You could always try getting someone to kill themselves on webcam for shits n giggles. Er I mean vote Jeb Bush
Honestly I think your faggot sibling needs to pick up the slack.Would you like living with your grandparents? How would your father feel about this?
Never had study stress but I get you. For stretches of time back at home when I was trying to do my own thing, the one thing that pushed my buttons was interruptions. Phone calls, shit happening, problems, yada yada.If it started pushing on me and I felt like murdering somebody I put my foot down and left for someplace quiet. And I made a point to make it known that's what my day was going to be. Reserved for me and just me.Park out in the woods somewhere or just stop by my town's library. I guess in your case maybe stop buy a park.
Quote from: challengerX on February 08, 2017, 11:28:57 AMHonestly I think your faggot sibling needs to pick up the slack.Would you like living with your grandparents? How would your father feel about this?I would dearly love the little bastard to do so, or at the very least stop causing so much other shit for the family with his endless stupidity. We got rid of one problem by shipping him off to mother's, and now this retard decides he's going to step up to the plate in the degeneracy olympics.I'd love to live there honestly.The difference it makes when you are in a home with people who genuinely appreciate things you do for them, is astounding. Here it feels more like being a caretaker in a building full of autistic chimpanzees.The only problem with me going there, is that shit would fall apart in the asylum. The dogs would never get walked, barely get fed on time, let alone have any interaction from people. The grocery delivery wouldn't happen and food would quite literally fester in the fridge because they can't be fucked to throw it away.I'm just tired of it really. Absolutely exhausted with their unhelpful selfish attitudes.
Man I'd hate living at home. It's bad enough when I come back for Christmas and have to revise for January exams, almost impossible to get shit done. Living in uni accommodation makes home feel so much louder and more distracting. And family are so much more annoying.
Quote from: Mr. Psychologist on February 08, 2017, 11:41:16 AMQuote from: challengerX on February 08, 2017, 11:28:57 AMHonestly I think your faggot sibling needs to pick up the slack.Would you like living with your grandparents? How would your father feel about this?I would dearly love the little bastard to do so, or at the very least stop causing so much other shit for the family with his endless stupidity. We got rid of one problem by shipping him off to mother's, and now this retard decides he's going to step up to the plate in the degeneracy olympics.I'd love to live there honestly.The difference it makes when you are in a home with people who genuinely appreciate things you do for them, is astounding. Here it feels more like being a caretaker in a building full of autistic chimpanzees.The only problem with me going there, is that shit would fall apart in the asylum. The dogs would never get walked, barely get fed on time, let alone have any interaction from people. The grocery delivery wouldn't happen and food would quite literally fester in the fridge because they can't be fucked to throw it away.I'm just tired of it really. Absolutely exhausted with their unhelpful selfish attitudes.Sorry to hear this, dude. It's really rough when a ton of responsibility is just dumped on you, I know.Is there any way the dogs could go with you to your grandparents house?
Well, I'm going to assume I know a bit more about your family than most here.And from what you've told me, most, if not all but one, of your brothers are just.... useless and lazy, and your father is too passive about it. (As we confirm with Caterpillar boy.) To me, it just seems people need to pick up slack to help you and the family as a whole, or you need to get away to study, because I know how stressed you get too, I've heard it lol. -But I understand why. If you go to the grandparents, will it be more convenient in more ways or could it prove to be a problem? You do generally present a more chilled out form when you're there, so I think it'll be a good idea. I do however, feel you need the job you're currently on and despite the boss (the other one) being a prat, it's a job you enjoy. Dropping that might not be a good idea.
Any public libraries nearby you could ask if you could study in?
Quote from: Mr. Psychologist on February 08, 2017, 11:41:16 AMQuote from: challengerX on February 08, 2017, 11:28:57 AMHonestly I think your faggot sibling needs to pick up the slack.Would you like living with your grandparents? How would your father feel about this?I would dearly love the little bastard to do so, or at the very least stop causing so much other shit for the family with his endless stupidity. We got rid of one problem by shipping him off to mother's, and now this retard decides he's going to step up to the plate in the degeneracy olympics.I'd love to live there honestly.The difference it makes when you are in a home with people who genuinely appreciate things you do for them, is astounding. Here it feels more like being a caretaker in a building full of autistic chimpanzees.The only problem with me going there, is that shit would fall apart in the asylum. The dogs would never get walked, barely get fed on time, let alone have any interaction from people. The grocery delivery wouldn't happen and food would quite literally fester in the fridge because they can't be fucked to throw it away.I'm just tired of it really. Absolutely exhausted with their unhelpful selfish attitudes.That's when you put your foot down matey. When you're doing something charitable or "nice" for somebody, or even a job in general, there's always something very important to consider. Especially if it's a job.If somebody gives you shit, ask yourself. "Am I being paid for this?" If the answer is no, then it's time to leave. Let people fend for themselves and their own choices.
Quote from: True Turquoise on February 08, 2017, 11:48:28 AMAny public libraries nearby you could ask if you could study in?There was, until they closed it down.Ayy lmao
Quote from: Sαndtrap on February 08, 2017, 11:45:23 AMQuote from: Mr. Psychologist on February 08, 2017, 11:41:16 AMQuote from: challengerX on February 08, 2017, 11:28:57 AMHonestly I think your faggot sibling needs to pick up the slack.Would you like living with your grandparents? How would your father feel about this?I would dearly love the little bastard to do so, or at the very least stop causing so much other shit for the family with his endless stupidity. We got rid of one problem by shipping him off to mother's, and now this retard decides he's going to step up to the plate in the degeneracy olympics.I'd love to live there honestly.The difference it makes when you are in a home with people who genuinely appreciate things you do for them, is astounding. Here it feels more like being a caretaker in a building full of autistic chimpanzees.The only problem with me going there, is that shit would fall apart in the asylum. The dogs would never get walked, barely get fed on time, let alone have any interaction from people. The grocery delivery wouldn't happen and food would quite literally fester in the fridge because they can't be fucked to throw it away.I'm just tired of it really. Absolutely exhausted with their unhelpful selfish attitudes.That's when you put your foot down matey. When you're doing something charitable or "nice" for somebody, or even a job in general, there's always something very important to consider. Especially if it's a job.If somebody gives you shit, ask yourself. "Am I being paid for this?" If the answer is no, then it's time to leave. Let people fend for themselves and their own choices.Yeah, sadly it's not so simple for family.
Quote from: Mr. Psychologist on February 08, 2017, 11:58:27 AMQuote from: True Turquoise on February 08, 2017, 11:48:28 AMAny public libraries nearby you could ask if you could study in?There was, until they closed it down.Ayy lmaoI'll use this reply to reply to the first as well.Yeah, Kud seems to be the one who will actually have a chance lolI feel leaving might be good, but as you said, a lot of stuff. Maybe it's just a case of having time off when you can. I'll be having time off soon.
Quote from: Mr. Psychologist on February 08, 2017, 11:58:59 AMQuote from: Sαndtrap on February 08, 2017, 11:45:23 AMQuote from: Mr. Psychologist on February 08, 2017, 11:41:16 AMQuote from: challengerX on February 08, 2017, 11:28:57 AMHonestly I think your faggot sibling needs to pick up the slack.Would you like living with your grandparents? How would your father feel about this?I would dearly love the little bastard to do so, or at the very least stop causing so much other shit for the family with his endless stupidity. We got rid of one problem by shipping him off to mother's, and now this retard decides he's going to step up to the plate in the degeneracy olympics.I'd love to live there honestly.The difference it makes when you are in a home with people who genuinely appreciate things you do for them, is astounding. Here it feels more like being a caretaker in a building full of autistic chimpanzees.The only problem with me going there, is that shit would fall apart in the asylum. The dogs would never get walked, barely get fed on time, let alone have any interaction from people. The grocery delivery wouldn't happen and food would quite literally fester in the fridge because they can't be fucked to throw it away.I'm just tired of it really. Absolutely exhausted with their unhelpful selfish attitudes.That's when you put your foot down matey. When you're doing something charitable or "nice" for somebody, or even a job in general, there's always something very important to consider. Especially if it's a job.If somebody gives you shit, ask yourself. "Am I being paid for this?" If the answer is no, then it's time to leave. Let people fend for themselves and their own choices.Yeah, sadly it's not so simple for family.You bet your ass it is. Family count as people and people make their own lifestyle choices. You can either help them as much as you're able to within a rational, sane parameter, but if they aren't going to help themselves then that's on them, not you.
Quote from: Mr. Psychologist on February 08, 2017, 11:52:53 AMQuote from: challengerX on February 08, 2017, 11:44:56 AMQuote from: Mr. Psychologist on February 08, 2017, 11:41:16 AMQuote from: challengerX on February 08, 2017, 11:28:57 AMHonestly I think your faggot sibling needs to pick up the slack.Would you like living with your grandparents? How would your father feel about this?I would dearly love the little bastard to do so, or at the very least stop causing so much other shit for the family with his endless stupidity. We got rid of one problem by shipping him off to mother's, and now this retard decides he's going to step up to the plate in the degeneracy olympics.I'd love to live there honestly.The difference it makes when you are in a home with people who genuinely appreciate things you do for them, is astounding. Here it feels more like being a caretaker in a building full of autistic chimpanzees.The only problem with me going there, is that shit would fall apart in the asylum. The dogs would never get walked, barely get fed on time, let alone have any interaction from people. The grocery delivery wouldn't happen and food would quite literally fester in the fridge because they can't be fucked to throw it away.I'm just tired of it really. Absolutely exhausted with their unhelpful selfish attitudes.Sorry to hear this, dude. It's really rough when a ton of responsibility is just dumped on you, I know.Is there any way the dogs could go with you to your grandparents house?Thanks.It's just one of those things that you either adapt to or get crushed by, as I'm sure you know all too well. It just doesn't leave a lot of room for whimsy in your life.I wish there was, but sadly not. They drive my grandpa spare, and I can't blame him lol.They're an absolute bloody handful, which is a lot of the problem. And for every bit of training I try to give them, it gets underwritten by the laziness of the rest of the house.I know these feelsI don't know. I'm not one to encourage giving up on family or running away from problems but if all they do is bring you down, sometimes you have to cut loose.I'd say try to tough it out.
Quote from: challengerX on February 08, 2017, 11:44:56 AMQuote from: Mr. Psychologist on February 08, 2017, 11:41:16 AMQuote from: challengerX on February 08, 2017, 11:28:57 AMHonestly I think your faggot sibling needs to pick up the slack.Would you like living with your grandparents? How would your father feel about this?I would dearly love the little bastard to do so, or at the very least stop causing so much other shit for the family with his endless stupidity. We got rid of one problem by shipping him off to mother's, and now this retard decides he's going to step up to the plate in the degeneracy olympics.I'd love to live there honestly.The difference it makes when you are in a home with people who genuinely appreciate things you do for them, is astounding. Here it feels more like being a caretaker in a building full of autistic chimpanzees.The only problem with me going there, is that shit would fall apart in the asylum. The dogs would never get walked, barely get fed on time, let alone have any interaction from people. The grocery delivery wouldn't happen and food would quite literally fester in the fridge because they can't be fucked to throw it away.I'm just tired of it really. Absolutely exhausted with their unhelpful selfish attitudes.Sorry to hear this, dude. It's really rough when a ton of responsibility is just dumped on you, I know.Is there any way the dogs could go with you to your grandparents house?Thanks.It's just one of those things that you either adapt to or get crushed by, as I'm sure you know all too well. It just doesn't leave a lot of room for whimsy in your life.I wish there was, but sadly not. They drive my grandpa spare, and I can't blame him lol.They're an absolute bloody handful, which is a lot of the problem. And for every bit of training I try to give them, it gets underwritten by the laziness of the rest of the house.
Quote from: Sαndtrap on February 08, 2017, 12:02:16 PMQuote from: Mr. Psychologist on February 08, 2017, 11:58:59 AMQuote from: Sαndtrap on February 08, 2017, 11:45:23 AMQuote from: Mr. Psychologist on February 08, 2017, 11:41:16 AMQuote from: challengerX on February 08, 2017, 11:28:57 AMHonestly I think your faggot sibling needs to pick up the slack.Would you like living with your grandparents? How would your father feel about this?I would dearly love the little bastard to do so, or at the very least stop causing so much other shit for the family with his endless stupidity. We got rid of one problem by shipping him off to mother's, and now this retard decides he's going to step up to the plate in the degeneracy olympics.I'd love to live there honestly.The difference it makes when you are in a home with people who genuinely appreciate things you do for them, is astounding. Here it feels more like being a caretaker in a building full of autistic chimpanzees.The only problem with me going there, is that shit would fall apart in the asylum. The dogs would never get walked, barely get fed on time, let alone have any interaction from people. The grocery delivery wouldn't happen and food would quite literally fester in the fridge because they can't be fucked to throw it away.I'm just tired of it really. Absolutely exhausted with their unhelpful selfish attitudes.That's when you put your foot down matey. When you're doing something charitable or "nice" for somebody, or even a job in general, there's always something very important to consider. Especially if it's a job.If somebody gives you shit, ask yourself. "Am I being paid for this?" If the answer is no, then it's time to leave. Let people fend for themselves and their own choices.Yeah, sadly it's not so simple for family.You bet your ass it is. Family count as people and people make their own lifestyle choices. You can either help them as much as you're able to within a rational, sane parameter, but if they aren't going to help themselves then that's on them, not you.Hm, I suppose.It's just the rare times I need help from them that wind me up. Getting them to do anything is such an arduous and unreliable effort that it's simply easier to DIY.So the obvious answer is to stop helping them, but I've still got this automatic 'help' switch going. If someone needs a hand, the answer is yes. I know I shouldn't think like that, but I can't really help it (irony).
Quote from: Mr. Psychologist on February 08, 2017, 12:04:43 PMQuote from: Sαndtrap on February 08, 2017, 12:02:16 PMQuote from: Mr. Psychologist on February 08, 2017, 11:58:59 AMQuote from: Sαndtrap on February 08, 2017, 11:45:23 AMQuote from: Mr. Psychologist on February 08, 2017, 11:41:16 AMQuote from: challengerX on February 08, 2017, 11:28:57 AMHonestly I think your faggot sibling needs to pick up the slack.Would you like living with your grandparents? How would your father feel about this?I would dearly love the little bastard to do so, or at the very least stop causing so much other shit for the family with his endless stupidity. We got rid of one problem by shipping him off to mother's, and now this retard decides he's going to step up to the plate in the degeneracy olympics.I'd love to live there honestly.The difference it makes when you are in a home with people who genuinely appreciate things you do for them, is astounding. Here it feels more like being a caretaker in a building full of autistic chimpanzees.The only problem with me going there, is that shit would fall apart in the asylum. The dogs would never get walked, barely get fed on time, let alone have any interaction from people. The grocery delivery wouldn't happen and food would quite literally fester in the fridge because they can't be fucked to throw it away.I'm just tired of it really. Absolutely exhausted with their unhelpful selfish attitudes.That's when you put your foot down matey. When you're doing something charitable or "nice" for somebody, or even a job in general, there's always something very important to consider. Especially if it's a job.If somebody gives you shit, ask yourself. "Am I being paid for this?" If the answer is no, then it's time to leave. Let people fend for themselves and their own choices.Yeah, sadly it's not so simple for family.You bet your ass it is. Family count as people and people make their own lifestyle choices. You can either help them as much as you're able to within a rational, sane parameter, but if they aren't going to help themselves then that's on them, not you.Hm, I suppose.It's just the rare times I need help from them that wind me up. Getting them to do anything is such an arduous and unreliable effort that it's simply easier to DIY.So the obvious answer is to stop helping them, but I've still got this automatic 'help' switch going. If someone needs a hand, the answer is yes. I know I shouldn't think like that, but I can't really help it (irony).Same problem with me. Eventually it'll happen to you. You'll be so tied up in everybody else's shit that it'll be like a black hole and you won't feel in control of your life anymore. You'll expend so much effort and time and energy and a lot of people will never, ever hold up their end of the stick. You'll be carrying the stick and the person.I get the need to help people. But you have to rationalize it. Your life, and your priorities have to come first. You help when you're able to. But when it overrides your life, it will catch up to you and believe me it will take a massive toll on you. You have to know when to put your foot down.Maybe you don't have to leave outright. But a break wouldn't hurt.
Quote from: Sαndtrap on February 08, 2017, 12:12:10 PMQuote from: Mr. Psychologist on February 08, 2017, 12:04:43 PMQuote from: Sαndtrap on February 08, 2017, 12:02:16 PMQuote from: Mr. Psychologist on February 08, 2017, 11:58:59 AMQuote from: Sαndtrap on February 08, 2017, 11:45:23 AMQuote from: Mr. Psychologist on February 08, 2017, 11:41:16 AMQuote from: challengerX on February 08, 2017, 11:28:57 AMHonestly I think your faggot sibling needs to pick up the slack.Would you like living with your grandparents? How would your father feel about this?I would dearly love the little bastard to do so, or at the very least stop causing so much other shit for the family with his endless stupidity. We got rid of one problem by shipping him off to mother's, and now this retard decides he's going to step up to the plate in the degeneracy olympics.I'd love to live there honestly.The difference it makes when you are in a home with people who genuinely appreciate things you do for them, is astounding. Here it feels more like being a caretaker in a building full of autistic chimpanzees.The only problem with me going there, is that shit would fall apart in the asylum. The dogs would never get walked, barely get fed on time, let alone have any interaction from people. The grocery delivery wouldn't happen and food would quite literally fester in the fridge because they can't be fucked to throw it away.I'm just tired of it really. Absolutely exhausted with their unhelpful selfish attitudes.That's when you put your foot down matey. When you're doing something charitable or "nice" for somebody, or even a job in general, there's always something very important to consider. Especially if it's a job.If somebody gives you shit, ask yourself. "Am I being paid for this?" If the answer is no, then it's time to leave. Let people fend for themselves and their own choices.Yeah, sadly it's not so simple for family.You bet your ass it is. Family count as people and people make their own lifestyle choices. You can either help them as much as you're able to within a rational, sane parameter, but if they aren't going to help themselves then that's on them, not you.Hm, I suppose.It's just the rare times I need help from them that wind me up. Getting them to do anything is such an arduous and unreliable effort that it's simply easier to DIY.So the obvious answer is to stop helping them, but I've still got this automatic 'help' switch going. If someone needs a hand, the answer is yes. I know I shouldn't think like that, but I can't really help it (irony).Same problem with me. Eventually it'll happen to you. You'll be so tied up in everybody else's shit that it'll be like a black hole and you won't feel in control of your life anymore. You'll expend so much effort and time and energy and a lot of people will never, ever hold up their end of the stick. You'll be carrying the stick and the person.I get the need to help people. But you have to rationalize it. Your life, and your priorities have to come first. You help when you're able to. But when it overrides your life, it will catch up to you and believe me it will take a massive toll on you. You have to know when to put your foot down.Maybe you don't have to leave outright. But a break wouldn't hurt.How though?It's just alien to think of saying 'no' when someone asks you for help, like I can't actually think of a way to say no that wouldn't feel terrible.
Quote from: Mr. Psychologist on February 08, 2017, 12:16:31 PMQuote from: Sαndtrap on February 08, 2017, 12:12:10 PMQuote from: Mr. Psychologist on February 08, 2017, 12:04:43 PMQuote from: Sαndtrap on February 08, 2017, 12:02:16 PMQuote from: Mr. Psychologist on February 08, 2017, 11:58:59 AMQuote from: Sαndtrap on February 08, 2017, 11:45:23 AMQuote from: Mr. Psychologist on February 08, 2017, 11:41:16 AMQuote from: challengerX on February 08, 2017, 11:28:57 AMHonestly I think your faggot sibling needs to pick up the slack.Would you like living with your grandparents? How would your father feel about this?I would dearly love the little bastard to do so, or at the very least stop causing so much other shit for the family with his endless stupidity. We got rid of one problem by shipping him off to mother's, and now this retard decides he's going to step up to the plate in the degeneracy olympics.I'd love to live there honestly.The difference it makes when you are in a home with people who genuinely appreciate things you do for them, is astounding. Here it feels more like being a caretaker in a building full of autistic chimpanzees.The only problem with me going there, is that shit would fall apart in the asylum. The dogs would never get walked, barely get fed on time, let alone have any interaction from people. The grocery delivery wouldn't happen and food would quite literally fester in the fridge because they can't be fucked to throw it away.I'm just tired of it really. Absolutely exhausted with their unhelpful selfish attitudes.That's when you put your foot down matey. When you're doing something charitable or "nice" for somebody, or even a job in general, there's always something very important to consider. Especially if it's a job.If somebody gives you shit, ask yourself. "Am I being paid for this?" If the answer is no, then it's time to leave. Let people fend for themselves and their own choices.Yeah, sadly it's not so simple for family.You bet your ass it is. Family count as people and people make their own lifestyle choices. You can either help them as much as you're able to within a rational, sane parameter, but if they aren't going to help themselves then that's on them, not you.Hm, I suppose.It's just the rare times I need help from them that wind me up. Getting them to do anything is such an arduous and unreliable effort that it's simply easier to DIY.So the obvious answer is to stop helping them, but I've still got this automatic 'help' switch going. If someone needs a hand, the answer is yes. I know I shouldn't think like that, but I can't really help it (irony).Same problem with me. Eventually it'll happen to you. You'll be so tied up in everybody else's shit that it'll be like a black hole and you won't feel in control of your life anymore. You'll expend so much effort and time and energy and a lot of people will never, ever hold up their end of the stick. You'll be carrying the stick and the person.I get the need to help people. But you have to rationalize it. Your life, and your priorities have to come first. You help when you're able to. But when it overrides your life, it will catch up to you and believe me it will take a massive toll on you. You have to know when to put your foot down.Maybe you don't have to leave outright. But a break wouldn't hurt.How though?It's just alien to think of saying 'no' when someone asks you for help, like I can't actually think of a way to say no that wouldn't feel terrible.I've never directly said "no" to anybody who asked for help.I'll tell them either that I'm doing something that requires a lot of my attention or time but tell them when I'll have some free time to either help later, or I'll go halfway. I'll offer them as much as I'm able to do there and then, but leave a window of time for myself to do my shit too.
"Look I'm really busy I can't help right now"Don't let people guilt trip you into doing things for them. Once in a while just say no, because at the end of the day your siblings are taking advantage of you. Family or not, what's right is right.
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