Quote from: Decimator Omega on March 25, 2016, 10:46:03 PMQuote from: MyNameIsCharlie on March 25, 2016, 10:44:40 PMQuote from: Decimator Omega on March 25, 2016, 10:36:07 PMQuote from: MyNameIsCharlie on March 25, 2016, 10:07:44 PMLife has these moments. Valleys between tge peaks. What defines you is how you start climbing again. Pick three goals. One for the end of the week, one for the end of summer and one for the end of the year. Have them be something exciting. And work for those. Focus on them.Its got to be feasible though.Of course. They have to be achievable. But, they have to be big enough to get excited over. Example: Al Baghdadi and I are setting a goal to go to Hawaii in July. We don't have tge funds yet, but we know we can. It gives us a reason to work a little harder.Al Baghdadi?The Flood chose the online nickname for my GF
Quote from: MyNameIsCharlie on March 25, 2016, 10:44:40 PMQuote from: Decimator Omega on March 25, 2016, 10:36:07 PMQuote from: MyNameIsCharlie on March 25, 2016, 10:07:44 PMLife has these moments. Valleys between tge peaks. What defines you is how you start climbing again. Pick three goals. One for the end of the week, one for the end of summer and one for the end of the year. Have them be something exciting. And work for those. Focus on them.Its got to be feasible though.Of course. They have to be achievable. But, they have to be big enough to get excited over. Example: Al Baghdadi and I are setting a goal to go to Hawaii in July. We don't have tge funds yet, but we know we can. It gives us a reason to work a little harder.Al Baghdadi?
Quote from: Decimator Omega on March 25, 2016, 10:36:07 PMQuote from: MyNameIsCharlie on March 25, 2016, 10:07:44 PMLife has these moments. Valleys between tge peaks. What defines you is how you start climbing again. Pick three goals. One for the end of the week, one for the end of summer and one for the end of the year. Have them be something exciting. And work for those. Focus on them.Its got to be feasible though.Of course. They have to be achievable. But, they have to be big enough to get excited over. Example: Al Baghdadi and I are setting a goal to go to Hawaii in July. We don't have tge funds yet, but we know we can. It gives us a reason to work a little harder.
Quote from: MyNameIsCharlie on March 25, 2016, 10:07:44 PMLife has these moments. Valleys between tge peaks. What defines you is how you start climbing again. Pick three goals. One for the end of the week, one for the end of summer and one for the end of the year. Have them be something exciting. And work for those. Focus on them.Its got to be feasible though.
Life has these moments. Valleys between tge peaks. What defines you is how you start climbing again. Pick three goals. One for the end of the week, one for the end of summer and one for the end of the year. Have them be something exciting. And work for those. Focus on them.
I am, kill me.
Quote from: Yu on March 25, 2016, 11:04:31 PMI am, kill me.YouTubeI can't kill you. You are Yu.
Quote from: Decimator Omega on March 25, 2016, 11:20:46 PMQuote from: Yu on March 25, 2016, 11:04:31 PMI am, kill me.YouTubeI can't kill you. You are Yu.I'm confused.
Deci, you want an experience to focus for?Amsterdam. Go for New Years
Quote from: MyNameIsCharlie on March 26, 2016, 12:45:30 AMDeci, you want an experience to focus for?Amsterdam. Go for New YearsThought about going to Europe at some point during the summer, but the terrorist attacks have made me reconsider.
Quote from: Decimator Omega on March 26, 2016, 12:51:37 AMQuote from: MyNameIsCharlie on March 26, 2016, 12:45:30 AMDeci, you want an experience to focus for?Amsterdam. Go for New YearsThought about going to Europe at some point during the summer, but the terrorist attacks have made me reconsider.Don't reconsider. You could get mugged and stabbed in the neck tomorrow night walking to your car. The odds of you dying in a terrorist attack is next to nothing. Travel is its own reward. Plus... Dutch girls know how repressed their American counterparts are. They try to make it up to you. Freaky sex is just where it starts.
Deci, I understand. But think about it. You could expand your horizons. It sounds like you are in a rut. You know tomorrow will be just like today. A never ending groundhogs day. All I can say is to shake things up and step out of your comfort zone.
Quote from: MyNameIsCharlie on March 26, 2016, 01:01:45 AMDeci, I understand. But think about it. You could expand your horizons. It sounds like you are in a rut. You know tomorrow will be just like today. A never ending groundhogs day. All I can say is to shake things up and step out of your comfort zone.I definitely want to travel, but I don't want to turn into a Roman by fucking a random girl I hardly know. You see where I'm going with this?That and women are people as well. Well to me they are, I know some guys here only see them as fuck toys.
Quote from: Decimator Omega on March 26, 2016, 01:05:29 AMQuote from: MyNameIsCharlie on March 26, 2016, 01:01:45 AMDeci, I understand. But think about it. You could expand your horizons. It sounds like you are in a rut. You know tomorrow will be just like today. A never ending groundhogs day. All I can say is to shake things up and step out of your comfort zone.I definitely want to travel, but I don't want to turn into a Roman by fucking a random girl I hardly know. You see where I'm going with this?That and women are people as well. Well to me they are, I know some guys here only see them as fuck toys.Being dead serious, I just busted up laughing. But, he'd try to wife them.
It's a problem that my generation and those after it are going to face. Know what that is? They've not been taught how to be happy. And they've not been shown or given the means to pursue happiness. From the get-go, all you're instilled with is "Get money, Pay for things." And your faith is directed towards the system which is the main provider of things that make people happy, when they can purchase them of course. That's the illusion, anyway.But it's been like that with every previous generation before yours and mine. Every generation had their big shitstorm to deal with. Every generation had their depressing things to look at. For every generation, as society changed, it was considered a downwards spiral.And yet we're still here. All those generations moping about the end of a good society or a decent world, and lo and behold, we're still here.As for travelling, you know it's not as impossible as they make it seem. People seem to think that you need an express amount of money to travel. All you need is a backpack, your feet, and a passport. It's more dangerous today than it was a few decades ago. But it's still easily possible.
Quote from: Sandtrap on March 26, 2016, 01:11:18 AMIt's a problem that my generation and those after it are going to face. Know what that is? They've not been taught how to be happy. And they've not been shown or given the means to pursue happiness. From the get-go, all you're instilled with is "Get money, Pay for things." And your faith is directed towards the system which is the main provider of things that make people happy, when they can purchase them of course. That's the illusion, anyway.But it's been like that with every previous generation before yours and mine. Every generation had their big shitstorm to deal with. Every generation had their depressing things to look at. For every generation, as society changed, it was considered a downwards spiral.And yet we're still here. All those generations moping about the end of a good society or a decent world, and lo and behold, we're still here.As for travelling, you know it's not as impossible as they make it seem. People seem to think that you need an express amount of money to travel. All you need is a backpack, your feet, and a passport. It's more dangerous today than it was a few decades ago. But it's still easily possible.Well said man. Hope you're holding up well. :/
Deci, you've been lied to. Our bullshit nanny society has taught you that the world is a dangerous place and the only safe and fulfilling path is to get a bullshit dead end job that contributes and goes nowhere. There's a world right outside your door that obeys no rules other than those you set. Everyone shits on your generation for being entitled while denying you what you are truly entitled to. Your life is truly your own and you can really make it what you will. The whole point of this existence is to learn and to love. To live. You have no rules, no right way or wrong way to live. It's terrifying at first, I understand that. But your life is out there. In the tall grass. In those places you can't see, where you can be hurt. Everyone faces their last moments alone. Whether you are surrounded by loved ones or by strangers. You make that final journey all by yourself. It's up to you if it's filled with regret or excitement. If I died tomorrow, you know my only regret? That I wouldn't be there to tell my boys this. So, let me tell you:Your future is unwritten. The monotony of your existence is your own creation. You only need one moment of courage to break the chains and be who you really are. If you want to travel, then work for that. If you want to make a game, go and do it. If you want that moment of everyone cheering your name cause you killed your solo, then make it your life's goal. Live like you'll die tomorrow.
Can't say I am
So is anyone else just tried of living this life
QuoteSo is anyone else just tried of living this lifeNo way! sure there are times when life seems dull and hopeless but if there's something you wan't in life, you simply have to keep doing what needs to be done to achieve it (as long as it's not through illegal means)Do you workout OP? if not I would suggest giving it a try, you might be amazed by some of the gains you make which will motivate you to hunger for further gains resulting in a new appreciation of life.Just a week ago I managed to master an artwork I'v revered for 10 years, I've been consistent with my workout plan this year and I will be ripped before 2017. All I need now is a Turkish girlfriend, been turned down twice this year but I haven't given up yet!
This is quite possibly the best point in my life thus far. It's a bit frustrating, though.