because this is what lovesick puppies doooooooooooooooooooooo
But I'm not constantly bitching about not having a gf You made too many assumptions coming in hereIt's almost like you're projecting
Quote from: E on June 28, 2020, 05:06:03 PMAnd you don't think you're generalizing a tad? Whether or not it's pathetic is redundant, I think the meme is just a manifestation of perceived hopelessness with no conduit to express said feeling anywhere else than in something that's veiled as "cringy" humor. Sit down with any of these people and talk to them and you'll find some of them can be articulate about just how awful they feel.Whether or not a relationship is going to solve all their problems like they might hope it would is also irrelevant, because if the problem was solved they'd likely learn very quickly that it wasn't the case. I don't know if it's quite so fair to chastise those who feel hopeless on this note. Would we chastise a day dreamer who dreams of a better life outside his wageslave job and eventually starts to think that if the dream were a reality all of his problems would be solved?People tend to put a lot of stock into singular keys for fixing their lives when they lack hope.there's a fundamental difference between vocalizing one's desires to have a better life from a vocational standpoint, and being sad that nobody's presently sucking on your genitalsyou can be sad that nobody's sucking on your genitals all you want, but this internet culture of throwing pity parties for all the poor dudes out there who just can't get a break when it comes to women is just impossible for me to sympathize with, because none of these guys are actually taking any of the steps necessary to getting what they want—they're mostly just patting themselves on the back for being losers, and i kinda just refuse to take part in that
And you don't think you're generalizing a tad? Whether or not it's pathetic is redundant, I think the meme is just a manifestation of perceived hopelessness with no conduit to express said feeling anywhere else than in something that's veiled as "cringy" humor. Sit down with any of these people and talk to them and you'll find some of them can be articulate about just how awful they feel.Whether or not a relationship is going to solve all their problems like they might hope it would is also irrelevant, because if the problem was solved they'd likely learn very quickly that it wasn't the case. I don't know if it's quite so fair to chastise those who feel hopeless on this note. Would we chastise a day dreamer who dreams of a better life outside his wageslave job and eventually starts to think that if the dream were a reality all of his problems would be solved?People tend to put a lot of stock into singular keys for fixing their lives when they lack hope.
You're implying that all of them have sexual intent in mind. What about the ones that don't? What about the ones in environmental situations such as sparse populations? What about ones who can't seem to fill the intelligence gap? Or the ones who lost the genetic lookie loo lottery?
I'm not defending the behavior nor the pity parties of the thirsties
Quote from: E on June 28, 2020, 08:33:41 PMYou're implying that all of them have sexual intent in mind. What about the ones that don't? What about the ones in environmental situations such as sparse populations? What about ones who can't seem to fill the intelligence gap? Or the ones who lost the genetic lookie loo lottery?all of these people have better things to worry about than relationships, and because of this, even if they do feel lonely every once in a while, they're essentially incapable of being pathetic about it, because their situation has forced them to have prioritiesQuoteI'm not defending the behavior nor the pity parties of the thirsties well, they're the only people i'm talking about obviouslyyou say you're not trying to defend them, but i've personally never seen anyone try to defend whining about petty shit this hard
Funny thing about those people and their priorities. It's the other way around. They've adopted priorities in order to hide from the thing that's eating them. By keeping moving, working, doing whatever, they're less aware of that nag at the back of their head, but it's still there.
>tfw your self-worth and happiness is not beholden to another person because i'm capable of making myself whole
Quote from: E on June 28, 2020, 11:15:42 PMFunny thing about those people and their priorities. It's the other way around. They've adopted priorities in order to hide from the thing that's eating them. By keeping moving, working, doing whatever, they're less aware of that nag at the back of their head, but it's still there.that's more or less what i'm saying; this sort of thing is all about adaptation, and adapting to your situation doesn't have to be the result of an imposition or losing the genetic lotterywhen i see a college student living in the cushy first world who could be a little smarter, but doesn't have any socially crippling mental disorders mope about how lonely they are, i see a person who hasn't adapted to his situation properly, and doesn't seem to be doing anything about itthat's what i don't like, because that person has, quite frankly, the smallest amount of hurdles to get into a relationship out of anyone else in the world—and they have the gall to beggar for attention about it on the internet. fact is, you know what you have to do to improve yourself, so just do it, and you'll probably find yourself a gf in no timeit does not get more simplenow, in fairness, we are living in covidtimes, so it's not like dating has become easier, but posting a thread like this still makes you look like a thirsty little prick to me no matter what
Quote from: E on June 28, 2020, 11:15:42 PMQuote from: Verbatim on June 28, 2020, 11:07:06 PMQuote from: E on June 28, 2020, 08:33:41 PMYou're implying that all of them have sexual intent in mind. What about the ones that don't? What about the ones in environmental situations such as sparse populations? What about ones who can't seem to fill the intelligence gap? Or the ones who lost the genetic lookie loo lottery?all of these people have better things to worry about than relationships, and because of this, even if they do feel lonely every once in a while, they're essentially incapable of being pathetic about it, because their situation has forced them to have prioritiesQuoteI'm not defending the behavior nor the pity parties of the thirsties well, they're the only people i'm talking about obviouslyyou say you're not trying to defend them, but i've personally never seen anyone try to defend whining about petty shit this hardFunny thing about those people and their priorities. It's the other way around. They've adopted priorities in order to hide from the thing that's eating them. By keeping moving, working, doing whatever, they're less aware of that nag at the back of their head, but it's still there.As for defense, no. I would've called it that if it were. Just an examination of all the varying angles and a half hearted attempt on my part to discuss something with more depth than a puddle, even though we're typically talking about people with the depth of a puddle.hi sandtrap
Quote from: Verbatim on June 28, 2020, 11:07:06 PMQuote from: E on June 28, 2020, 08:33:41 PMYou're implying that all of them have sexual intent in mind. What about the ones that don't? What about the ones in environmental situations such as sparse populations? What about ones who can't seem to fill the intelligence gap? Or the ones who lost the genetic lookie loo lottery?all of these people have better things to worry about than relationships, and because of this, even if they do feel lonely every once in a while, they're essentially incapable of being pathetic about it, because their situation has forced them to have prioritiesQuoteI'm not defending the behavior nor the pity parties of the thirsties well, they're the only people i'm talking about obviouslyyou say you're not trying to defend them, but i've personally never seen anyone try to defend whining about petty shit this hardFunny thing about those people and their priorities. It's the other way around. They've adopted priorities in order to hide from the thing that's eating them. By keeping moving, working, doing whatever, they're less aware of that nag at the back of their head, but it's still there.As for defense, no. I would've called it that if it were. Just an examination of all the varying angles and a half hearted attempt on my part to discuss something with more depth than a puddle, even though we're typically talking about people with the depth of a puddle.
Quote from: Ingy on June 28, 2020, 07:25:09 PMWhy can't a person think it'd be nice to have a gf instead of being a rock who doesn't need anybody or a sad puppy who can't survive without a partneryou can, i just don't think that person posts threads like this
Why can't a person think it'd be nice to have a gf instead of being a rock who doesn't need anybody or a sad puppy who can't survive without a partner
Quote from: Verbatim on June 28, 2020, 01:43:06 PM>tfw your self-worth and happiness is not beholden to another person because i'm capable of making myself wholeAn individual is incomplete without the Many. What is a drop of rain, compared to the storm? What is a thought, compared to a mind? Our unity is full of wonder, which your tiny individualism cannot even conceive. We yearn to join all with our biomass so that they may feel the joy of being a part of the whole. The Many protect us. We are, we are...
righto who shat my pants?
Verb, would you date someone like yourself?
Quote from: FatherlyNick 🇷🇺 on July 11, 2020, 06:28:09 PMVerb, would you date someone like yourself?I'd date verb
tfw no gf
