise bacchus. Whatever. But the release does more for you than anything. We are more suited to the lifestyle than you think. Being detached... You would be surprised at how well that serves us.

SecondClass · September 12, 2014, 02:39:55 AM

I thought asexuality was just a made-up excuse for people who can't get any.

Reciffo_Smmoc · September 12, 2014, 02:41:25 AM

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Cheat · September 12, 2014, 02:47:33 AM

Quote from: SecondClass on September 12, 2014, 02:39:55 AM

I thought asexuality was just a made-up excuse for people who can't get any.

I'm sure that's the prevailing thought on B.lind.

velox · September 12, 2014, 03:45:08 AM

Quote from: SecondClass on September 12, 2014, 02:39:55 AM

I thought asexuality was just a made-up excuse for people who can't get any.

Though that may be the case for some people, a sexuality is a real thing. Some people has little to no interest in sex, from not finding enjoyment in it to lacking a sexual drive completely.

True Turquoise · September 12, 2014, 04:27:33 AM

Lewdsexual

Zizzy · September 12, 2014, 05:48:04 AM

Quote from: MyNameIsCharlie on September 12, 2014, 01:56:55 AM

Quote from: Verbatim on September 12, 2014, 01:54:39 AM
Boring old hetero.

Sex is philosophically useless to me, but not... carnally.
I still have a libido. It's an irritant.

If you can see this, though I think I am muted, try this. Let go. Rut. Praise bacchus. Whatever. But the release does more for you than anything. We are more suited to the lifestyle than you think. Being detached... You would be surprised at how well that serves us.

we can mute?

CrazyMonkeyKing · September 12, 2014, 06:10:51 AM

When was the first time you acknowledged or at least recognised your asexuality?

Elegiac · September 12, 2014, 06:27:43 AM

Cool, man.

I like girls, and look at me, I can have two thirds of all of them if I want, but I'm complicated. I can't spend my... essence... casually. And I feel no need to destroy myself, as Charlie puts it. You can look at it as an activity, but there are people out there who'll find that activity, with that person... sacred, life-affirming. When I don't. So I leave it for someone who will. The chemicals in my brain have no idea what's for the best, or more importantly: what's really beautiful.

Mmmmm Napalm · September 12, 2014, 07:22:59 AM

Quote from: Lady Noelle on September 12, 2014, 01:42:48 AM

I use to consider myself to be asexual. However, I identify as pansexual, because I know that I have a sexual side and am interested in it.

I'm potsexual.

BlitzFiend · September 12, 2014, 07:33:13 AM

Quote from: Lady Noelle on September 12, 2014, 01:42:48 AM

I use to consider myself to be asexual. However, I identify as pansexual, because I know that I have a sexual side and am interested in it.

^^

i don't actively seek nor want sex, but it's ok I guess

ಠ_ಠ · September 12, 2014, 07:39:10 AM

I actually wish I was asexual. I used to be, but after I got into a committed relationship I got slapped so hard with urges I've never felt before and it hasn't gone away since. Honestly, life was way easier when I didn't give a shit about sex and I honestly do miss it.

Korra · September 12, 2014, 07:42:26 AM

Bi here.

I enjoy it.

nͫiͤcͫeͤ · September 12, 2014, 07:47:04 AM

sex is honestly the best stress reliever ever for me

plus it's just fun, and i dunno... i like fun things and cuddling and all that shit

being asexual would be like losing a hobby to be :\

Elegiac · September 12, 2014, 08:04:18 AM

Quote from: Ryle on September 12, 2014, 07:47:04 AM

sex is honestly the best stress reliever ever for me

plus it's just fun, and i dunno... i like fun things and cuddling and all that shit

being asexual would be like losing a hobby to be :\

you haven't put much thought into it, hahaha, that's the usual; but I picked you as another kid, not a sex-haver, interesting... no, actually... small revelation! like children...