Just told the girl I have loved for the last six years how I feel

Solonoid · March 19, 2017, 02:09:42 AM

And now I have no idea how I feel.

I have no idea if I got closure or if I can move on now.
I don't think anything has changed.

What the hell do I do now.

R o c k e t · March 19, 2017, 02:36:26 AM

Don't worry too much about it, because otherwise you are just waiting for their response.

The Lord Ruler · March 19, 2017, 02:39:02 AM

i usually just drink

Jono · March 19, 2017, 02:48:28 AM

Did you tell her you'd see her in chemistry?

Solonoid · March 19, 2017, 02:51:47 AM

Quote from: R o c k e t on March 19, 2017, 02:36:26 AM

Don't worry too much about it, because otherwise you are just waiting for their response.

Well she said she liked me too back in high school, but we've been apart for so long.

Oddly this didn't fill me with regret.

In fact she told me that she hasn't wanted to go out with anyone since I left.

I left suddenly out junior year, I never got to say goodbye.

I've thought about her every day for years, but mostly she just seemed upset I didn't call her more often.

I explained to her it hurt me, physically to call her because every time I talked to her it just got worse. Because I could only think about the time when I could see her every day.

I'm glad I finally got my feelings off my chest, but she is still always on my mind.

Solonoid · March 19, 2017, 02:52:55 AM

Quote from: Jono on March 19, 2017, 02:48:28 AM

Did you tell her you'd see her in chemistry?

We had English and band together, years ago.

Solonoid · March 19, 2017, 02:53:23 AM

Quote from: The Lord Ruler on March 19, 2017, 02:39:02 AM

i usually just drink

I'm halfway through a case right now.

FatherlyNick - fuck putin · March 19, 2017, 04:03:35 AM

Don't worry, waifu body pillows can't say anything back.

True Turquoise · March 19, 2017, 04:20:33 AM

fart on her

Casper · March 19, 2017, 05:45:56 AM

I thought you were a faggot

velox · March 19, 2017, 06:03:14 AM

Just ask her out dude. Tell her you want to reconnect.

DAS B00T x2 · March 19, 2017, 07:28:46 AM

Quote from: FatherlyNick on March 19, 2017, 04:03:35 AM

Don't worry, waifu body pillows can't say anything back.

At least until you develop schizophrenia.

Ian · March 19, 2017, 10:39:47 AM

You can't really do much, yeah silence is the worst response friend, doing something else to pass the time isn't gonna help much since it'll always be on the back of your mind. I asked a girl out yesterday and the lack of response was on my mind all throughout work until I went on break and got a reply, we're setting one up now (take that judgmental naysayers). Sounds like she was really into you so it seems she might just be busy.

Quote from: Fishcakes on March 19, 2017, 02:09:42 AM

What the hell do I do now.

Verbatim · March 19, 2017, 10:45:12 AM

What was your goal in doing so? Did you expect to be with her or something, or did you just want to get that off your shoulders?

Solonoid · March 19, 2017, 02:31:27 PM

Quote from: Verbatim on March 19, 2017, 10:45:12 AM

What was your goal in doing so? Did you expect to be with her or something, or did you just want to get that off your shoulders?

I really wanted her to help me out it to rest, or tell me it would never happen. We've been so far away for so long now how could it?

Sαndtrap · March 19, 2017, 11:05:58 PM

Quote from: Fishcakes on March 19, 2017, 02:31:27 PM

Quote from: Verbatim on March 19, 2017, 10:45:12 AM
What was your goal in doing so? Did you expect to be with her or something, or did you just want to get that off your shoulders?
I really wanted her to help me out it to rest, or tell me it would never happen. We've been so far away for so long now how could it?

Talk to her a little more about it. See what she thinks.

Distance and time's not a factor. Sometimes you meet people who can travel far that you don't see for years and when they show up again, you hit it off like the gap doesn't exist.

It's a good feeling.

The Hån · March 20, 2017, 01:06:17 AM

Quote from: Velox on March 19, 2017, 06:03:14 AM

Just ask her out dude. Tell her you want to reconnect.

this.

Also did you text or call her?

i am karjala takaisin · March 20, 2017, 01:09:20 AM

>love
you gay or somethin?

MyNameIsCharlie · March 20, 2017, 01:28:48 AM

You did the right thing. The rest is on her. Just be prepared for rejection.

Solonoid · March 20, 2017, 01:54:43 AM

Quote from: The Hån on March 20, 2017, 01:06:17 AM

Quote from: Velox on March 19, 2017, 06:03:14 AM
Just ask her out dude. Tell her you want to reconnect.

this.

Also did you text or call her?

I texted her and said I needed to talk to her, and I let her know how important it was.
She told me it wasn't a good time and 24 hours later she told me she was ready to talk, then I called her.

velox · March 21, 2017, 11:24:53 AM

Quote from: Fishcakes on March 20, 2017, 01:54:43 AM

Quote from: The Hån on March 20, 2017, 01:06:17 AM
Quote from: Velox on March 19, 2017, 06:03:14 AM
Just ask her out dude. Tell her you want to reconnect.

this.

Also did you text or call her?
I texted her and said I needed to talk to her, and I let her know how important it was.
She told me it wasn't a good time and 24 hours later she told me she was ready to talk, then I called her.

...and?

Solonoid · March 21, 2017, 08:23:46 PM

Quote from: Velox on March 21, 2017, 11:24:53 AM

Quote from: Fishcakes on March 20, 2017, 01:54:43 AM
Quote from: The Hån on March 20, 2017, 01:06:17 AM
Quote from: Velox on March 19, 2017, 06:03:14 AM
Just ask her out dude. Tell her you want to reconnect.

this.

Also did you text or call her?
I texted her and said I needed to talk to her, and I let her know how important it was.
She told me it wasn't a good time and 24 hours later she told me she was ready to talk, then I called her.
...and?

I don't really remember what happened next, because immediately after we hung up like, two hours later, I drank 24 beers and a fifth of vodka.

The Hån · March 22, 2017, 12:22:04 AM

Quote from: Fishcakes on March 21, 2017, 08:23:46 PM

Quote from: Velox on March 21, 2017, 11:24:53 AM
Quote from: Fishcakes on March 20, 2017, 01:54:43 AM
Quote from: The Hån on March 20, 2017, 01:06:17 AM
Quote from: Velox on March 19, 2017, 06:03:14 AM
Just ask her out dude. Tell her you want to reconnect.

this.

Also did you text or call her?
I texted her and said I needed to talk to her, and I let her know how important it was.
She told me it wasn't a good time and 24 hours later she told me she was ready to talk, then I called her.
...and?
I don't really remember what happened next, because immediately after we hung up like, two hours later, I drank 24 beers and a fifth of vodka.

dang son.

Solonoid · March 22, 2017, 12:25:52 AM

Quote from: The Hån on March 22, 2017, 12:22:04 AM

Quote from: Fishcakes on March 21, 2017, 08:23:46 PM
Quote from: Velox on March 21, 2017, 11:24:53 AM
Quote from: Fishcakes on March 20, 2017, 01:54:43 AM
Quote from: The Hån on March 20, 2017, 01:06:17 AM
Quote from: Velox on March 19, 2017, 06:03:14 AM
Just ask her out dude. Tell her you want to reconnect.

this.

Also did you text or call her?
I texted her and said I needed to talk to her, and I let her know how important it was.
She told me it wasn't a good time and 24 hours later she told me she was ready to talk, then I called her.
...and?
I don't really remember what happened next, because immediately after we hung up like, two hours later, I drank 24 beers and a fifth of vodka.

dang son.

Well we talked for two hours so it must not have been bad.