Quote from: LemOh-n on November 19, 2015, 10:09:18 PMHey, at least she isn't your manager's daughter.I don't get it.
Hey, at least she isn't your manager's daughter.
Quote from: LemOh-n on November 19, 2015, 10:11:18 PMYouTubebrad pitt was so good in that movieso ridiculousugh i love it
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Quote from: The Hån on November 19, 2015, 10:10:34 PMpremise of my last relationship was very similar. Just dont let things get awkward, don't be boring, and try not to worry a bout messing things up a lot and you should be good.I'm actually a great boyfriend, if I do say so myself. The problem is, I'm never in a relationship. So if I get to that point, I don't think it'll be too much of an issue.She wants to backpack through Europe next year, which is sort of what I wanted to do (I wanted to live in France, but that was to meet women -- something I wouldn't have to do with her.)
premise of my last relationship was very similar. Just dont let things get awkward, don't be boring, and try not to worry a bout messing things up a lot and you should be good.
That's what I meant by my situation.Rather potentially lose a friend if you make a move than potentially lose a job.
I watched it the other night after not seeing it for years. I appreciated it much more this time.
I kinda want to watch it again. Right now.
Quote from: Big Boss on November 19, 2015, 10:05:40 PMI know he's your friend but you need to know that you both have your own feelings and you can't just ignore them just for the sake of making them not feel bad. I would expect my friends to be happy for me, failing that just accepting the way I feel.Of course. Like I said, if it was the other way around, I'd want my friends to be happy over me being happy. I'd still feel like shit, but I'd do it.Not everyone is like that though. Unfortunately.
I know he's your friend but you need to know that you both have your own feelings and you can't just ignore them just for the sake of making them not feel bad. I would expect my friends to be happy for me, failing that just accepting the way I feel.
do you ever eye gaze with her?
Quote from: Big Boss on November 19, 2015, 10:08:38 PMI just hope that he doesn't deliberately attempt to sabotage things between you and the girl out of sheer bitterness.Now THAT would be a dick move.Honestly, if it ever got to them point where she and I liked each other, I don't think he could do anything.But yeah, if he finds out now while I'm still trying to get her to "fall in love with the legend", he could seriously fuck it up. That's what he's been doing with this other girl he thinks I like.
I just hope that he doesn't deliberately attempt to sabotage things between you and the girl out of sheer bitterness.Now THAT would be a dick move.
Gotta say it's been interesting to watch the situation develop.The thing that makes me give the green light is how different the two of them are. Like you two are so alike that it'd be a shame to see it be for not y'know?
Quote from: Big Boss on November 19, 2015, 10:19:07 PMThat being said, I've come to the conclusion that if things to progress with her, it's going to happen -- regardless of what he feels. I'll be graceful about it, though.
But it's not like that with her. I can't explain it. I can just... walk up to her, and converse for an hour.
So it's got less to do with "be a man"
and more to do with "be graceful and conscientious about people's emotions".
The Hateful Eight is coming out in America on the 8th of January, if you haven't asked her out by then, here's your opportunity if you can't think of anything more original than dinner, a movie and a walk through the park/beach.
Yeah, fuck everything else. If I can be in love, I'm going to be. I'm going to handle it as gracefully as possible, but if she's down, there's nothing he can do about it.
It's Tarantino's best, tbh. Reservoir Dogs and Jackie Brown are close seconds, though. That opening scene is perfection.
Also if you're going to Europe then visit Wales. It's well cool.
Quote from: TBlocks on November 19, 2015, 09:48:28 PMGotta say it's been interesting to watch the situation develop.The thing that makes me give the green light is how different the two of them are. Like you two are so alike that it'd be a shame to see it be for not y'know?Wait, so are they similar or different? You said both in this post....
the one true God is Doctor Doom and we should all be worshiping him.
Ask his permission at the very least.
do you and Tblocks know each other irl?am I missing something?
Oh shit I didn't know that...Kierra?
Quote from: Big Boss on November 19, 2015, 10:24:38 PMAlso if you're going to Europe then visit Wales. It's well cool.sheep fondler pls gowales isn't a real country
Quote from: TBlocks on November 19, 2015, 10:23:48 PMOh shit I didn't know that...Kierra?Nah, man. The Kierra ship has sailed. More than that, actually. It crashed somewhere in the south Atlantic trying to bring goods back from the new world to Great Germania.He keeps trying to sick Anna's sister on me... which is fine, because she's great to look at. But I'd rather not agitate that situation, considering her relationship and the fact that she has a boyfriend.
but seriously fuck women fuck feelingsfuck lifejust make everything complicated
Quote from: LemOh-n on November 19, 2015, 10:28:11 PMQuote from: Big Boss on November 19, 2015, 10:24:38 PMAlso if you're going to Europe then visit Wales. It's well cool.sheep fondler pls gowales isn't a real countryJog on you twat we've got fucking castles everywhere. Wales is well good mun.SpoilerWhy do Americans pronounce twat so weirdly? It's T W A T, it's not even that hard to say.
Well, that's great, just tell her how you feel, something along the lines of "I like you, I find it easy to be myself with you, would you want to go on a date with me?"
She's your friend and should be among the first on the list of people that you can be completely transparent with.
Watch Django with her before you see it to get her into that western feel.
Quote from: Ushan on November 19, 2015, 10:02:23 PMNo it isn't.Well I mean, it is kind of my fault. Regardless of whether or not he's justified to feel that way, I'm the one who caused him to feel that way.
No it isn't.
QuoteYou have no more control of your own feelings than he has his, and you'd be a fool to put your own happiness behind his because of how he feels. If he can't be a mature adult about this then he's not someone you want as a friend.I just really care about my friends, man. Especially when it comes to romance, because I get it better than most.
You have no more control of your own feelings than he has his, and you'd be a fool to put your own happiness behind his because of how he feels. If he can't be a mature adult about this then he's not someone you want as a friend.
QuoteAt the very most, tell him that you have feelings for the girl and that you're going to go out with her as a courtesy to him. Though, if you reckon he my react belligerently, I'd advise against it in the event he tries to slash your chances with your fancy.That's what I see happening. Make him the asshole by approaching him and saying no. I get it. Preemptive strike, essentially.
At the very most, tell him that you have feelings for the girl and that you're going to go out with her as a courtesy to him. Though, if you reckon he my react belligerently, I'd advise against it in the event he tries to slash your chances with your fancy.
Quote from: Big Boss on November 19, 2015, 10:30:24 PMQuote from: LemOh-n on November 19, 2015, 10:28:11 PMQuote from: Big Boss on November 19, 2015, 10:24:38 PMAlso if you're going to Europe then visit Wales. It's well cool.sheep fondler pls gowales isn't a real countryJog on you twat we've got fucking castles everywhere. Wales is well good mun.SpoilerWhy do Americans pronounce twat so weirdly? It's T W A T, it's not even that hard to say. i'm not american
I think I had my first "date" with a girl today... (semi-blog post)
