I had a sex dream about a friend, that's how I realized I liked dudes.Looking back, the signs were all there. I used to fantasize about being a girl and banging the dudes in my class, but I somehow didn't think that was gay. To me it was just flipped perspectives.For the longest time I was confused AF because I didn't realize you could like both dudes and girls. I was having gay thoughts all the time, but I always discarded them because "I like girls, so I must be straight, not gay".