in what way is taking a jab at veganism by attempting to turn my logic against me "rubbing me off"
it was quite obvious what part of her post i considered "rubbing off"
i have to be nice to people i don't like, but nobody is allowed to be nice to me, otherwise they're just my live-in nurse
well, no, not really. you give aria special treatment. myself, tblocks, and many other people have genuinely tried to be friendly with you. our argument in the zelda thread became hostile on your part, not mine.
i would say you and tblocks would have the exact same kind of relationship if you had a more caustic personality
i mean you're already kinda there, not that it's even a bad thing
no, tblocks and i don't have that relationship at all on here lol. we rarely argue "in public" like this. its normally over our discord chat or in person if it happens to come up. i use him as a reference in arguments because he's known me my whole life so he has more authority on my character than some random guy on the internet.
as for my caustic personality, idk, it doesn't really seem to bother him. i guess he just realises that it's more about flare than hostile intention.
so what exactly do you want
i want you to exercise more patience. like aria said your "style" is detrimental to whatever your goal is when arguing and i think you have the potential to be more effective by being more charming. don't think of it as an appeal to emotion or whatever. think of it as facilitating the expansion of your ideas.
on top of that you'd just be a friendlier person that people actually enjoy talking to.
but whatever man, what do i know. i think when you're in a good mood, you're a cool dude that i wouldn't mind hanging out with. but you have a short fuse, and that's a problem.