Arguing with people about the things that bother me largely seems futile considering they won't ever consider another interpretation of reality.
So I usually don't argue, I just keep planning my story because it's how I vent (and who doesn't want to write about dragons and self realization?).
The last thing I technically argued over with someone was the phrase:
"Our night sky is a window to ultimate reality, and it's beyond human influence."
The assertion being that I ultimately don't desire human association.
It wasn't anything intense or destructive, just a passing exchange. I'll find out if I was "victorious" next Friday.