You're only adding to all the drama with this thread. You're an attention whore. You have to make your opinion known. You have to make your own thread. You want people to know that this is your take on it, and that you are important enough that people should care. The sad truth is no one should care. The only way to stop something to make it irrelevant, and this is the opposite of that. GG on you're thread though. You sure are making the problem stop.
Quote from: Nexus on October 14, 2014, 03:54:03 PMYou're only adding to all the drama with this thread. You're an attention whore. You have to make your opinion known. You have to make your own thread. You want people to know that this is your take on it, and that you are important enough that people should care. The sad truth is no one should care. The only way to stop something to make it irrelevant, and this is the opposite of that. GG on you're thread though. You sure are making the problem stop.Ignoring a problem, does not always solve the problem.
Quote from: Yutaka on October 14, 2014, 03:58:21 PMQuote from: Nexus on October 14, 2014, 03:54:03 PMYou're only adding to all the drama with this thread. You're an attention whore. You have to make your opinion known. You have to make your own thread. You want people to know that this is your take on it, and that you are important enough that people should care. The sad truth is no one should care. The only way to stop something to make it irrelevant, and this is the opposite of that. GG on you're thread though. You sure are making the problem stop.Ignoring a problem, does not always solve the problem.On the internet it mostly does. Especially forum drama. And that is all it is, senseless forum drama. Not even harassment.
Quote from: Nexus on October 14, 2014, 03:54:03 PMYou're only adding to all the drama with this thread. You're an attention whore. You have to make your opinion known. You have to make your own thread. You want people to know that this is your take on it, and that you are important enough that people should care. The sad truth is no one should care. The only way to stop something to make it irrelevant, and this is the opposite of that. GG on you're thread though. You sure are making the problem stop.i lol'd
Quote from: Yutaka on October 14, 2014, 04:02:13 PMQuote from: Nexus on October 14, 2014, 04:00:53 PMQuote from: Yutaka on October 14, 2014, 03:58:21 PMQuote from: Nexus on October 14, 2014, 03:54:03 PMYou're only adding to all the drama with this thread. You're an attention whore. You have to make your opinion known. You have to make your own thread. You want people to know that this is your take on it, and that you are important enough that people should care. The sad truth is no one should care. The only way to stop something to make it irrelevant, and this is the opposite of that. GG on you're thread though. You sure are making the problem stop.Ignoring a problem, does not always solve the problem.On the internet it mostly does. Especially forum drama. And that is all it is, senseless forum drama. Not even harassment.It would work, but only if everyone is willing to let it go. Although, certain users can't, that is why ignoring the problem wouldn't work here.Quotelet it go.If I may make a suggestion, I say we all break down in song.
Quote from: Nexus on October 14, 2014, 04:00:53 PMQuote from: Yutaka on October 14, 2014, 03:58:21 PMQuote from: Nexus on October 14, 2014, 03:54:03 PMYou're only adding to all the drama with this thread. You're an attention whore. You have to make your opinion known. You have to make your own thread. You want people to know that this is your take on it, and that you are important enough that people should care. The sad truth is no one should care. The only way to stop something to make it irrelevant, and this is the opposite of that. GG on you're thread though. You sure are making the problem stop.Ignoring a problem, does not always solve the problem.On the internet it mostly does. Especially forum drama. And that is all it is, senseless forum drama. Not even harassment.It would work, but only if everyone is willing to let it go. Although, certain users can't, that is why ignoring the problem wouldn't work here.
let it go.
I made this thread because I'm never actually here for any of the shit that happens since I'm busy during the day.
Just because you claim I'm trying to whore for attention doesn't redact the point that I made in the OP. My popularity or reputation here is irrelevant to my basis of making the thread,
because I would've done the same fracking thing if I just joined the site today.
You act like you know everything about me, so please, continue to make baseless assumptions
Okay, let's do this.Quote from: Officer Nasty on October 14, 2014, 04:02:26 PMI made this thread because I'm never actually here for any of the shit that happens since I'm busy during the day. So what does it really have to do with you then? You're not involved in it, you weren't there for it. How can you really talk about it then?Quote from: Officer Nasty on October 14, 2014, 04:02:26 PMJust because you claim I'm trying to whore for attention doesn't redact the point that I made in the OP. My popularity or reputation here is irrelevant to my basis of making the thread, It has nothing to do with trying to redact anything you said in the OP, but more of why you said it. You're motivation behind the stuff you say matters too. Your OP made be valid but it does not stop anything. Hence your motivation behind why you made is for selfish reasons along with your thread being pointless. Even if you aren't full of yourself on an internet forum. You made the thread because you thought what you said mattered enough. It doesn't.Quote from: Officer Nasty on October 14, 2014, 04:02:26 PMbecause I would've done the same fracking thing if I just joined the site today. Really? "I guess the "confession" I'm trying to make is that I miss the beginning stages of this site," This sounds like something from a user who joined yesterday, clearly.Quote from: Officer Nasty on October 14, 2014, 04:02:26 PM You act like you know everything about me, so please, continue to make baseless assumptions Can do.
As much as you'd like to think that simply not talking about the issue would fix it, that's not the case. You haven't been here long enough to realize that this has been a reoccurring theme for a while now. Considering the fact that this is an open forum, everyone has the ability to speak their mind on anything they'd like. This was on my mind and I thought I'd share it, unless my idea on this whole forum thing is completely off. Usually the way problems are solved is through a combined effort of discussion and compromise with the parties involved. I'm only encouraging those things, so if that's your idea of someone being "full of themselves" then you need to have a reality check.
Quote from: Officer Nasty on October 14, 2014, 04:20:36 PMAs much as you'd like to think that simply not talking about the issue would fix it, that's not the case. You haven't been here long enough to realize that this has been a reoccurring theme for a while now. Considering the fact that this is an open forum, everyone has the ability to speak their mind on anything they'd like. This was on my mind and I thought I'd share it, unless my idea on this whole forum thing is completely off. Usually the way problems are solved is through a combined effort of discussion and compromise with the parties involved. I'm only encouraging those things, so if that's your idea of someone being "full of themselves" then you need to have a reality check.No, actually the only way for this problem to be solved is for people to get overtly offended by people who don't matter, and for other people to stop being cocks with the intention to cocks for no reason. Nothing is solved by making a thread, unless you were an admin addressing the issue and handing out punishments, but you're not. And yeah usually they are solved by that, in the real world, but maybe you need a reality check if you would think it'd work here. And you might not be full of yourself, but these kinds of threads sure do not contribute to the contrary.
Hey Nexus, just because someone makes a thread telling people to grow up and stop fighting and gets a lot likes as a result of it doesn't mean he's fishing for likes or being an attention whore. I don't know who you were on b.net or if you're even from there, but Nasty is the farthest thing from an attention whore. He just cares about the community and doesn't want to see it go down due to people being childish. It's funny you say he's unimportant and his post does nothing but contribute to the drama, while at the same asking us to listen to you instead while trying to engage OP in an argument. I tip my hat to you sir. Ignoring this won't make it go away. There are a select few people who take things way too seriously and personally, and there is another group which believes free speech means you can say what you like without backlash. These people keep bumping heads and ignoring them or laughing at them doesn't solve anything. If anything, we need to engage them in discussion and try to get these people to get along.
Quote from: Nexus on October 14, 2014, 04:29:32 PMQuote from: Officer Nasty on October 14, 2014, 04:20:36 PMAs much as you'd like to think that simply not talking about the issue would fix it, that's not the case. You haven't been here long enough to realize that this has been a reoccurring theme for a while now. Considering the fact that this is an open forum, everyone has the ability to speak their mind on anything they'd like. This was on my mind and I thought I'd share it, unless my idea on this whole forum thing is completely off. Usually the way problems are solved is through a combined effort of discussion and compromise with the parties involved. I'm only encouraging those things, so if that's your idea of someone being "full of themselves" then you need to have a reality check.No, actually the only way for this problem to be solved is for people to get overtly offended by people who don't matter, and for other people to stop being cocks with the intention to cocks for no reason. Nothing is solved by making a thread, unless you were an admin addressing the issue and handing out punishments, but you're not. And yeah usually they are solved by that, in the real world, but maybe you need a reality check if you would think it'd work here. And you might not be full of yourself, but these kinds of threads sure do not contribute to the contrary.Whine more about shit that doesn't matter why don't you?
But the rules need to be very clearly defined, and very clearly enforced if a system like this went up. Because it's unforgiving.
Quote from: The Hån on October 14, 2014, 04:34:58 PMso many pussies here. Some people here just need to grow dong and grow a backbone. if you get offended by trolls, then they've succeeded in their goal. I also find it funny when all the butthurts here claim to never be butthurt.We need more carefree and chilled attitudes here.To draw inspiration for the booty love Cam, people here need to toke up more often.
so many pussies here. Some people here just need to grow dong and grow a backbone. if you get offended by trolls, then they've succeeded in their goal. I also find it funny when all the butthurts here claim to never be butthurt.We need more carefree and chilled attitudes here.
the only way for this problem to be solved is for people to get overtly offended by people who don't matter, and for other people to stop being cocks with the intention to cocks for no reason
Quote from: Sandtrap on October 14, 2014, 04:29:05 PMBut the rules need to be very clearly defined, and very clearly enforced if a system like this went up. Because it's unforgiving.This is what I'm saying though, the rules shouldn't have to be that clearly defined if we're such a close community. People shouldn't be veering so close so that they have to have it spelled out for them when they cross the line.
Quote the only way for this problem to be solved is for people to get overtly offended by people who don't matter, and for other people to stop being cocks with the intention to cocks for no reasonExcept this right here is exactly what the problem is.Wait, so you're saying that the only people who should be allowed to talk about an issue that directly affects everyone in this community, especially if it comes to this place getting shut down, are staff members? That logic is asinine at best.
Of course I don't believe it. That's why I wrote "these people believe free speech means they can say what they like without backlash" as if it were some sort of diplomatic immunity. I understand what you're trying to say, but these people will only evaluate things even further if we ignore them. Because it's not like they do it for us, they do the same shit every thread themselves. Either punishments get harsher because of a few people, or we try to talk some sense into them.
Quote from: Zizzy on October 14, 2014, 04:34:41 PMQuote from: Sandtrap on October 14, 2014, 04:29:05 PMBut the rules need to be very clearly defined, and very clearly enforced if a system like this went up. Because it's unforgiving.This is what I'm saying though, the rules shouldn't have to be that clearly defined if we're such a close community. People shouldn't be veering so close so that they have to have it spelled out for them when they cross the line. I mean jesus frack, I know it's the internet, but grow the frack up and just be nice. No, you don't even have to be nice. Just be considerate and don't fling shit.
Quote from: challengerX on October 14, 2014, 04:41:50 PMOf course I don't believe it. That's why I wrote "these people believe free speech means they can say what they like without backlash" as if it were some sort of diplomatic immunity. I understand what you're trying to say, but these people will only evaluate things even further if we ignore them. Because it's not like they do it for us, they do the same shit every thread themselves. Either punishments get harsher because of a few people, or we try to talk some sense into them.But they aren't going to listen to sense. They have no reason to. Nothing can be done to them unless a mod does something, and then that is when punishments are harsher. People get mad and leave, "Hur dur the site is not what is used to be," and shit like that.
I have a confession to make
