What do you consider your social flaw?

 
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You will find out who you are not a thousand times, before you ever discover who you are. I hope you find peace in yourself and learn to love instead of hate.
flaws are a social construct


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His eyebrows sparkling, his white beard hangs down to his chest. The thatched mats, spread outside his chise, spread softly, his splendid attos. He polishes, cross-legged, his makiri, with his eyes completely absorbed.

He is Ainu.

The god of Ainu Mosir, Ae-Oine Kamuy, descendant of Okiku-Rumi, He perishes, a living corpse. The summers day, the white sunlight, unabrushed, ends simply through his breath alone.
Making dumb decisions is part of growing up, being afraid to talk because you're either going to mess up/forget half your vocabulary at any given moment or accidentally interrupt someone multiple times isn't.
Would you say your problem is rooted more in how people will perceive you as a result of these gaucheries, or is it something else entirely? Because I would certainly hope that it's a part of growing up, because I'm in the same boat as you, but my problem is mostly about the former. If I do something stupid, I start convincing myself that everyone hates me now, and is going to start treating me differently based on those little social fuck-ups.

In reality, no one cares, because everyone makes social fuck-ups, and there's not enough time to be concerned about other people's awkwardness. I find that thought a little comforting, personally, and I feel like when I fully grasp that concept--the idea that everyone else is living out their own complex lives, too--I think that's a sign of maturation, or growing up. Because it makes your problems seem smaller and that much less significant.

I can't speak for you, of course, but I mean... I don't know, I just hope you find some way to make it better.
More the fact that saying the wrong thing/forgetting to say something gets me in trouble, that gives me anxiety attacks, anxiety attacks create more self doubt, more doubt antagonize my Dysthymia. Plus, the Aphasia gets worse the less "relaxed" I am. So it's a vicious cycle.


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Too shy, too nice. I let petty people step on me sometimes because I just don't care enough to fight over trivial things.
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It's difficult for me to be comfortable around new people.

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I have social anxiety.


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hey
I'm always worried that I'm being bothersome or annoying whenever I talk to someone, even if they're someone I consider a close friend


 
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I'm always worried that I'm being bothersome or annoying whenever I talk to someone, even if they're someone I consider a close friend
Oh god I'm not the only one. I mainly feel like this because my group of friends go out with one another, so it makes me feel bad talking to them ;__;


 
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I'm always worried that I'm being bothersome or annoying whenever I talk to someone, even if they're someone I consider a close friend
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I'm always worried that I'm being bothersome or annoying whenever I talk to someone, even if they're someone I consider a close friend
I get that as well.


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Oh yea, theres also the fact that any issues of the self that would best be discussed and solved by talking to others about I tend to keep to myself since I think of most of my issues as petty, so I never bring them up and every now and then it gnaws at me.


 
 
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hey
I'm always worried that I'm being bothersome or annoying whenever I talk to someone, even if they're someone I consider a close friend
Oh god I'm not the only one. I mainly feel like this because my group of friends go out with one another, so it makes me feel bad talking to them ;__;
For me I'll just avoid saying something to someone at times even if it's actually important, or I want to talk to them because they're my friend because I hate being a bother that much

im trying to work on it though by actually talking to people


 
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This is the way the world ends. Not with a bang but a whimper.
Lack of assertiveness comes to mind too, sometimes.
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You will find out who you are not a thousand times, before you ever discover who you are. I hope you find peace in yourself and learn to love instead of hate.
i notice a lot of things about people when i interact with them and it comes off as a little creepy.


 
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If I'm not here, I'm doing photography. Or I'm asleep. Or in lockdown. One of those three, anyway.

The current titlebar/avatar setup is just normal.
I'm a rather closed person. I don't like bothering people with my own problems so I don't talk about my actual ones.

Also, I'm way too wary of people's reactions if I say something out of whack, so I'm percieved as the "cutely awkward" guy, and that pisses me off for so many reasons.


 
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If I'm not here, I'm doing photography. Or I'm asleep. Or in lockdown. One of those three, anyway.

The current titlebar/avatar setup is just normal.
I'm a rather closed person. I don't like bothering people with my own problems so I don't talk about my actual ones.

Also, I'm way too wary of people's reactions if I say something out of whack, so I'm percieved as the "cutely awkward" guy, and that pisses me off for so many reasons.
Oh hey it's the cutely awkward guy

Yeah....no it doesn't work like that here, fucknuts.


 
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This is the way the world ends. Not with a bang but a whimper.
I'm a rather closed person. I don't like bothering people with my own problems so I don't talk about my actual ones.

Also, I'm way too wary of people's reactions if I say something out of whack, so I'm percieved as the "cutely awkward" guy, and that pisses me off for so many reasons.
Oh hey it's the cutely awkward guy
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