You can do it Snake.

It just goes to show you, that at any time, any place... people can fall in love with each other.

Oh really...
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Well, she's more 80s than I am. She likes some older older stuff like I do, too, though.

And fuck, I'm going to make her like Nine Inch Nails. Whether she wants to or not, lol.

Too bad she thinks I hate Jewish people.

No, I clarified that with her LOL. Hahahaha.

Quote from: Big Boss on November 19, 2015, 09:41:19 PM

First off, the bros before hoes thing is dumb as fuck. If you find a girl you're really happy and want to spend time with, great. If your other friends can't accept that and get jealous, then fuck them for being immature about it. Not saying that's what's happening with you but still.

I want to agree with you, but try to put yourself in his shoes... I know what it's like to be stabbed in the back by your brother. My first love cheated on me with my best friend. It SUCKS. If I was in his position, and he asked me... I'd probably allow him to, but... I'd feel lousy about it and probably couldn't be around them.

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If she's still not over him though, don't make your feelings too obvious yet until they start showing signs. That's what happened with me and my girlfriend, I just made sure that I was there for here and eventually she admitted her feelings, and I did too.

Yeah, that's what I'll be doing. You can ask TBlocks (he's sort of been my confidante the last couple of weeks), I feel weirdly okay with just being her friend until she's over him.

Well they broke up. It's not your fault. As long as you're not doing it for malicious reasons or to spite him, then the way I see it is it's fair game. As long as you straighten it out between you two. Of course it's not going to be easy but that's what it's like. Maybe talk it over with your friend but don't go into too much detail. Let them know that you maybe might feel something, and if they can't deal with it then at least you know that you should back off a little.

Really, if they start taking it personally even after you've explained then that's quite immature. It's not backstabbing if it's not premeditated and the feeling is mutual.

Quote from: TBlocks on November 19, 2015, 09:44:50 PM

Oh really...
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Well, she's more 80s than I am. She likes some older older stuff like I do, too.

And fuck, I'm going to make her like Nine Inch Nails whether she wants to or not, lol.

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Too bad she thinks I hate Jewish people.

No, I clarified that with her LOL dw hahaha

Crafty bastard... I don't doubt your abilities. She'll be rockin' out to Nine Inch Nails in no time. lol

Oh good! That's uh... a good thing to clarify I think.

Quote from: TBlocks on November 19, 2015, 09:48:28 PM

Like you two are so alike that it'd be a shame to see it be for not y'know?

Yeah... unfortunately, this whole thing being "for not" would be in-line with my entire life up until this point, ha.

I'm cautiously optimistic about it, though. Which is rare enough for me.

Unfortunately. Never4get.
But I honestly see it working out in the end.

Maybe talk it over with your friend but don't go into too much detail. Let them know that you maybe might feel something, and if they can't deal with it then at least you know that you should back off a little.

He already suspects I have feelings for her. Luckily, I'm quite the ruseman IRL, so he's off the scent for now. Though once I start hanging out with her more frequently, I reckon he'll be right back on the horse in that regard.

Really, if they start taking it personally even after you've explained then that's quite immature. It's not backstabbing if it's not premeditated and the feeling is mutual.

Well, yeah, it's immature. But he's no paragon of virtue -- he's going to feel the way he feels whether he wants to or not, and that'll be my fault regardless of how this shinding goes down.

The way I see things, regret stops being regret when you accept it.

Unfortunately, "accepting" things is really hard for me to do.

Nigga, honesty is the most important aspect of a healthy relationship right after mutual attraction, and you're not going to get into one by pussyfooting around it.

Any other time, you'd be right. I'm a total pussy when it comes to talking to girls. But it's not like that with her. I can't explain it. I can just... walk up to her, and converse for an hour.

So it's got less to do with "be a man" and more to do with "be graceful and conscientious about people's emotions".

The Hateful Eight is coming out in America on the 8th of January, if you haven't asked her out by then, here's your opportunity if you can't think of anything more original than dinner, a movie and a walk through the park/beach.

Yeah, you read my mind. I hope to have watched at least Reservoir Dogs/Inglorious with her by that point, so she kind of gets what Tarantino is all about. I'm counting down the days to that movie, so yeah, I'm definitely going to ask her to see it.

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Really, if they start taking it personally even after you've explained then that's quite immature. It's not backstabbing if it's not premeditated and the feeling is mutual.

Well, yeah, it's immature. But he's no paragon of virtue -- he's going to feel the way he feels whether he wants to or not, and that'll be my fault regardless of how this shinding goes down.

No it isn't. You have no more control of your own feelings than he has his, and you'd be a fool to put your own happiness behind his because of how he feels. If he can't be a mature adult about this then he's not someone you want as a friend.

At the very most, tell him that you have feelings for the girl and that you're going to go out with her as a courtesy to him. Though, if you reckon he my react belligerently, I'd advise against it in the event he tries to slash your chances with your fancy.

Quote from: Big Boss on November 19, 2015, 09:56:44 PM

If he takes it the wrong way then that's his problem. You shouldn't cut yourself short just to please others.

But m8, he's my friend. I don't want him to stub his toe, let alone stop being my friend.

I know he's your friend but you need to know that you both have your own feelings and you can't just ignore them just for the sake of making them not feel bad. I would expect my friends to be happy for me, failing that just accepting the way I feel.

I know he's your friend but you need to know that you both have your own feelings and you can't just ignore them just for the sake of making them not feel bad. I would expect my friends to be happy for me, failing that just accepting the way I feel.

Of course. Like I said, if it was the other way around, I'd want my friends to be happy over me being happy. I'd still feel like shit, but I'd do it.

Not everyone is like that though. Unfortunately.

Hey, at least she isn't your manager's daughter.

premise of my last relationship was very similar. Just dont let things get awkward, don't be boring, and try not to worry a bout messing things up a lot and you should be good.

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