I think I had my first "date" with a girl today... (semi-blog post)

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Jacob Potila was actually a Jacob Flotilla of lies.- WarTurkey
At least she lives somewhat close to you and not in a different country :(


 
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At least she lives somewhat close to you and not in a different country :(

Yeah, so far, pretty good luck with this gal.

That's such a fucked up situation, m8


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I think the fact you are already giving her gifts (and very personalised ones, too) is generally a good enough sign. Can't hurt though, but IMO it sounds like too much.

Eh, I worried about every tiny thing when I was in a similar situation. You'll be fine.

So, yay or nay on "limerence"?

The fact that it's a psychology term, paired with the fact that I just convinced her to change majors (she wanted to be a nurse but it was causing her too much stress) would be kind of an inside joke. Not to mention, I reckon we'll keep exchanging mixtapes, at which point, I could just call the next one "Limerence II" instead of "For [insert name here] II". The former sounds better.

You know her better than we do, but if it's an inside reference she's likely to get than go for it.

You'll have to keep up appearances though, so another original psychological term would have to be chosen for a second tape. Oedipus is not recommended.


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Go for it.  Your friend will figure it out.


 
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You'll have to keep up appearances though, so another original psychological term would have to be chosen for a second tape. Oedipus is not recommended.

Lol. I've already talked to her about that.

But yeah. I have no problem learning new phrases in addition to creating mixtapes for her. Win-win.


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Jacob Potila was actually a Jacob Flotilla of lies.- WarTurkey
At least she lives somewhat close to you and not in a different country :(

Yeah, so far, pretty good luck with this gal.

That's such a fucked up situation, m8

Believe me, it's the worst. Only getting to see each other every couple of months fucking blows.

That's why I'm so determined for my book to be successful, so I get that lovely dosh to see her more.


 
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I think the fact you are already giving her gifts (and very personalised ones, too) is generally a good enough sign. Can't hurt though, but IMO it sounds like too much.

Eh, I worried about every tiny thing when I was in a similar situation. You'll be fine.

So, yay or nay on "limerence"?

The fact that it's a psychology term, paired with the fact that I just convinced her to change majors (she wanted to be a nurse but it was causing her too much stress) would be kind of an inside joke. Not to mention, I reckon we'll keep exchanging mixtapes, at which point, I could just call the next one "Limerence II" instead of "For [insert name here] II". The former sounds better.
Impressive.


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does this stuff even work?
you're both listening to music and you both look up at each other and just.... stare.... into each other eyes...into each other's soul.

No, nothing demonstratably romantic like that. I make consistent eye contact with her when we talk and we wink and stuff at each other though classroom doors amd stuff.

We haven't spent enough time together for "omega beams" to be commonplace.


wtf you waiting for? JUST DO IT!



 
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you're both listening to music and you both look up at each other and just.... stare.... into each other eyes...into each other's soul.

No, nothing demonstratably romantic like that. I make consistent eye contact with her when we talk and we wink and stuff at each other though classroom doors amd stuff.

We haven't spent enough time together for "omega beams" to be commonplace.


wtf you waiting for? JUST DO IT!
It doesn't work like that.


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does this stuff even work?
you're both listening to music and you both look up at each other and just.... stare.... into each other eyes...into each other's soul.

No, nothing demonstratably romantic like that. I make consistent eye contact with her when we talk and we wink and stuff at each other though classroom doors amd stuff.

We haven't spent enough time together for "omega beams" to be commonplace.


wtf you waiting for? JUST DO IT!
It doesn't work like that.

EDIT: fuck i thought i quoted the OP nigga


TB, yea it does
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you're both listening to music and you both look up at each other and just.... stare.... into each other eyes...into each other's soul.

No, nothing demonstratably romantic like that. I make consistent eye contact with her when we talk and we wink and stuff at each other though classroom doors amd stuff.

We haven't spent enough time together for "omega beams" to be commonplace.


wtf you waiting for? JUST DO IT!
It doesn't work like that.

>posts first date
>tells vet how the game works
I talk to the guy on a regular basis. The situation is different.


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you're both listening to music and you both look up at each other and just.... stare.... into each other eyes...into each other's soul.

No, nothing demonstratably romantic like that. I make consistent eye contact with her when we talk and we wink and stuff at each other though classroom doors amd stuff.

We haven't spent enough time together for "omega beams" to be commonplace.


wtf you waiting for? JUST DO IT!
It doesn't work like that.

>posts first date
>tells vet how the game works
I talk to the guy on a regular basis. The situation is different.

then he better



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At least she lives somewhat close to you and not in a different country :(

Yeah, so far, pretty good luck with this gal.

That's such a fucked up situation, m8

Believe me, it's the worst. Only getting to see each other every couple of months fucking blows.

That's why I'm so determined for my book to be successful, so I get that lovely dosh to see her more.
I know those feels. It took my honeydew and I three years to finally be together. The best of luck to you. :)


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Jacob Potila was actually a Jacob Flotilla of lies.- WarTurkey
So

how's it going


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So

how's it going

Firstly, thanks for asking. I was thinking of making another thread, but I hesitated.

Secondly, for the sake of the story, the girl I'm into will be "Eva" and her ex-boyfriend will be "Adamska".

Now...

It varies from day-to-day.

I'm still really into her, and we've been talking every day over the last week or so, but she's still really in love with Adamska. She's like me, in that she has these mood-swings from 'feeling great' to feeling like 'absolute lonely shit'. And in those moments, she calls Adamska to hang out, or to talk. I'm trying to get her to rely on me, but so far, it's not going great. I think I'm going to call her tomorrow after school to talk, just to establish that I'm a viable option for a calling companion. But I really need a drastic push in my direction.

And it's not that she doesn't see me as a potential sexual partner -- hell, her friends have been telling her to "go after me" or whatever. It's that she's doing her very best to not fall back into love with Adamska, while juggling her school work and home life.

It's such a fucked up situation, man. How do I replace Adamska without making it seem like I'm trying to do that?


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Jacob Potila was actually a Jacob Flotilla of lies.- WarTurkey
I just asked my girlfriend about this and she says it's not a wise decision for her to start pursuing a relationship with you if she's still not fully over your friend.


 
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Yeah, I know. I wouldn't want her to. But I want to know how I can sort of... expedite the process. Having someone who is essentially a better fit for you would incentivise you subconsciously to loosen your ties to Adamska, I think.

And I'm also really impatient.



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Jacob Potila was actually a Jacob Flotilla of lies.- WarTurkey
Yeah if she's still in love with him you defintely shouldn't try and squeeze in. Love is powerful shit man, can mess you up.


 
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You're doing good son, and you're only 17. Had my first date when I was 20. Now be charming, like Sterling Archer, James Bond, or Don Draper, and you could end up in bed with her. Happened to me three times on first dates.


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You're doing good son, and you're only 17. Had my first date when I was 20. Now be charming, like Sterling Archer, James Bond, or Don Draper, and you could end up in bed with her. Happened to me three times on first dates.

you must be quite the pimp


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You're doing good son, and you're only 17. Had my first date when I was 20. Now be charming, like Sterling Archer, James Bond, or Don Draper, and you could end up in bed with her. Happened to me three times on first dates.

you must be quite the pimp
I have been for three months, I'm looking for Ms. December. Preferably a blonde.


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You're doing good son, and you're only 17. Had my first date when I was 20. Now be charming, like Sterling Archer, James Bond, or Don Draper, and you could end up in bed with her. Happened to me three times on first dates.

you must be quite the pimp
I have been for three months, I'm looking for Ms. December. Preferably a blonde.

why do you like fat chicks?



 
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You're doing good son, and you're only 17. Had my first date when I was 20. Now be charming, like Sterling Archer, James Bond, or Don Draper, and you could end up in bed with her. Happened to me three times on first dates.

I have no interest in being anyone other than myself.


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You're doing good son, and you're only 17. Had my first date when I was 20. Now be charming, like Sterling Archer, James Bond, or Don Draper, and you could end up in bed with her. Happened to me three times on first dates.

you must be quite the pimp
I have been for three months, I'm looking for Ms. December. Preferably a blonde.

why do you like fat chicks?
It's about having more to play with. Just what I'm attracted to. Why does everyone on here think it's so strange? I just like a woman with a fuller figure.