Which gender has it worse?

challengerX · November 30, 2015, 07:24:28 PM

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eggsalad · November 30, 2015, 07:24:49 PM

Quote from: Eliab on November 30, 2015, 07:22:23 PM

Quote from: DAS FOTZEZERSTÖRER on November 30, 2015, 07:21:04 PM
That would be an entirely unfounded belief and displaying racist as hell tendencies.

Yeah, but the reality is that you still feel that way, regardless of how rational it is.

"life is so hard when you choose to be retarded"

DAS B00T x2 · November 30, 2015, 07:24:49 PM

Quote from: Eliab on November 30, 2015, 07:22:23 PM

Quote from: DAS FOTZEZERSTÖRER on November 30, 2015, 07:21:04 PM
That would be an entirely unfounded belief and displaying racist as hell tendencies.

Yeah, but the reality is that you still feel that way, regardless of how rational it is.

They need to stop feeling that way.

Elai · November 30, 2015, 07:25:42 PM

Quote from: eggsalad on November 30, 2015, 07:24:49 PM

"life is so hard when you choose to be retarded"

Fear isn't a choice.

Elai · November 30, 2015, 07:26:10 PM

Quote from: DAS FOTZEZERSTÖRER on November 30, 2015, 07:24:49 PM

They need to stop feeling that way.

Agreed. But right now, this is the reality.

DAS B00T x2 · November 30, 2015, 07:26:46 PM

Quote from: Eliab on November 30, 2015, 07:25:42 PM

Quote from: eggsalad on November 30, 2015, 07:24:49 PM
"life is so hard when you choose to be retarded"

Fear isn't a choice.

Living with it is.

Ender · November 30, 2015, 07:27:03 PM

Quote from: Eliab on November 30, 2015, 07:16:50 PM

Quote from: Chicken Endies on November 30, 2015, 07:07:22 PM
Uh, what happened?

Last week Tuesday, my teacher read an article about what it means to live as a woman... to always be scared of men. Putting keys in your fist to use as a weapon when walking to your car at night, or crossing the street to avoid walking next to a man whom you're scared of. At first, I didn't think much of it. I kinda assumed they were being dramatic. But a lot of the girls in my class were like "Oh my god, this resonates with me so much." At which point I started to consider it being maybe valid, but I basically chopped it up to people loving their victim complexes. And then, I was on the phone with the girl I love. She started freaking out about a car following her. And all of the things I had read came rushing back.

Luckily, she made it home safe. But the story doesn't end there. I ended up having a nightmare that night. My daughter was assaulted and raped. I woke up balling my eyes out.

So, yeah... I've become a bit more sensitive the last couple of days about this whole situation.

I dunno man, I think that depends on where you grew up, where you are, etc. I don't know anyone at paranoid about anything.

Elai · November 30, 2015, 07:27:46 PM

Quote from: DAS FOTZEZERSTÖRER on November 30, 2015, 07:26:46 PM

Living with it is.

What does that have to do with anything?

DAS B00T x2 · November 30, 2015, 07:30:06 PM

Quote from: Eliab on November 30, 2015, 07:27:46 PM

Quote from: DAS FOTZEZERSTÖRER on November 30, 2015, 07:26:46 PM
Living with it is.

What does that have to do with anything?

Everything.
Are you actually defending female victim complexes and the demonetization of the entire male sex right now?

Elai · November 30, 2015, 07:30:31 PM

Quote from: Chicken Endies on November 30, 2015, 07:27:03 PM

I dunno man, I think that depends on where you grew up, where you are, etc. I don't know anyone that paranoid about anything.

The girls I talked to didn't live in bad neighbourhoods or anything.

I'm going to continue to wrestle internally with this meme for the time being.

Ender · November 30, 2015, 07:30:40 PM

Quote from: SoporificSlash on November 30, 2015, 07:20:41 PM

I mean can anything equate to pregnancy?

Crazy hormones and throwing up a lot for nine months and then popping something out of you in an extremely painful way...

I don't want to grow up

Elai · November 30, 2015, 07:31:40 PM

Quote from: DAS FOTZEZERSTÖRER on November 30, 2015, 07:30:06 PM

Are you actually defending female victim complexes and the demonetization of the entire male sex right now?

No, I'm just saying -- this is the reality, regardless of how irrational it is. Would I like to see it change? Yes. Should we do something about it? Absolutely. But that has nothing to do with the here and now.

Coomer · November 30, 2015, 07:31:45 PM

Quote from: Eliab on November 30, 2015, 07:22:23 PM

Quote from: DAS FOTZEZERSTÖRER on November 30, 2015, 07:21:04 PM
That would be an entirely unfounded belief and displaying racist as hell tendencies.

Yeah, but the reality is that you still feel that way, regardless of how rational it is.

By that logic, every white girl who didn't get an iPhone for Christmas should be in counselling right now

You have to look at how justified a feeling is
Not just be sorry because they feel bad

I realized you got shaken up because you recently experienced something that hit close to home
But don't let that sway logical thought
If your wife didn't have that experience and you didn't have that dream, wouldn't what your teacher read sound like over the top feminazi propaganda?

eggsalad · November 30, 2015, 07:31:49 PM

Quote from: Eliab on November 30, 2015, 07:25:42 PM

Quote from: eggsalad on November 30, 2015, 07:24:49 PM
"life is so hard when you choose to be retarded"

Fear isn't a choice.

If a person is unable to cope with it they have a mental deficiency.
And tbh I find it pretty sexist to think that women are naturally unable to rationalize this.

Elai · November 30, 2015, 07:34:08 PM

Quote from: IngloriousWho98 on November 30, 2015, 07:31:45 PM

I realized you got shaken up because you recently experienced something that hit close to home
But don't let that sway logical thought
If your wife didn't have that experience and you didn't have that dream, wouldn't what your teacher read sound like over the top feminazi propaganda?

Good point. I realised that some of what I'm thinking may be a bit emotionally-charged, but... idek.

DAS B00T x2 · November 30, 2015, 07:34:31 PM

Like fuck, maybe I'm just too used to being around women who can drive stick, handle a gun, and have some fucking self-confidence.

Elai · November 30, 2015, 07:36:17 PM

Quote from: eggsalad on November 30, 2015, 07:31:49 PM

And tbh I find it pretty sexist to think that women are naturally unable to rationalize this.

tbh I don't really care. it's not sexist to care about people's emotions, regardless of how justified they are.

Naru · November 30, 2015, 07:37:07 PM

Men, cause they can't be women in the middle of a bukkake

eggsalad · November 30, 2015, 07:37:31 PM

Quote from: Eliab on November 30, 2015, 07:36:17 PM

Quote from: eggsalad on November 30, 2015, 07:31:49 PM
And tbh I find it pretty sexist to think that women are naturally unable to rationalize this.

tbh I don't really care. it's not sexist to care about people's emotions, regardless of how justified they are.

i disagree on a personal level

Elai · November 30, 2015, 07:37:35 PM

Quote from: DAS FOTZEZERSTÖRER on November 30, 2015, 07:34:31 PM

Like fuck, maybe I'm just too used to being around women who can drive stick, handle a gun, and have some fucking self-confidence.

these are teenager girls we're talking about

but the article was written by an adult, and my teacher's wife concurred with it. i haven't gotten to conduct an extensive investigation with other people yet, but i definitely plan on making it one of my priorities now.

Jocephalopod · November 30, 2015, 07:37:35 PM

every year I walk the streets of Harlem at 4 AM with a saxophone and 10 piece KFC value bucket chicken dinner.

As I play my song of honor I fear no evil.

Nexus · November 30, 2015, 08:00:38 PM

Quote from: DAS FOTZEZERSTÖRER on November 30, 2015, 07:21:54 PM

Quote from: SoporificSlash on November 30, 2015, 07:20:41 PM
I mean can anything equate to pregnancy?
Dude, they pump you with some dope ass painkillers when you go to deliver these days.

I think the only thing that completely kills the pain is an epidermal(?) is completely frowned upon.

Casper · November 30, 2015, 08:02:19 PM

Quote from: Chicken Endies on November 30, 2015, 07:30:40 PM

Quote from: SoporificSlash on November 30, 2015, 07:20:41 PM
I mean can anything equate to pregnancy?
Crazy hormones and throwing up a lot for nine months and then popping something out of you in an extremely painful way...

I don't want to grow up

At least you have the ability to give birth.

Nexus · November 30, 2015, 08:03:45 PM

Quote from: Chicken Endies on November 30, 2015, 07:30:40 PM

Quote from: SoporificSlash on November 30, 2015, 07:20:41 PM
I mean can anything equate to pregnancy?
Crazy hormones and throwing up a lot for nine months and then popping something out of you in an extremely painful way...

I don't want to grow up

You don't have to have a child.

Aether · November 30, 2015, 08:05:31 PM

Fuck how am I supposed to know, I'm not a woman too.

Turkey · November 30, 2015, 08:08:17 PM

Quote from: Ozymandias on November 30, 2015, 07:16:50 PM

Quote from: Chicken Endies on November 30, 2015, 07:07:22 PM
Uh, what happened?

Last week Tuesday, my teacher read an article about what it means to live as a woman... to always be scared of men. Putting keys in your fist to use as a weapon when walking to your car at night, or crossing the street to avoid walking next to a man whom you're scared of. At first, I didn't think much of it. I kinda assumed they were being dramatic. But a lot of the girls in my class were like "Oh my god, this resonates with me so much." At which point I started to consider it being maybe valid, but I basically chopped it up to people loving their victim complexes. And then, I was on the phone with the girl I love. She started freaking out about a car following her. And all of the things I had read came rushing back.

Luckily, she made it home safe. But the story doesn't end there. I ended up having a nightmare that night. My daughter was assaulted and raped. I woke up balling my eyes out.

So, yeah... I've become a bit more sensitive the last couple of days about this whole situation.

My wife's talked about this before; she's never been a victim of violence.

In all seriousness, what is the difference between this and a white person being slightly suspicious of most black people?

Nexus · November 30, 2015, 08:25:50 PM

Quote from: DemonicChronic on November 30, 2015, 08:05:31 PM

Fuck how am I supposed to know, I'm not a woman too.

I can fix that.

slayingold · November 30, 2015, 08:31:51 PM

They both have their ups and downs...so that's actually a hard choice....can I sit on the fence and be neutral?

The Lord Ruler · November 30, 2015, 08:35:46 PM

neither

that's not something you can just generalize

Coomer · November 30, 2015, 08:37:16 PM

Quote from: slayingold on November 30, 2015, 08:31:51 PM

They both have their ups and downs...so that's actually a hard choice....can I sit on the fence and be neutral?

You can sit on my dick and be moaning