Should I ask if my gf would want to move in with me

BC · April 12, 2015, 12:02:16 AM

I know I know, BC what are you doing?

Well, we haven't been dating for long enough to ask this question normally, but it sort of makes sense.

My place is about a 15 min drive from her campus, and it would save her the cost of living in a dorm and/or commuting from her house that's 45 min away.

She wouldn't have to pay rent, it's by a lot of places she frequently goes and shit, she really loves the apartment.

I'm not exactly opposed to asking, I just think it's odd to ask this "early". It would also sort of complicate things if we do in fact break up. But that's a different thing entirely.

So flood, what would you suggest

Juuzou · April 12, 2015, 12:03:04 AM

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BC · April 12, 2015, 12:06:34 AM

Quote from: Noëlle on April 12, 2015, 12:03:04 AM

Nope.

Your fast

CK97 · April 12, 2015, 12:07:41 AM

After dating for about a year and half or two, then you can ask.

Juuzou · April 12, 2015, 12:08:32 AM

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BC · April 12, 2015, 12:10:06 AM

Quote from: Noëlle on April 12, 2015, 12:08:32 AM

Quote from: BC on April 12, 2015, 12:06:34 AM
Quote from: Noëlle on April 12, 2015, 12:03:04 AM
Nope.

Your fast
You are*

*sigh*

Turkey · April 12, 2015, 12:11:09 AM

I've never been a fan of advancing a relationship with convenience as an excuse.

Juuzou · April 12, 2015, 12:11:21 AM

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BC · April 12, 2015, 12:11:43 AM

Quote from: HurtfulTurkey on April 12, 2015, 12:11:09 AM

I've never been a fan of advancing a relationship with convenience as an excuse.

Neither am I, but it does make sense

Turkey · April 12, 2015, 12:19:26 AM

Quote from: BC on April 12, 2015, 12:11:43 AM

Quote from: HurtfulTurkey on April 12, 2015, 12:11:09 AM
I've never been a fan of advancing a relationship with convenience as an excuse.

Neither am I, but it does make sense

I don't know your relationship so I can't agree or disagree, but you didn't list any reason why you want her to move in, you just stated that it's convenient for her. Do you love her? Do you see this being a long relationship? Are you honestly aware of the burdens of cohabitation? Just things to consider. Living with a girl can lose its romantic luster very quickly.

R o c k e t · April 12, 2015, 12:22:21 AM

How long have you dated exactly? Hasn't it been like 7-8 months?

🂿 · April 12, 2015, 12:22:49 AM

It really depends. If things are really going well and you're both sure it can work out, I say talk to her about it with her and see what she things.

Trust me. Talking is key here. Talk about it, but don't pressure her into moving in.

BC · April 12, 2015, 12:23:41 AM

Quote from: Val 'Ketam on April 12, 2015, 12:22:21 AM

How long have you dated exactly? Hasn't it been like 7-8 months?

I'm impressed you were that close, it's almost 8 months lol

BC · April 12, 2015, 12:24:27 AM

Quote from: Decimator Omega on April 12, 2015, 12:22:49 AM

It really depends. If things are really going well and you're both sure it can work out, I say talk to her about it with her and see what she things.

Trust me. Talking is key here. Talk about it, but don't pressure her into moving in.

We've been talking about it briefly today, I honestly can't see any problems coming from it. And usually I'm skeptical on things like this

R o c k e t · April 12, 2015, 12:24:36 AM

Quote from: BC on April 12, 2015, 12:23:41 AM

Quote from: Val 'Ketam on April 12, 2015, 12:22:21 AM
How long have you dated exactly? Hasn't it been like 7-8 months?

I'm impressed you were that close, it's almost 8 months lol

Jive Turkey · April 12, 2015, 12:25:18 AM

Things change when you start living together mayne....so I've heard anyways

BC · April 12, 2015, 12:25:35 AM

Quote from: HurtfulTurkey on April 12, 2015, 12:19:26 AM

Quote from: BC on April 12, 2015, 12:11:43 AM
Quote from: HurtfulTurkey on April 12, 2015, 12:11:09 AM
I've never been a fan of advancing a relationship with convenience as an excuse.

Neither am I, but it does make sense

I don't know your relationship so I can't agree or disagree, but you didn't list any reason why you want her to move in, you just stated that it's convenient for her. Do you love her? Do you see this being a long relationship? Are you honestly aware of the burdens of cohabitation? Just things to consider. Living with a girl can lose its romantic luster very quickly.

She's stayed at my place for about a month in the past and id say the romantic aspect only escalated from there. We got along very well, I can't remember anything going wrong in all honesty.

It's more or less me feeling it's too early, but that's the only thing preventing me from being completely on board.

🂿 · April 12, 2015, 12:26:53 AM

Quote from: BC on April 12, 2015, 12:24:27 AM

Quote from: Decimator Omega on April 12, 2015, 12:22:49 AM
It really depends. If things are really going well and you're both sure it can work out, I say talk to her about it with her and see what she things.

Trust me. Talking is key here. Talk about it, but don't pressure her into moving in.

We've been talking about it briefly today, I honestly can't see any problems coming from it. And usually I'm skeptical on things like this

Well, if I were you I'd keep talking about it. Having her move in isn't an easy process. When she's ready and you're ready, then it's a go. Otherwise patience is key. She may not be ready yet.

Same goes with marriage proposals, but those can be tricky.

Jim · April 12, 2015, 12:28:09 AM

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The Lord Porch · April 12, 2015, 12:29:08 AM

Move in where?

Your box or fake cars lolmao

🂿 · April 12, 2015, 12:30:10 AM

Quote from: Porch Lord on April 12, 2015, 12:29:08 AM

Move in where?

Your box or fake cars lolmao

They're not fake. He's proven that.

The Lord Porch · April 12, 2015, 12:31:33 AM

Quote from: Decimator Omega on April 12, 2015, 12:30:10 AM

Quote from: Porch Lord on April 12, 2015, 12:29:08 AM
Move in where?

Your box or fake cars lolmao

They're not fake. He's proven that.

Deci I can't hear you with black cock in your mouth

BC · April 12, 2015, 12:34:02 AM

Quote from: Porch Lord on April 12, 2015, 12:29:08 AM

Move in where?

Your box or fake cars lolmao

*sigh*

The Lord Porch · April 12, 2015, 12:35:06 AM

Quote from: BC on April 12, 2015, 12:34:02 AM

Quote from: Porch Lord on April 12, 2015, 12:29:08 AM
Move in where?

Your box or fake cars lolmao

*sigh*

Don't spit

Swallow it

BC · April 12, 2015, 12:37:05 AM

Quote from: Porch Lord on April 12, 2015, 12:35:06 AM

Quote from: BC on April 12, 2015, 12:34:02 AM
Quote from: Porch Lord on April 12, 2015, 12:29:08 AM
Move in where?

Your box or fake cars lolmao

*sigh*

Don't spit

Swallow it

What?

🂿 · April 12, 2015, 12:37:58 AM

Quote from: BC on April 12, 2015, 12:37:05 AM

Quote from: Porch Lord on April 12, 2015, 12:35:06 AM
Quote from: BC on April 12, 2015, 12:34:02 AM
Quote from: Porch Lord on April 12, 2015, 12:29:08 AM
Move in where?

Your box or fake cars lolmao

*sigh*

Don't spit

Swallow it

What?

Ignore him. He's a fucking moron.

R o c k e t · April 12, 2015, 12:38:41 AM

Quote from: BC on April 12, 2015, 12:34:02 AM

Quote from: Porch Lord on April 12, 2015, 12:29:08 AM
Move in where?

Your box or fake cars lolmao

*sigh*

YouTube

The Lord Porch · April 12, 2015, 12:38:42 AM

Quote from: BC on April 12, 2015, 12:37:05 AM

Quote from: Porch Lord on April 12, 2015, 12:35:06 AM
Quote from: BC on April 12, 2015, 12:34:02 AM
Quote from: Porch Lord on April 12, 2015, 12:29:08 AM
Move in where?

Your box or fake cars lolmao

*sigh*

Don't spit

Swallow it

What?

Swallow.

It.

The Lord Porch · April 12, 2015, 12:40:37 AM

Quote from: Decimator Omega on April 12, 2015, 12:37:58 AM

Quote from: BC on April 12, 2015, 12:37:05 AM
Quote from: Porch Lord on April 12, 2015, 12:35:06 AM
Quote from: BC on April 12, 2015, 12:34:02 AM
Quote from: Porch Lord on April 12, 2015, 12:29:08 AM
Move in where?

Your box or fake cars lolmao

*sigh*

Don't spit

Swallow it

What?

Ignore him. He's a fucking moron.

>says the guy with the guy Fawkes mask

L'mao

Risay117 · April 12, 2015, 12:42:59 AM

Quote from: BC on April 12, 2015, 12:25:35 AM

Quote from: HurtfulTurkey on April 12, 2015, 12:19:26 AM
Quote from: BC on April 12, 2015, 12:11:43 AM
Quote from: HurtfulTurkey on April 12, 2015, 12:11:09 AM
I've never been a fan of advancing a relationship with convenience as an excuse.

Neither am I, but it does make sense

I don't know your relationship so I can't agree or disagree, but you didn't list any reason why you want her to move in, you just stated that it's convenient for her. Do you love her? Do you see this being a long relationship? Are you honestly aware of the burdens of cohabitation? Just things to consider. Living with a girl can lose its romantic luster very quickly.

She's stayed at my place for about a month in the past and id say the romantic aspect only escalated from there. We got along very well, I can't remember anything going wrong in all honesty.

It's more or less me feeling it's too early, but that's the only thing preventing me from being completely on board.

Well it will drop after more than a month. Though if you can accept her for all her faults and issues then go ahead. If you see a future with her then go ahead.