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Y'know, I never heard a saint talking about all the good they've done.

...so I'm being an asshole?
Not at all. You are sharing a touching story. Spreading positivity is a good thing, even if I can be a negative person at times.

Am I in the wrong for sharing this though? Your usually very blunt, honest and to the point so I know you'll be frank with me.

It's a pre-concieved view of things. Ever look at somebody's writing, and just get a really strong feeling that you think you know what the other person was feeling when they wrote it. An air of smugness or the like?

Maybe when other folks read what you right, that's what they get. A pre-concieved air of smugness. It might not actually be true, but sometimes, words from certain people have that air to them, and you just get the wrong vibes is all.
This makes sense.  I mean, I still have my reasons for getting these feelings, but I know he isn't intentionally trying to give them off.


 
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Sorry I guess

Don't take it to heart compatriot. You know where you stand clear as day on the subject, and you know that you did something nice. All that counts in the end is the knowledge that you've done something. This place, as of late, is in a bit of a slum. A down moment if you will. You can't blame folks. A lot of bad seems to be happening over good.

And, after a while, folks become cynical. Doubtful. Which is why, you can only really take heart in yourself. Only you know what you did and the reasons you did it for. Be proud of that, and don't let the doubts of others plague you.

This is why I like you. Your reasonable, and your neutral.

Thank you.

How's the house coming along?

Not neutral, no. I just try to dump myself in other shoes. Points of view from another's eyes change everything. I have my flaws, my mistakes and statements that upset people, things that people disagree with. The best I can do is flip the perspective away from my own eyes. through that, you gain a little bit of understanding. Through understanding, you don't get so angry at people. You don't feel the need to cause issues and raise more troubles when you can see a piece of what's on the end of somebody else's world.

House won't be started for at least 8 months. Winter is here now. The snow and ice will close things up soon.

Fair enough.

And damn, how cold does it get up there?

Last year one of our cities hit the coldest it ever was in 40 years. -60 with the windchill. Converted into american measurments, it was -85F.

The coldest I have ever experienced, was probably...39F, in Florida.

Wow that's rough, I assume you can never get used to that. Where you live is beautiful, I've seen the pictures. Would you ever consider moving somewhere else?

I was running out and about on one of those days. The cold runs in my veins. I enjoy it. Have a higher tolerance for it than most others.

Moving? No. As I've said before, it's not as glamorous as other parts of the world, with flashy architecture or vibrant culture. But it is peaceful. This place is not a target. It's too inhospitable to invade or conquer, with little in the way of anything valuable. And so I would never trade it.


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Oh, hey.
Y'know, I never heard a saint talking about all the good they've done.

...so I'm being an asshole?
Not at all. You are sharing a touching story. Spreading positivity is a good thing, even if I can be a negative person at times.

Am I in the wrong for sharing this though? Your usually very blunt, honest and to the point so I know you'll be frank with me.

It's a pre-concieved view of things. Ever look at somebody's writing, and just get a really strong feeling that you think you know what the other person was feeling when they wrote it. An air of smugness or the like?

Maybe when other folks read what you right, that's what they get. A pre-concieved air of smugness. It might not actually be true, but sometimes, words from certain people have that air to them, and you just get the wrong vibes is all.

Your probably right in all honesty. :/


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Y'know, I never heard a saint talking about all the good they've done.

...so I'm being an asshole?
Not at all. You are sharing a touching story. Spreading positivity is a good thing, even if I can be a negative person at times.

Am I in the wrong for sharing this though? Your usually very blunt, honest and to the point so I know you'll be frank with me.

It's a pre-concieved view of things. Ever look at somebody's writing, and just get a really strong feeling that you think you know what the other person was feeling when they wrote it. An air of smugness or the like?

Maybe when other folks read what you right, that's what they get. A pre-concieved air of smugness. It might not actually be true, but sometimes, words from certain people have that air to them, and you just get the wrong vibes is all.
This makes sense.  I mean, I still have my reasons for getting these feelings, but I know he isn't intentionally trying to give them off.

So, if you know he's not doing it intentionally, why cause something intentionally? That's not cool. It would be like me going around and beating the shit out of every person I see because I didn't like the look on their face in the morning when they stepped into my restaurant.

Fuck, I talked about this the other day with somebody. Negativity and Positivity feed each other. Put a negative person next to a negative person, and they'll feed each other, spiraling downwards together.

Likewise, do it with positive people, and they'll pick each other up.

A strong enough positive person will alter a negative person, as likewise, a strong enough negative person will bring a positive person down.

So, if you know he's not doing it intentionally, but you attack, or make a fuss about things anyway, then you're caught in the negative trap. Emotional state, overpowers your logical side.

Use your noggin compatriot.


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Oh, hey.
Y'know, I never heard a saint talking about all the good they've done.

...so I'm being an asshole?
Not at all. You are sharing a touching story. Spreading positivity is a good thing, even if I can be a negative person at times.

Am I in the wrong for sharing this though? Your usually very blunt, honest and to the point so I know you'll be frank with me.

It's a pre-concieved view of things. Ever look at somebody's writing, and just get a really strong feeling that you think you know what the other person was feeling when they wrote it. An air of smugness or the like?

Maybe when other folks read what you right, that's what they get. A pre-concieved air of smugness. It might not actually be true, but sometimes, words from certain people have that air to them, and you just get the wrong vibes is all.
This makes sense.  I mean, I still have my reasons for getting these feelings, but I know he isn't intentionally trying to give them off.

Tbh, I've been trying to fix my posts and all so I could get you to stop feeling that way. It makes me feel like a dick if I'm somehow coming across as one. Because I feel like me not understanding it makes me look ignorant and arrogant.


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Oh, hey.
Sorry I guess

Don't take it to heart compatriot. You know where you stand clear as day on the subject, and you know that you did something nice. All that counts in the end is the knowledge that you've done something. This place, as of late, is in a bit of a slum. A down moment if you will. You can't blame folks. A lot of bad seems to be happening over good.

And, after a while, folks become cynical. Doubtful. Which is why, you can only really take heart in yourself. Only you know what you did and the reasons you did it for. Be proud of that, and don't let the doubts of others plague you.

This is why I like you. Your reasonable, and your neutral.

Thank you.

How's the house coming along?

Not neutral, no. I just try to dump myself in other shoes. Points of view from another's eyes change everything. I have my flaws, my mistakes and statements that upset people, things that people disagree with. The best I can do is flip the perspective away from my own eyes. through that, you gain a little bit of understanding. Through understanding, you don't get so angry at people. You don't feel the need to cause issues and raise more troubles when you can see a piece of what's on the end of somebody else's world.

House won't be started for at least 8 months. Winter is here now. The snow and ice will close things up soon.

Fair enough.

And damn, how cold does it get up there?

Last year one of our cities hit the coldest it ever was in 40 years. -60 with the windchill. Converted into american measurments, it was -85F.

The coldest I have ever experienced, was probably...39F, in Florida.

Wow that's rough, I assume you can never get used to that. Where you live is beautiful, I've seen the pictures. Would you ever consider moving somewhere else?

I was running out and about on one of those days. The cold runs in my veins. I enjoy it. Have a higher tolerance for it than most others.

Moving? No. As I've said before, it's not as glamorous as other parts of the world, with flashy architecture or vibrant culture. But it is peaceful. This place is not a target. It's too inhospitable to invade or conquer, with little in the way of anything valuable. And so I would never trade it.

You know, I genuinely respect that. A lot actually.


 
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Y'know, I never heard a saint talking about all the good they've done.

...so I'm being an asshole?
Not at all. You are sharing a touching story. Spreading positivity is a good thing, even if I can be a negative person at times.

Am I in the wrong for sharing this though? Your usually very blunt, honest and to the point so I know you'll be frank with me.

It's a pre-concieved view of things. Ever look at somebody's writing, and just get a really strong feeling that you think you know what the other person was feeling when they wrote it. An air of smugness or the like?

Maybe when other folks read what you right, that's what they get. A pre-concieved air of smugness. It might not actually be true, but sometimes, words from certain people have that air to them, and you just get the wrong vibes is all.

Your probably right in all honesty. :/

It's not a fault of yours however. It's just a tricky state to balance is all. Our pre-concieved views can be damn hard to break. Even if you changed your writing, the people who don't enjoy your company here, would still have that air of smuggness bleed through in their eyes.

As I said to casper, emotions, positive and negative feed each other. And, it seems that at the moment, folk's emotions have the upper hand over logic, and so they act and attack that pre-concieved smugness. Not your fault. We just need a little more sunshine in the place is all.


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Y'know, I never heard a saint talking about all the good they've done.

There are no saints. Everybody has baggage. Everybody has a bad side. The reason you've never heard them speak about it, is because they're a myth. A saint is not some holier than thou person. We are all flawed. But that doesn't change the fact people have the capability in them to do something special for others, even if it's small.
I'm not saying what he did wasn't good.  It's always nice to do something for other people.  But just like people don't like hearing about all the bad things in someone's life, doesn't mean people want to hear about all the good either.  You did something good?  Hey great! It feels nice to do something for others out of kindness, but don't go around looking for recognition and acceptance of what you did.  That's  petty.  Just know that what you did made someone happy and that should be good enough.

What's the point of being in a community where everything you share has you branded has someone who is conceited.

Somehow, everything I say gets completely turned around.

Maybe you are just an asshole?

Still confused.

Have I done something to you in the past? Or something?

Spoiler
You exist.

Seriously though, like did we ever get in an argument or something. Or do you genuinely dislike me simply because I am here

You post blog types threads about your emotions and shit.

And you spam pictures of a 12 year old boy telling us how much you want to fuck him.


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Oh, hey.
Y'know, I never heard a saint talking about all the good they've done.

...so I'm being an asshole?
Not at all. You are sharing a touching story. Spreading positivity is a good thing, even if I can be a negative person at times.

Am I in the wrong for sharing this though? Your usually very blunt, honest and to the point so I know you'll be frank with me.

It's a pre-concieved view of things. Ever look at somebody's writing, and just get a really strong feeling that you think you know what the other person was feeling when they wrote it. An air of smugness or the like?

Maybe when other folks read what you right, that's what they get. A pre-concieved air of smugness. It might not actually be true, but sometimes, words from certain people have that air to them, and you just get the wrong vibes is all.

Your probably right in all honesty. :/

It's not a fault of yours however. It's just a tricky state to balance is all. Our pre-concieved views can be damn hard to break. Even if you changed your writing, the people who don't enjoy your company here, would still have that air of smuggness bleed through in their eyes.

As I said to casper, emotions, positive and negative feed each other. And, it seems that at the moment, folk's emotions have the upper hand over logic, and so they act and attack that pre-concieved smugness. Not your fault. We just need a little more sunshine in the place is all.

You can't really blame Casper. What he's saying is true. At first I always came across the wrong way, and I understand why he thinks and feels as he does. He's not being unreasonable. But I still try and mend things with him.

Casper isn't inconsiderate or anything like that, he's actually fairly reasonable.


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Y'know, I never heard a saint talking about all the good they've done.

...so I'm being an asshole?
Not at all. You are sharing a touching story. Spreading positivity is a good thing, even if I can be a negative person at times.

Am I in the wrong for sharing this though? Your usually very blunt, honest and to the point so I know you'll be frank with me.

It's a pre-concieved view of things. Ever look at somebody's writing, and just get a really strong feeling that you think you know what the other person was feeling when they wrote it. An air of smugness or the like?

Maybe when other folks read what you right, that's what they get. A pre-concieved air of smugness. It might not actually be true, but sometimes, words from certain people have that air to them, and you just get the wrong vibes is all.
This makes sense.  I mean, I still have my reasons for getting these feelings, but I know he isn't intentionally trying to give them off.

So, if you know he's not doing it intentionally, why cause something intentionally? That's not cool. It would be like me going around and beating the shit out of every person I see because I didn't like the look on their face in the morning when they stepped into my restaurant.

Fuck, I talked about this the other day with somebody. Negativity and Positivity feed each other. Put a negative person next to a negative person, and they'll feed each other, spiraling downwards together.

Likewise, do it with positive people, and they'll pick each other up.

A strong enough positive person will alter a negative person, as likewise, a strong enough negative person will bring a positive person down.

So, if you know he's not doing it intentionally, but you attack, or make a fuss about things anyway, then you're caught in the negative trap. Emotional state, overpowers your logical side.

Use your noggin compatriot.
Well for one, I prefer to act on emotion more than logic.
But most of the time I say nothing. I make my quips once in a while, but not often.  I can't be entirely sure if he's completely innocent or not.  But it's because of the fact that some people just don't learn time after time.  It's ignorance I can't stand.  It's always this about his life and that about his life, and their's clearly backlash, but nothing changes.  I just always get an air of correspondence from the way he speaks.  And what irks me about it is that it is unintentional.  Like things he says are normal. 

We get it, he has a good life.  Do we know about the bad? No.  But the way he makes himself to be is, more or less the way I see it, that he's better than us.  Obviously other people don't see it or don't care, but coming from the opposite end of the spectrum of life, it get's old. 

I'm not trying to sound mean, but I don't know how else to say things.  And I'm not about to edit and revise what I'm trying to say on a Tuesday night when I have math due at midnight.


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Y'know, I never heard a saint talking about all the good they've done.

...so I'm being an asshole?
Not at all. You are sharing a touching story. Spreading positivity is a good thing, even if I can be a negative person at times.

Am I in the wrong for sharing this though? Your usually very blunt, honest and to the point so I know you'll be frank with me.

It's a pre-concieved view of things. Ever look at somebody's writing, and just get a really strong feeling that you think you know what the other person was feeling when they wrote it. An air of smugness or the like?

Maybe when other folks read what you right, that's what they get. A pre-concieved air of smugness. It might not actually be true, but sometimes, words from certain people have that air to them, and you just get the wrong vibes is all.

Your probably right in all honesty. :/

It's not a fault of yours however. It's just a tricky state to balance is all. Our pre-concieved views can be damn hard to break. Even if you changed your writing, the people who don't enjoy your company here, would still have that air of smuggness bleed through in their eyes.

As I said to casper, emotions, positive and negative feed each other. And, it seems that at the moment, folk's emotions have the upper hand over logic, and so they act and attack that pre-concieved smugness. Not your fault. We just need a little more sunshine in the place is all.

You can't really blame Casper. What he's saying is true. At first I always came across the wrong way, and I understand why he thinks and feels as he does. He's not being unreasonable. But I still try and mend things with him.

Casper isn't inconsiderate or anything like that, he's actually fairly reasonable.

And so am I. But the point is, when your emotional state is out of balance, it ovverrides your reason and logical thought processes. And, as Noelle said, as of late, this place is somewhat of a downer. Multiple people, negative people, are sapping things. Even them, it's not their fault. Because that's what emotions do by nature.

I try to remain as calm and clear headed as I can. But, if and when I'm angry, all of that goes out the window. So, the point is, to try and not let your emotions dictate who you are, and let your head dictate the emotions that make sense.

Like I said, Casp is stuck in the trap. She, he, or they, know that you don't mean to sound smug. And yet they started something anyway. They let that emotion, that need to attack drive them forwards even though they knew you didn't mean anything bad by it.

It all comes down to the simple fact, that this place could use a little more sunshine.


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Oh, hey.
Y'know, I never heard a saint talking about all the good they've done.

...so I'm being an asshole?
Not at all. You are sharing a touching story. Spreading positivity is a good thing, even if I can be a negative person at times.

Am I in the wrong for sharing this though? Your usually very blunt, honest and to the point so I know you'll be frank with me.

It's a pre-concieved view of things. Ever look at somebody's writing, and just get a really strong feeling that you think you know what the other person was feeling when they wrote it. An air of smugness or the like?

Maybe when other folks read what you right, that's what they get. A pre-concieved air of smugness. It might not actually be true, but sometimes, words from certain people have that air to them, and you just get the wrong vibes is all.
This makes sense.  I mean, I still have my reasons for getting these feelings, but I know he isn't intentionally trying to give them off.

So, if you know he's not doing it intentionally, why cause something intentionally? That's not cool. It would be like me going around and beating the shit out of every person I see because I didn't like the look on their face in the morning when they stepped into my restaurant.

Fuck, I talked about this the other day with somebody. Negativity and Positivity feed each other. Put a negative person next to a negative person, and they'll feed each other, spiraling downwards together.

Likewise, do it with positive people, and they'll pick each other up.

A strong enough positive person will alter a negative person, as likewise, a strong enough negative person will bring a positive person down.

So, if you know he's not doing it intentionally, but you attack, or make a fuss about things anyway, then you're caught in the negative trap. Emotional state, overpowers your logical side.

Use your noggin compatriot.
Well for one, I prefer to act on emotion more than logic.
But most of the time I say nothing. I make my quips once in a while, but not often.  I can't be entirely sure if he's completely innocent or not.  But it's because of the fact that some people just don't learn time after time.  It's ignorance I can't stand.  It's always this about his life and that about his life, and their's clearly backlash, but nothing changes.  I just always get an air of correspondence from the way he speaks.  And what irks me about it is that it is unintentional.  Like things he says are normal. 

We get it, he has a good life.  Do we know about the bad? No.  But the way he makes himself to be is, more or less the way I see it, that he's better than us.  Obviously other people don't see it or don't care, but coming from the opposite end of the spectrum of life, it get's old. 

I'm not trying to sound mean, but I don't know how else to say things.  And I'm not about to edit and revise what I'm trying to say on a Tuesday night when I have math due at midnight.

 :-\

I genuinely don't think I'm better then anyone. If I come across that way then maybe I am at fault. Sorry you get that vibe.


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Oh, hey.
Y'know, I never heard a saint talking about all the good they've done.

...so I'm being an asshole?
Not at all. You are sharing a touching story. Spreading positivity is a good thing, even if I can be a negative person at times.

Am I in the wrong for sharing this though? Your usually very blunt, honest and to the point so I know you'll be frank with me.

It's a pre-concieved view of things. Ever look at somebody's writing, and just get a really strong feeling that you think you know what the other person was feeling when they wrote it. An air of smugness or the like?

Maybe when other folks read what you right, that's what they get. A pre-concieved air of smugness. It might not actually be true, but sometimes, words from certain people have that air to them, and you just get the wrong vibes is all.

Your probably right in all honesty. :/

It's not a fault of yours however. It's just a tricky state to balance is all. Our pre-concieved views can be damn hard to break. Even if you changed your writing, the people who don't enjoy your company here, would still have that air of smuggness bleed through in their eyes.

As I said to casper, emotions, positive and negative feed each other. And, it seems that at the moment, folk's emotions have the upper hand over logic, and so they act and attack that pre-concieved smugness. Not your fault. We just need a little more sunshine in the place is all.

You can't really blame Casper. What he's saying is true. At first I always came across the wrong way, and I understand why he thinks and feels as he does. He's not being unreasonable. But I still try and mend things with him.

Casper isn't inconsiderate or anything like that, he's actually fairly reasonable.

And so am I. But the point is, when your emotional state is out of balance, it ovverrides your reason and logical thought processes. And, as Noelle said, as of late, this place is somewhat of a downer. Multiple people, negative people, are sapping things. Even them, it's not their fault. Because that's what emotions do by nature.

I try to remain as calm and clear headed as I can. But, if and when I'm angry, all of that goes out the window. So, the point is, to try and not let your emotions dictate who you are, and let your head dictate the emotions that make sense.

Like I said, Casp is stuck in the trap. She, he, or they, know that you don't mean to sound smug. And yet they started something anyway. They let that emotion, that need to attack drive them forwards even though they knew you didn't mean anything bad by it.

It all comes down to the simple fact, that this place could use a little more sunshine.

Have you ever considered being a councilor?


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Y'know, I never heard a saint talking about all the good they've done.

...so I'm being an asshole?
Not at all. You are sharing a touching story. Spreading positivity is a good thing, even if I can be a negative person at times.

Am I in the wrong for sharing this though? Your usually very blunt, honest and to the point so I know you'll be frank with me.

It's a pre-concieved view of things. Ever look at somebody's writing, and just get a really strong feeling that you think you know what the other person was feeling when they wrote it. An air of smugness or the like?

Maybe when other folks read what you right, that's what they get. A pre-concieved air of smugness. It might not actually be true, but sometimes, words from certain people have that air to them, and you just get the wrong vibes is all.
This makes sense.  I mean, I still have my reasons for getting these feelings, but I know he isn't intentionally trying to give them off.

So, if you know he's not doing it intentionally, why cause something intentionally? That's not cool. It would be like me going around and beating the shit out of every person I see because I didn't like the look on their face in the morning when they stepped into my restaurant.

Fuck, I talked about this the other day with somebody. Negativity and Positivity feed each other. Put a negative person next to a negative person, and they'll feed each other, spiraling downwards together.

Likewise, do it with positive people, and they'll pick each other up.

A strong enough positive person will alter a negative person, as likewise, a strong enough negative person will bring a positive person down.

So, if you know he's not doing it intentionally, but you attack, or make a fuss about things anyway, then you're caught in the negative trap. Emotional state, overpowers your logical side.

Use your noggin compatriot.
Well for one, I prefer to act on emotion more than logic.
But most of the time I say nothing. I make my quips once in a while, but not often.  I can't be entirely sure if he's completely innocent or not.  But it's because of the fact that some people just don't learn time after time.  It's ignorance I can't stand.  It's always this about his life and that about his life, and their's clearly backlash, but nothing changes.  I just always get an air of condescendence from the way he speaks.  And what irks me about it is that it is unintentional.  Like things he says are normal. 

We get it, he has a good life.  Do we know about the bad? No.  But the way he makes himself to be is, more or less the way I see it, that he's better than us.  Obviously other people don't see it or don't care, but coming from the opposite end of the spectrum of life, it get's old. 

I'm not trying to sound mean, but I don't know how else to say things.  And I'm not about to edit and revise what I'm trying to say on a Tuesday night when I have math due at midnight.

 :-\

I genuinely don't think I'm better then anyone. If I come across that way then maybe I am at fault. Sorry you get that vibe.
Okay. 
This is going to take a lot from me, but.. I'm sorry.


 
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Y'know, I never heard a saint talking about all the good they've done.

...so I'm being an asshole?
Not at all. You are sharing a touching story. Spreading positivity is a good thing, even if I can be a negative person at times.

Am I in the wrong for sharing this though? Your usually very blunt, honest and to the point so I know you'll be frank with me.

It's a pre-concieved view of things. Ever look at somebody's writing, and just get a really strong feeling that you think you know what the other person was feeling when they wrote it. An air of smugness or the like?

Maybe when other folks read what you right, that's what they get. A pre-concieved air of smugness. It might not actually be true, but sometimes, words from certain people have that air to them, and you just get the wrong vibes is all.

Your probably right in all honesty. :/

It's not a fault of yours however. It's just a tricky state to balance is all. Our pre-concieved views can be damn hard to break. Even if you changed your writing, the people who don't enjoy your company here, would still have that air of smuggness bleed through in their eyes.

As I said to casper, emotions, positive and negative feed each other. And, it seems that at the moment, folk's emotions have the upper hand over logic, and so they act and attack that pre-concieved smugness. Not your fault. We just need a little more sunshine in the place is all.

You can't really blame Casper. What he's saying is true. At first I always came across the wrong way, and I understand why he thinks and feels as he does. He's not being unreasonable. But I still try and mend things with him.

Casper isn't inconsiderate or anything like that, he's actually fairly reasonable.

And so am I. But the point is, when your emotional state is out of balance, it ovverrides your reason and logical thought processes. And, as Noelle said, as of late, this place is somewhat of a downer. Multiple people, negative people, are sapping things. Even them, it's not their fault. Because that's what emotions do by nature.

I try to remain as calm and clear headed as I can. But, if and when I'm angry, all of that goes out the window. So, the point is, to try and not let your emotions dictate who you are, and let your head dictate the emotions that make sense.

Like I said, Casp is stuck in the trap. She, he, or they, know that you don't mean to sound smug. And yet they started something anyway. They let that emotion, that need to attack drive them forwards even though they knew you didn't mean anything bad by it.

It all comes down to the simple fact, that this place could use a little more sunshine.

Have you ever considered being a councilor?

I'd make a terrible councilor. I have empathy because of the pain and trauma in my life. I do my best to understand because through another pair of eyes you can spot things that you would normally miss by yourself.

But I am not a person to ask for advice of help.

Right now? I'm ripping myself apart. And, the part of me that still makes a little sense knows it. But I can't seem to stop it. I attack myself. Turn and deflect things around on myself, and I wake up to days where I am completely crushed by despair and sadness.

But, there's a little spark left. It endures, and flickers, and reminds me of why I am here. Reminds me that not all is lost and hopeless. The point is, I am not fit for advice because my life is not whole, and it will be a long time before I can fit the pieces of the puzzle together, and truly make any sense.


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Oh, hey.
Y'know, I never heard a saint talking about all the good they've done.

...so I'm being an asshole?
Not at all. You are sharing a touching story. Spreading positivity is a good thing, even if I can be a negative person at times.

Am I in the wrong for sharing this though? Your usually very blunt, honest and to the point so I know you'll be frank with me.

It's a pre-concieved view of things. Ever look at somebody's writing, and just get a really strong feeling that you think you know what the other person was feeling when they wrote it. An air of smugness or the like?

Maybe when other folks read what you right, that's what they get. A pre-concieved air of smugness. It might not actually be true, but sometimes, words from certain people have that air to them, and you just get the wrong vibes is all.
This makes sense.  I mean, I still have my reasons for getting these feelings, but I know he isn't intentionally trying to give them off.

So, if you know he's not doing it intentionally, why cause something intentionally? That's not cool. It would be like me going around and beating the shit out of every person I see because I didn't like the look on their face in the morning when they stepped into my restaurant.

Fuck, I talked about this the other day with somebody. Negativity and Positivity feed each other. Put a negative person next to a negative person, and they'll feed each other, spiraling downwards together.

Likewise, do it with positive people, and they'll pick each other up.

A strong enough positive person will alter a negative person, as likewise, a strong enough negative person will bring a positive person down.

So, if you know he's not doing it intentionally, but you attack, or make a fuss about things anyway, then you're caught in the negative trap. Emotional state, overpowers your logical side.

Use your noggin compatriot.
Well for one, I prefer to act on emotion more than logic.
But most of the time I say nothing. I make my quips once in a while, but not often.  I can't be entirely sure if he's completely innocent or not.  But it's because of the fact that some people just don't learn time after time.  It's ignorance I can't stand.  It's always this about his life and that about his life, and their's clearly backlash, but nothing changes.  I just always get an air of condescendence from the way he speaks.  And what irks me about it is that it is unintentional.  Like things he says are normal. 

We get it, he has a good life.  Do we know about the bad? No.  But the way he makes himself to be is, more or less the way I see it, that he's better than us.  Obviously other people don't see it or don't care, but coming from the opposite end of the spectrum of life, it get's old. 

I'm not trying to sound mean, but I don't know how else to say things.  And I'm not about to edit and revise what I'm trying to say on a Tuesday night when I have math due at midnight.

 :-\

I genuinely don't think I'm better then anyone. If I come across that way then maybe I am at fault. Sorry you get that vibe.
Okay. 
This is going to take a lot from me, but.. I'm sorry.

It's fine, honestly, don't worry about it. I was never mad, nor did I ever feel negative about you. You weren't wrong in how you felt, and you were honest so I can't mark you down. I understand where your coming from when you say what you say.

But thank you.


 
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Y'know, I never heard a saint talking about all the good they've done.

...so I'm being an asshole?
Not at all. You are sharing a touching story. Spreading positivity is a good thing, even if I can be a negative person at times.

Am I in the wrong for sharing this though? Your usually very blunt, honest and to the point so I know you'll be frank with me.

It's a pre-concieved view of things. Ever look at somebody's writing, and just get a really strong feeling that you think you know what the other person was feeling when they wrote it. An air of smugness or the like?

Maybe when other folks read what you right, that's what they get. A pre-concieved air of smugness. It might not actually be true, but sometimes, words from certain people have that air to them, and you just get the wrong vibes is all.
This makes sense.  I mean, I still have my reasons for getting these feelings, but I know he isn't intentionally trying to give them off.

So, if you know he's not doing it intentionally, why cause something intentionally? That's not cool. It would be like me going around and beating the shit out of every person I see because I didn't like the look on their face in the morning when they stepped into my restaurant.

Fuck, I talked about this the other day with somebody. Negativity and Positivity feed each other. Put a negative person next to a negative person, and they'll feed each other, spiraling downwards together.

Likewise, do it with positive people, and they'll pick each other up.

A strong enough positive person will alter a negative person, as likewise, a strong enough negative person will bring a positive person down.

So, if you know he's not doing it intentionally, but you attack, or make a fuss about things anyway, then you're caught in the negative trap. Emotional state, overpowers your logical side.

Use your noggin compatriot.
Well for one, I prefer to act on emotion more than logic.
But most of the time I say nothing. I make my quips once in a while, but not often.  I can't be entirely sure if he's completely innocent or not.  But it's because of the fact that some people just don't learn time after time.  It's ignorance I can't stand.  It's always this about his life and that about his life, and their's clearly backlash, but nothing changes.  I just always get an air of condescendence from the way he speaks.  And what irks me about it is that it is unintentional.  Like things he says are normal. 

We get it, he has a good life.  Do we know about the bad? No.  But the way he makes himself to be is, more or less the way I see it, that he's better than us.  Obviously other people don't see it or don't care, but coming from the opposite end of the spectrum of life, it get's old. 

I'm not trying to sound mean, but I don't know how else to say things.  And I'm not about to edit and revise what I'm trying to say on a Tuesday night when I have math due at midnight.

 :-\

I genuinely don't think I'm better then anyone. If I come across that way then maybe I am at fault. Sorry you get that vibe.
Okay. 
This is going to take a lot from me, but.. I'm sorry.

Now then Casp. Stop for a second, and take a look at things. Look at what this thread started as. And look how it ended. Guess what?

You turned it around. What could have broken out into arguments and fights, ended in a closed thread and BC being crushed in his happiness, ended in this.

Stop for a moment, and think about that. We started out negative. Sunk low in a spiral. And now? Now we're here. The scales moved a little bit. The scales went up. They went up! Not down.

And that's the key. Use your noggin!

Haha, that's the way you do it! Remember that. We've always got a choice. And, you chose not to turn this into a dump! Good on you compatriot.


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Oh, hey.
Y'know, I never heard a saint talking about all the good they've done.

...so I'm being an asshole?
Not at all. You are sharing a touching story. Spreading positivity is a good thing, even if I can be a negative person at times.

Am I in the wrong for sharing this though? Your usually very blunt, honest and to the point so I know you'll be frank with me.

It's a pre-concieved view of things. Ever look at somebody's writing, and just get a really strong feeling that you think you know what the other person was feeling when they wrote it. An air of smugness or the like?

Maybe when other folks read what you right, that's what they get. A pre-concieved air of smugness. It might not actually be true, but sometimes, words from certain people have that air to them, and you just get the wrong vibes is all.

Your probably right in all honesty. :/

It's not a fault of yours however. It's just a tricky state to balance is all. Our pre-concieved views can be damn hard to break. Even if you changed your writing, the people who don't enjoy your company here, would still have that air of smuggness bleed through in their eyes.

As I said to casper, emotions, positive and negative feed each other. And, it seems that at the moment, folk's emotions have the upper hand over logic, and so they act and attack that pre-concieved smugness. Not your fault. We just need a little more sunshine in the place is all.

You can't really blame Casper. What he's saying is true. At first I always came across the wrong way, and I understand why he thinks and feels as he does. He's not being unreasonable. But I still try and mend things with him.

Casper isn't inconsiderate or anything like that, he's actually fairly reasonable.

And so am I. But the point is, when your emotional state is out of balance, it ovverrides your reason and logical thought processes. And, as Noelle said, as of late, this place is somewhat of a downer. Multiple people, negative people, are sapping things. Even them, it's not their fault. Because that's what emotions do by nature.

I try to remain as calm and clear headed as I can. But, if and when I'm angry, all of that goes out the window. So, the point is, to try and not let your emotions dictate who you are, and let your head dictate the emotions that make sense.

Like I said, Casp is stuck in the trap. She, he, or they, know that you don't mean to sound smug. And yet they started something anyway. They let that emotion, that need to attack drive them forwards even though they knew you didn't mean anything bad by it.

It all comes down to the simple fact, that this place could use a little more sunshine.

Have you ever considered being a councilor?

I'd make a terrible councilor. I have empathy because of the pain and trauma in my life. I do my best to understand because through another pair of eyes you can spot things that you would normally miss by yourself.

But I am not a person to ask for advice of help.

Right now? I'm ripping myself apart. And, the part of me that still makes a little sense knows it. But I can't seem to stop it. I attack myself. Turn and deflect things around on myself, and I wake up to days where I am completely crushed by despair and sadness.

But, there's a little spark left. It endures, and flickers, and reminds me of why I am here. Reminds me that not all is lost and hopeless. The point is, I am not fit for advice because my life is not whole, and it will be a long time before I can fit the pieces of the puzzle together, and truly make any sense.

From my perspective, your a tough son of a bitch. And your logical. I have full faith you can pull through of any situation, and I feel the sense of confidence but your real. I like you, I really do. Your humble.

I know life has been exceptionally tough, and I'm not going to give you any cliches. But think of this. For everything you have gone through, all the hardship. When you step outside, and you see your home, your area. It is your home. And your happy to see it, and you can legitimately say at the second that you conquered it all, and live to stand proud in the place you truly love.

It does not matter what your life is, a suicidal man can have an impact on another human being. That's the basic human connection. Everyone can benefit, no matter how broken you are. You seem to have the capacity, and I see that. And you saying your not whole, but yet you still show the same potential, speaks loudly for who you are.

Never degrade yourself, you truly are a gift to the world. If even people you do not know, or will ever meet believe that, then imagine all the possibilities.


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Y'know, I never heard a saint talking about all the good they've done.

There are no saints. Everybody has baggage. Everybody has a bad side. The reason you've never heard them speak about it, is because they're a myth. A saint is not some holier than thou person. We are all flawed. But that doesn't change the fact people have the capability in them to do something special for others, even if it's small.
I'm not saying what he did wasn't good.  It's always nice to do something for other people.  But just like people don't like hearing about all the bad things in someone's life, doesn't mean people want to hear about all the good either.  You did something good?  Hey great! It feels nice to do something for others out of kindness, but don't go around looking for recognition and acceptance of what you did.  That's  petty.  Just know that what you did made someone happy and that should be good enough.

What's the point of being in a community where everything you share has you branded has someone who is conceited.

Somehow, everything I say gets completely turned around.

Maybe you are just an asshole?

Still confused.

Have I done something to you in the past? Or something?

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You exist.

Seriously though, like did we ever get in an argument or something. Or do you genuinely dislike me simply because I am here

You post blog types threads about your emotions and shit.

And you spam pictures of a 12 year old boy telling us how much you want to fuck him.
He's just a white skaterboy with a bad attitude, so I've stopped paying attention to his opinions

I like how you people have all this emotional bullshit about tolerance and feelings and shit.

But then you just keep calling Ellen a 12 year old boy.

I can understand you calling me an asshole or something because I am sometimes.

But Ellen has done absolutely nothing to any of you but 9/10 times you guys just insult her and constantly make fun of her appearance. Just because she doesn't post here doesn't mean it doesn't hurt her.

I don't care if people feelings here get hurt. I think it's hilarious.


 
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Y'know, I never heard a saint talking about all the good they've done.

There are no saints. Everybody has baggage. Everybody has a bad side. The reason you've never heard them speak about it, is because they're a myth. A saint is not some holier than thou person. We are all flawed. But that doesn't change the fact people have the capability in them to do something special for others, even if it's small.
I'm not saying what he did wasn't good.  It's always nice to do something for other people.  But just like people don't like hearing about all the bad things in someone's life, doesn't mean people want to hear about all the good either.  You did something good?  Hey great! It feels nice to do something for others out of kindness, but don't go around looking for recognition and acceptance of what you did.  That's  petty.  Just know that what you did made someone happy and that should be good enough.

What's the point of being in a community where everything you share has you branded has someone who is conceited.

Somehow, everything I say gets completely turned around.

Maybe you are just an asshole?

Still confused.

Have I done something to you in the past? Or something?

Spoiler
You exist.

Seriously though, like did we ever get in an argument or something. Or do you genuinely dislike me simply because I am here

You post blog types threads about your emotions and shit.

And you spam pictures of a 12 year old boy telling us how much you want to fuck him.
He's just a white skaterboy with a bad attitude, so I've stopped paying attention to his opinions

I like how you people have all this emotional bullshit about tolerance and feelings and shit.

But then you just keep calling Ellen a 12 year old boy.

I can understand you calling me an asshole or something because I am sometimes.

But Ellen has done absolutely nothing to any of you but 9/10 times you guys just insult her and constantly make fun of her appearance. Just because she doesn't post here doesn't mean it doesn't hurt her.

To be fair, most of the girlfriends I've ever had were tomboys. No pitchforks from my side here.


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