When members disappear do you feel responsible for it?

Arren · June 11, 2016, 03:02:40 PM

Do you feel as if others are responsible for it? Is anyone really at fault when people leave?

Which users have you helped "over the edge?"

Ingy · June 11, 2016, 03:03:13 PM

People are capable of making their own informed decisions you know

Kitsune 狐 · June 11, 2016, 03:06:10 PM

No, but there are a few memebers who should.

Oh · June 11, 2016, 03:06:17 PM

i routinely harass people I don't like via PM, so I certainly feel responsible.

Arren · June 11, 2016, 03:06:25 PM

Quote from: IngloriousWho98 on June 11, 2016, 03:03:13 PM

People are capable of making their own informed decisions you know

This response does not answer the question.

Ingy · June 11, 2016, 03:07:34 PM

Quote from: Arren on June 11, 2016, 03:06:25 PM

Quote from: IngloriousWho98 on June 11, 2016, 03:03:13 PM
People are capable of making their own informed decisions you know
This response does not answer the question.

No
Because they're the ones choosing to leave
I'm not putting a gun to their head and forcing them to

Verbatim · June 11, 2016, 03:09:52 PM

No. There are a few absent members who may or may not have had me in mind when they considered the more negative aspects of their experience on this website, but it was ultimately their decision to leave and their decision alone.

And for some of those members, even if I was a little bit responsible for their departure, then:

Spoiler

Way to go me. No names, but one of them rhymes with Fupo.

Arren · June 11, 2016, 03:10:15 PM

Quote from: Kits on June 11, 2016, 03:06:10 PM

No, but there are a few memebers who should.

Would saying who these people are technically be "calling them out?"

June 11, 2016, 03:11:43 PM · June 11, 2016, 03:11:43 PM

idk/idc

DAS B00T x2 · June 11, 2016, 03:11:55 PM

I for one proudly take credit for driving WyldFurfag off of Bungie

Verbatim · June 11, 2016, 03:13:26 PM

Quote from: Simseoh on June 11, 2016, 03:06:17 PM

i routinely harass people I don't like via PM, so I certainly feel responsible.

does this mean you like me

🂿 · June 11, 2016, 03:14:19 PM

Nope.

I wasn't even here when Roman "killed himself."

Kitsune 狐 · June 11, 2016, 03:15:45 PM

Quote from: Arren on June 11, 2016, 03:10:15 PM

Quote from: Kits on June 11, 2016, 03:06:10 PM
No, but there are a few memebers who should.
Would saying who these people are technically be "calling them out?"

I wouldn't consider that "calling them out" I'm pretty sure that rule only applies to threads, and even then the rule has been rather lax recently.

Actually on second thought I am possibly the reason Elegiac doesn't really post anymore. I do not feel guilty.

Oh · June 11, 2016, 03:18:04 PM

Quote from: Verbatim on June 11, 2016, 03:13:26 PM

Quote from: Simseoh on June 11, 2016, 03:06:17 PM
i routinely harass people I don't like via PM, so I certainly feel responsible.
does this mean you like me

you are without a doubt our best member.

Verbatim · June 11, 2016, 03:19:10 PM

Quote from: Simseoh on June 11, 2016, 03:18:04 PM

Quote from: Verbatim on June 11, 2016, 03:13:26 PM
Quote from: Simseoh on June 11, 2016, 03:06:17 PM
i routinely harass people I don't like via PM, so I certainly feel responsible.
does this mean you like me
you are without a doubt our best member.

thanks cunt

Desty · June 11, 2016, 03:23:09 PM

Quote from: Verbatim on June 11, 2016, 03:19:10 PM

Quote from: Simseoh on June 11, 2016, 03:18:04 PM
Quote from: Verbatim on June 11, 2016, 03:13:26 PM
Quote from: Simseoh on June 11, 2016, 03:06:17 PM
i routinely harass people I don't like via PM, so I certainly feel responsible.
does this mean you like me
you are without a doubt our best member.
thanks cunt

who is thanking a cunt?

🂿 · June 11, 2016, 03:23:26 PM

Verbatim for mod 2k16

Dopameme · June 11, 2016, 03:26:28 PM

absolutely not

cuneif · June 11, 2016, 03:45:03 PM

I don't feel it.

Dietrich Six · June 11, 2016, 03:57:13 PM

Nah, no one cares that much about what I say.

Try as I might, verb and class still post. Maybe I can trigger zumi.

Aether · June 11, 2016, 03:59:37 PM

No just disappointed. Always disappointed.

MyNameIsCharlie · June 11, 2016, 06:44:10 PM

As someone who did rage quit, I don't think that anyone really can take credit. I let Camnator prolapse my anus. I may have thought differently then, but I see that clearly now. The only way you get butthurt is if you allow it.

The true reason I quit was that I had a lot going on in my life and for whatever reason I let myself get angry over a random, anonymous person posting on a forum filled with random anonymous people. I don't blame him. I blame myself.

So if anyone drops off, it's really because they let themselves get mad, not because you made them mad.

Big Boss · June 11, 2016, 06:46:44 PM

Quote from: Dietrich Six on June 11, 2016, 03:57:13 PM

Nah, no one cares that much about what I say.

Try as I might, verb and class still post. Maybe I can trigger zumi.

Your posts routinely make me want to tie bags of flour to my ankles and jump off a bridge

Kitsune 狐 · June 11, 2016, 06:50:47 PM

Quote from: Big Boss on June 11, 2016, 06:46:44 PM

Quote from: Dietrich Six on June 11, 2016, 03:57:13 PM
Nah, no one cares that much about what I say.

Try as I might, verb and class still post. Maybe I can trigger zumi.

Your posts routinely make me want to tie bags of flour to my ankles and jump off a bridge

Ouch.

Big Boss · June 11, 2016, 06:52:27 PM

Quote from: Kits on June 11, 2016, 06:50:47 PM

Quote from: Big Boss on June 11, 2016, 06:46:44 PM
Quote from: Dietrich Six on June 11, 2016, 03:57:13 PM
Nah, no one cares that much about what I say.

Try as I might, verb and class still post. Maybe I can trigger zumi.

Your posts routinely make me want to tie bags of flour to my ankles and jump off a bridge

Ouch.

Straight for the vitals. Doubt he will ever be able to recover from that one.

RIP

Luciana · June 11, 2016, 06:57:14 PM

Quote from: Kits on June 11, 2016, 03:15:45 PM

Quote from: Arren on June 11, 2016, 03:10:15 PM
Quote from: Kits on June 11, 2016, 03:06:10 PM
No, but there are a few memebers who should.
Would saying who these people are technically be "calling them out?"

I wouldn't consider that "calling them out" I'm pretty sure that rule only applies to threads, and even then the rule has been rather lax recently.

Actually on second thought I am possibly the reason Elegiac doesn't really post anymore. I do not feel guilty.

What'd you do?

🂿 · June 11, 2016, 06:58:09 PM

Quote from: Luciana on June 11, 2016, 06:57:14 PM

Quote from: Kits on June 11, 2016, 03:15:45 PM
Quote from: Arren on June 11, 2016, 03:10:15 PM
Quote from: Kits on June 11, 2016, 03:06:10 PM
No, but there are a few memebers who should.
Would saying who these people are technically be "calling them out?"

I wouldn't consider that "calling them out" I'm pretty sure that rule only applies to threads, and even then the rule has been rather lax recently.

Actually on second thought I am possibly the reason Elegiac doesn't really post anymore. I do not feel guilty.
What'd you do?

Elegiac was being a creep, so whatever it is that Kits did, he had it coming.

Pretty sure she told him to fuck off, or something along the lines of that.

Luciana · June 11, 2016, 07:02:16 PM

Quote from: Decimator Omega on June 11, 2016, 06:58:09 PM

Quote from: Luciana on June 11, 2016, 06:57:14 PM
Quote from: Kits on June 11, 2016, 03:15:45 PM
Quote from: Arren on June 11, 2016, 03:10:15 PM
Quote from: Kits on June 11, 2016, 03:06:10 PM
No, but there are a few memebers who should.
Would saying who these people are technically be "calling them out?"

I wouldn't consider that "calling them out" I'm pretty sure that rule only applies to threads, and even then the rule has been rather lax recently.

Actually on second thought I am possibly the reason Elegiac doesn't really post anymore. I do not feel guilty.
What'd you do?

Elegiac was being a creep, so whatever it is that Kits did, he had it coming.

Pretty sure she told him to fuck off, or something along the lines of that.

Oh wait

is he the one that always hit on the females? I think I remember him.

🂿 · June 11, 2016, 07:04:00 PM

Quote from: Luciana on June 11, 2016, 07:02:16 PM

Quote from: Decimator Omega on June 11, 2016, 06:58:09 PM
Quote from: Luciana on June 11, 2016, 06:57:14 PM
Quote from: Kits on June 11, 2016, 03:15:45 PM
Quote from: Arren on June 11, 2016, 03:10:15 PM
Quote from: Kits on June 11, 2016, 03:06:10 PM
No, but there are a few memebers who should.
Would saying who these people are technically be "calling them out?"

I wouldn't consider that "calling them out" I'm pretty sure that rule only applies to threads, and even then the rule has been rather lax recently.

Actually on second thought I am possibly the reason Elegiac doesn't really post anymore. I do not feel guilty.
What'd you do?

Elegiac was being a creep, so whatever it is that Kits did, he had it coming.

Pretty sure she told him to fuck off, or something along the lines of that.
Oh wait

is he the one that always hit on the females? I think I remember him.

I think so.

Kits probably would have also listed me if I never came back in 2015. After an argument we had last October that went really wrong, because I promised her that would be the last time she would hear from me and that I would be gone for good.

She had to reach out to me and apologize, and in return I read and took what she said into consideration. Kinda made the friendship a lot stronger in a way.

To this day that's the only promise in my life that I broke, and I'm quite glad that I did.

Kitsune 狐 · June 11, 2016, 07:24:34 PM

Quote from: Luciana on June 11, 2016, 06:57:14 PM

Quote from: Kits on June 11, 2016, 03:15:45 PM
Quote from: Arren on June 11, 2016, 03:10:15 PM
Quote from: Kits on June 11, 2016, 03:06:10 PM
No, but there are a few memebers who should.
Would saying who these people are technically be "calling them out?"

I wouldn't consider that "calling them out" I'm pretty sure that rule only applies to threads, and even then the rule has been rather lax recently.

Actually on second thought I am possibly the reason Elegiac doesn't really post anymore. I do not feel guilty.
What'd you do?

He got angry at me for another member posting in a thread that no one liked him not even me, and then he went off and shared some personal information about me that I had shared with him in private message and asked him not to share. Mind you I had not commented once in said thread and had been offline. So I reported him to the mods and got him banned.

Then I became a mod and he slowly but surely stopped posting.