Do you think they might perceive you as needy and desire space?
They could just say that to me and I would be perfectly okay with that. And is why I had been hold myself back from trying to bug them everyday. Quote from: Epsira on March 08, 2016, 11:45:47 PMDo you think they might perceive you as needy and desire space?
True...If they won't respond to you directly, find someone who could act as a medium for transferring messages?
Don't know if it's true or not, but I skimmed and saw someone say it's Noel. So Noel kind of went off the deep end and doesn't post here anymore.
I wouldn't mind doing that, but I feel they lurk enough that so long as this thread stays relevant they would eventually see it. If nothing good comes out of this thread I might try that, but it would have to be with someone I more than just half trust on here. In the mean time, I have to go to bed and get ready for work, I would like to try and keep this thread up and noticeable for as long as possible. Quote from: Epsira on March 08, 2016, 11:51:36 PMTrue...If they won't respond to you directly, find someone who could act as a medium for transferring messages?
I still talk with Noel, but Noel isn't who I'm struggling with. Quote from: LC on March 08, 2016, 11:52:59 PMDon't know if it's true or not, but I skimmed and saw someone say it's Noel. So Noel kind of went off the deep end and doesn't post here anymore.
Can you repeat that again? I wasn't reading.
I do have to say if they're purposefully avoiding you online they probably have their own insecurities they're struggling with.While waiting for them to respond I'd start evaluating candidates who might help a backup message transfer plan.
Alright.I know that feel tho. Sometimes the person has just moved on from you and they're just avoiding you so they don't have to have that conversation. It sucks, but you kind of have to accept that they don't really want to hang out with or talk to you anymore and if they do it's because you're friends with someone else.I kind of get the feeling that I'm having a situation like that happening with me right now as well too.
As for your pal. Give it some time. Don't press him too much. Just wait and see.
If by compulsive you mean they post like say Verbatim or Jester? No, but they certainly do post with genuine interest to the community. Quote from: Epsira on March 08, 2016, 11:22:13 PMWhen they use the site, do they do so compulsively?
When they use the site, do they do so compulsively?
I don't replace friends like defective hardware. What good is a new friendship if I can't save an old one? Quote from: Jive Turkey on March 08, 2016, 10:52:54 PMMake new friends
Make new friends
I think I'm the friend that's ignoring Gaara444
Quote from: Gaara444 on March 08, 2016, 11:24:24 PMIf by compulsive you mean they post like say Verbatim or Jester? No, but they certainly do post with genuine interest to the community. Quote from: Epsira on March 08, 2016, 11:22:13 PMWhen they use the site, do they do so compulsively?Wait what is that supposed to mean
Wait what is that supposed to mean
Quote from: Gaara444 on March 08, 2016, 10:54:04 PMI don't replace friends like defective hardware. What good is a new friendship if I can't save an old one? Quote from: Jive Turkey on March 08, 2016, 10:52:54 PMMake new friendsNew friendships aren't inherently bad simply because you can't repair old ones. If you look at it logically, your experience is more so the result of certain types of character, rather than the mechanics of the nature of friendships which is a much more static system subject to much less change. If you input different variables into that system (IE: different people with different personalities) then the system will produce different results, however the nature of the system is still the same throughout this process.Obviously no two people are exactly alike, ergo you can never objectively expect the same thing to happen over again if you try to make friends. Regardless if it's already happened five, ten, or a thousand times before.
Quote from: Gaara444 on March 09, 2016, 11:00:18 AMAs much as I'd like to joke with you, I'm too down for it. Quote from: challengerX on March 09, 2016, 07:26:55 AMI think I'm the friend that's ignoring Gaara444I went through the same thing, but the way I see it is people move on and friendships end. Unfortunately that's just how things are. It's rough, but being sad doesn't help with anything.
As much as I'd like to joke with you, I'm too down for it. Quote from: challengerX on March 09, 2016, 07:26:55 AMI think I'm the friend that's ignoring Gaara444
Is it slash? Cuz he's a FAGGET and won't answer my messages
Tru ignores me too.
Wop who is deluded into believing he's white despite being Mediterranean.
I don't think I know who that is. Quote from: aSMARTfeminist on March 09, 2016, 03:45:16 PMIs it slash? Cuz he's a FAGGET and won't answer my messages
I feel my friend is ignoring me
