I'm really not sure what to do.

I should say, this isn't prostitution. They don't want to be in the tape. They just want me to make one and send it to them, but I've never done anything like that before.

The most I've done is take dick pics or pictures in my underwear. I don't even own a sex toy, much less take dildo pictures or make recordings.

I'm not sure if it's something I wanna do, but my irl friends seem to have a really destigmatized view of sex workers. They tell me I shouldn't be ashamed, and that it's easy money.

What do you guys think of sex work and cam girls? Is it something for the shameless and the truly desperate, or is it just another job?

I would say that it's a legitimate work (more so considering COVID is outside), but then again I'm quite shameless on that aspect, so I don't think my vote counts.

Also, a sex tape? Client doesn't want to be in it, so does he wants it to be sex or you just jerking off in a sexy outfit? If he wants you just to jerk off then that's rather easy. Lack of toys can be replaced with different outfits and various poses. Maybe ask client what he would want to see. 

I remember also hearing someone paying 1200$ to someone to play with his mother (in a safe way) and they done it and was happy about that. I only heard this story about sex tapes though.

I remember also hearing someone paying 1200$ to someone to play with his mother (in a safe way) and they done it and was happy about that.

christ jesus fuck

I don’t care about sex work personally, because if I said it was wrong or not legitimate work I’d be a hypocrite because of porn and shit.

As for your case it can go one of two ways if you do it, you make an easy $300 and that’s that.

Or you make it and get $300 and potentially run into someone creepy as fuck or really doesn’t like you who digs up your history and uses it to harass you, the internet is full of weird fucks so the chance isn’t low.

I know it sounds like a 50 year old soccer mom telling you to be careful what you post on the internet but there are messed up people out there

Considering my views on sex? I'm on the fence. On one hand, you've got this massive industry that capitalizes on a basic human instinct and warps it into something lesser. In poorer countries people are drafted into the sex industry with no choice. And in the modern sex industry in so called civilized countries there's a lot of rampant abuse as well. On the other hand, there's people making choices in their life willingly to participate in the whole thing. I can't stop them from that, and all I can say is that if that's their thing, then so be it.

I won't say that it's just a job however. Crawling in shit in a hazmat suit is a job, but you don't see too many gleefully lining up for that do you? There's a limit for everybody in their self worth. And whether or not they want to delude themselves into thinking it, sex workers are at the bottom of the totem. I don't know your stance on sexuality, but I can tell you mine. I believe if you're going to do it, it's with somebody you cherish. Anything beyond that is either vapid or simplistic need, and it's lowering yourself down a notch in quality.

For you this will either be an act that sits well, in the middle ground, or poorly. You can't undo the poorly if you draw that card. So ask yourself if it's worth your trouble to be a gambler and lose for three hundred dollars. And, fuck dude, three hundred dollars will vanish quick. Cash is cash. It always vanishes, and you can always make it somewhere else without having to sell your integrity.