So, this happened today....I feel sick....

Batch · October 28, 2015, 02:50:51 AM

So as most of you know I work in retail, for Australia Post, so I generally run in to some interesting people, some customers are friendly yadda yadda.

This old guy, around 60's-70's has come in a few times, banter was passed over transactions, nothing new....today.....at the end of the transaction....the man grabs a piece of paper, and writes his name, number and address on there, and hands it to me.

He says: "You seem like a very nice person, and I'd like to get to know you better, call that number and we might organise something and I'll take you out for dinner"

Spoiler

WHAT THE FUCK

So yeah, didnt really know how to respond, told him "we'll see about that" and sent him off....I should have told him he has the wrong idea....but I was shocked.....the next customer asked me if I was alright, and I really don't know, went and threw up after that.....so that ever happened to you guys?

Like I guess he is allowed to, it's not like I'm underaged, and if it was a girl I'd be flattered, I'd throw the number away of course, it's just.....in my head, it's disgusting.

Spoke to the boss and a few workmates about it, told me to disregard it, and that its.....well fucking creepy. But I just feel sick...

Luciana · October 28, 2015, 02:53:16 AM

I came into this thread expecting something serious

and all I get is your homophobic old man (for money OHOHOHO) bitching

Consider me disappointed son. You don't get a gold sticker for the day.

Batch · October 28, 2015, 02:56:31 AM

Quote from: Luciana on October 28, 2015, 02:53:16 AM

I came into this thread expecting something serious

and all I get is your homophobic old man (for money OHOHOHO) bitching

Consider me disappointed son. You don't get a gold sticker for the day.

I don't mind gay people, it's just when an old guy comes in and asks me out to dinner I get a bit sick........

Jive Turkey · October 28, 2015, 02:56:35 AM

I plan to take advantage of rich old men in the coming years

Elegiac · October 28, 2015, 03:00:00 AM

Quote from: Jive Turkey on October 28, 2015, 02:56:35 AM

I plan to take advantage of rich old men in the coming years

No you don't

ExodusMae · October 28, 2015, 03:00:48 AM

Like I said before, you're there to work, not to have old men harassing you and wanting you to be their little boy toy.

This is wrong on so many levels.

Spoiler

Jive Turkey · October 28, 2015, 03:00:53 AM

Quote from: Elegiac on October 28, 2015, 03:00:00 AM

Quote from: Jive Turkey on October 28, 2015, 02:56:35 AM
I plan to take advantage of rich old men in the coming years
No you don't

Yes i will be a camguy

*no homo*

Ghost Guy · October 28, 2015, 03:01:06 AM

I once wore a tight fitting sweater at a mall and this gay guy started hitting on me.
I guess you could say it was a queer day.

A salt rifle · October 28, 2015, 03:04:18 AM

I say go for it.

A free dinner's a free dinner.

Elegiac · October 28, 2015, 03:07:34 AM

Quote from: Jive Turkey on October 28, 2015, 03:00:53 AM

Quote from: Elegiac on October 28, 2015, 03:00:00 AM
Quote from: Jive Turkey on October 28, 2015, 02:56:35 AM
I plan to take advantage of rich old men in the coming years
No you don't
Yes i will be a camguy

*no homo*

Please explain.

Batch · October 28, 2015, 03:08:50 AM

Yeah if I was ever stupid enough to take the offer, I think it'd be under the assumption of me hurting him.

This fear is turning to anger quickly...

Elegiac · October 28, 2015, 03:12:57 AM

Quote from: Batch on October 28, 2015, 03:08:50 AM

Yeah if I was ever stupid enough to take the offer, I think it'd be under the assumption of me hurting him.

This fear is turning to anger quickly...

Your anger is quickly turning my curious indifference to sadness. Don't be mean to him.

Batch · October 28, 2015, 03:14:59 AM

Quote from: Elegiac on October 28, 2015, 03:12:57 AM

Quote from: Batch on October 28, 2015, 03:08:50 AM
Yeah if I was ever stupid enough to take the offer, I think it'd be under the assumption of me hurting him.

This fear is turning to anger quickly...
Your anger is quickly turning my curious indifference to sadness. Don't be mean to him.

No, I won't it goes against my nature.

This is just very confronting.

Elegiac · October 28, 2015, 03:17:00 AM

Quote from: Batch on October 28, 2015, 03:14:59 AM

Quote from: Elegiac on October 28, 2015, 03:12:57 AM
Quote from: Batch on October 28, 2015, 03:08:50 AM
Yeah if I was ever stupid enough to take the offer, I think it'd be under the assumption of me hurting him.

This fear is turning to anger quickly...
Your anger is quickly turning my curious indifference to sadness. Don't be mean to him.
No, I won't it goes against my nature.

This is just very confronting.

Keep laughin it off fella

Jive Turkey · October 28, 2015, 03:24:51 AM

Quote from: Batch on October 28, 2015, 03:08:50 AM

Yeah if I was ever stupid enough to take the offer, I think it'd be under the assumption of me hurting him.

This fear is turning to anger quickly...

lol wat, calm down. Have you never been hit on by a guy before?

Jive Turkey · October 28, 2015, 03:25:29 AM

Quote from: Elegiac on October 28, 2015, 03:07:34 AM

Quote from: Jive Turkey on October 28, 2015, 03:00:53 AM
Quote from: Elegiac on October 28, 2015, 03:00:00 AM
Quote from: Jive Turkey on October 28, 2015, 02:56:35 AM
I plan to take advantage of rich old men in the coming years
No you don't
Yes i will be a camguy

*no homo*
Please explain.

I will flex and stuff for old rich men online and they will send me money

But no homo

Luciana · October 28, 2015, 03:30:38 AM

I have sex with old men for money apparently

Elegiac · October 28, 2015, 03:33:39 AM

Quote from: Luciana on October 28, 2015, 03:30:38 AM

I have sex with old men for money apparently

It seems like you accidentally a prostitute

Elegiac · October 28, 2015, 03:34:32 AM

Quote from: Jive Turkey on October 28, 2015, 03:25:29 AM

Quote from: Elegiac on October 28, 2015, 03:07:34 AM
Quote from: Jive Turkey on October 28, 2015, 03:00:53 AM
Quote from: Elegiac on October 28, 2015, 03:00:00 AM
Quote from: Jive Turkey on October 28, 2015, 02:56:35 AM
I plan to take advantage of rich old men in the coming years
No you don't
Yes i will be a camguy

*no homo*
Please explain.
I will flex and stuff for old rich men online and they will send me money

But no homo

They'll kidnap you I'm not even kidding

Luciana · October 28, 2015, 03:38:09 AM

Quote from: Elegiac on October 28, 2015, 03:33:39 AM

Quote from: Luciana on October 28, 2015, 03:30:38 AM
I have sex with old men for money apparently
It seems like you accidentally a prostitute

The reference is lost on you, dear.

Elegiac · October 28, 2015, 03:40:04 AM

Quote from: Luciana on October 28, 2015, 03:38:09 AM

Quote from: Elegiac on October 28, 2015, 03:33:39 AM
Quote from: Luciana on October 28, 2015, 03:30:38 AM
I have sex with old men for money apparently
It seems like you accidentally a prostitute
The reference is lost on you, dear.

Can I know?

Luciana · October 28, 2015, 03:43:55 AM

Quote from: Elegiac on October 28, 2015, 03:40:04 AM

Quote from: Luciana on October 28, 2015, 03:38:09 AM
Quote from: Elegiac on October 28, 2015, 03:33:39 AM
Quote from: Luciana on October 28, 2015, 03:30:38 AM
I have sex with old men for money apparently
It seems like you accidentally a prostitute
The reference is lost on you, dear.
Can I know?

https://www.reddit.com/r/fatestaynight/comments/3658pw/could_someone_explain_tohsaka_rin_pleases_old_men/

Batch · October 28, 2015, 03:45:32 AM

Quote from: Jive Turkey on October 28, 2015, 03:24:51 AM

Quote from: Batch on October 28, 2015, 03:08:50 AM
Yeah if I was ever stupid enough to take the offer, I think it'd be under the assumption of me hurting him.

This fear is turning to anger quickly...
lol wat, calm down. Have you never been hit on by a guy before?

No, like I said, its a confronting thing

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ExodusMae · October 28, 2015, 04:32:56 AM

Quote from: ☢ Nuketown on October 28, 2015, 04:12:52 AM

...but somehow it would've been okay if you were a girl?

Dude, you're being homophobic. Your reaction should be the same as what you said girl you would've done.

I'm sure his reaction would be similar if a 70 year old woman gave him her number and address and asked him to call her and she'll take him out to dinner.

Onion · October 28, 2015, 04:48:28 AM

Maybe he's just a lonely old man seeking company and friendship. Or maybe he wants to kill you.

Either way, it's worth the risk for a free dinner.

Onion · October 28, 2015, 04:50:39 AM

Quote from: ☢ Nuketown on October 28, 2015, 04:12:52 AM

...but somehow it would've been okay if you were a girl?

Dude, you're being homophobic. Your reaction should be the same as what you said girl you would've done.

I think he means if it was a young girl that offered him their number, rather than an old man.

DAS B00T x2 · October 28, 2015, 05:44:00 AM

How do you know he's hitting on you?
Maybe he just has no friends left because old people tend to die a lot, or maybe it's a business venture.

Elegiac · October 28, 2015, 06:13:08 AM

Quote from: DAS r00d d00d B00T on October 28, 2015, 05:44:00 AM

How do you know he's hitting on you?
Maybe he just has no friends left because old people tend to die a lot, or maybe it's a business venture.

I'm gonna agree with Das on this one, it was a man-date.

What were you talking with him about? That'll make it or break it for me.

Super Irish · October 28, 2015, 07:09:46 AM

I wouldn't think about it. Kindly refuse and move on.

This is the trouble that gay people have in general, unless someone outright says they're gay it can be difficult to tell just from mannerisms and such. Hell, given his age he might not even be gay, he might just be some lonely old man.

I'd consider it a polite offer, he only asked for lunch (unless you're missing out some more sinister details here). It's a lot better than him coming over and saying he'd like to bend you over his couch and fuck you, if that even was his intention.