I cant have children...

AngryBrute · March 09, 2015, 08:46:05 AM

I dont even know what to say anymore! All this time my Wife and I have been trying so sooo very hard for a baby. I want to be a father! I really wanted to be one! But it just wouldn't happen. So, we went to a Doctor and he did his tests thing. Well...

I AM PISSED!!!!!!! I CANT HAVE A BABY!

WHY?! WHY ME!?!?!?!

(needed to vent)

Verbatim · March 09, 2015, 08:51:55 AM

It's not so bad.

You could adopt.

gats · March 09, 2015, 08:53:17 AM

Quote from: Verbatim on March 09, 2015, 08:51:55 AM

It's not so bad.

You could adopt.

Release · March 09, 2015, 08:54:01 AM

adopt me.

Release · March 09, 2015, 08:54:46 AM

no but really I'm sorry to hear that.

Sylvie · March 09, 2015, 08:54:47 AM

Quote from: AngryBrute on March 09, 2015, 08:46:05 AM

I dont even know what to say anymore! All this time my Wife and I have been trying so sooo very hard for a baby. I want to be a father! I really wanted to be one! But it just wouldn't happen. So, we went to a Doctor and he did his tests thing. Well...

I AM PISSED!!!!!!! I CANT HAVE A BABY!

WHY?! WHY ME!?!?!?!

(needed to vent)

I'll never be able to either.
Really not bothered.

CK97 · March 09, 2015, 09:32:27 AM

I didn't even know that you were married.

Anyways, like Verb said, you can adopt.

Elegiac · March 09, 2015, 09:34:38 AM

Bummer.

Doctor Doom · March 09, 2015, 09:35:45 AM

I nominate Goji as your surrogate son.

Elegiac · March 09, 2015, 09:36:36 AM

I nominate Chakas.

Girl of Mystery · March 09, 2015, 09:39:08 AM

Adoption is always an option.

Comet · March 09, 2015, 09:51:55 AM

wow that was pretty fast. didnt you get married last year?

Mr. Psychologist · March 09, 2015, 09:53:12 AM

Isn't IVF a thing? <.<

Rinev · March 09, 2015, 09:57:16 AM

That really sucks. Like others have said, you can always adopt. I understand the frustration though. Adopting isn't the same as having a child that came from your genes and all that.

Girl of Mystery · March 09, 2015, 09:59:16 AM

There's also assisted pregnancy/IVF.

It's not cheap and isn't a 100% guaranteed success, but it's there if you're fully determined to have a biological child.

Rinev · March 09, 2015, 10:00:58 AM

Quote from: Mr Psychologist on March 09, 2015, 09:53:12 AM

Isn't IVF a thing? <.<

If it's a "problem" with him I wouldn't think that would work, although I don't know much about it. Also I thought that was a really expensive thing to do.

Mr. Psychologist · March 09, 2015, 10:07:23 AM

Quote from: Rinev Jeqkogo on March 09, 2015, 10:00:58 AM

Quote from: Mr Psychologist on March 09, 2015, 09:53:12 AM
Isn't IVF a thing? <.<
If it's a "problem" with him I wouldn't think that would work, although I don't know much about it. Also I thought that was a really expensive thing to do.

Hmm, yeah. I'm sure there is a way though.
It probably is, NHS covers most of it in the UK though (I think/for a certain number of attempts)

Casper · March 09, 2015, 10:12:34 AM

Ummm.. could you try.. what's it called..
Oh! Insemination? Or something like that?

Verbatim · March 09, 2015, 10:23:52 AM

Quote from: Casper on March 09, 2015, 10:12:34 AM

Ummm.. could you try.. what's it called..
Oh! Insemination? Or something like that?

It sounds as though he's already tried that, many times.
You mean artificial insemination.

Onion · March 09, 2015, 10:28:12 AM

Damn. I really want to have kids of my own someday, so I'd be distraught if I heard that news.

Mega Sceptile · March 09, 2015, 10:31:57 AM

That's a shitty buzz. sorry dude, but hey, you could always adopt like my cousin did, just do the kid a favour and be straight up with him about adoption and let him meet his parents.

TopWargamer · March 09, 2015, 10:34:26 AM

I'm sorry to hear that. That really sucks man.
:c

There is always that surrogate thing, or you could adopt at an early age...

RomanGladiator · March 09, 2015, 10:55:28 AM

I'm sorry to hear that Brute. I would say just keep on trying anyways. Like Ian Malcolm said in Jurassic Park, "Life will find a way..."

Sylvie · March 09, 2015, 10:57:18 AM

Quote from: RomanGladiator on March 09, 2015, 10:55:28 AM

I'm sorry to hear that Brute. I would say just keep on trying anyways. Like Ian Malcolm said in Jurassic Park, "Life will find a way..."

>keep on trying
kek

RomanGladiator · March 09, 2015, 10:58:07 AM

Quote from: Sylvie on March 09, 2015, 10:57:18 AM

Quote from: RomanGladiator on March 09, 2015, 10:55:28 AM
I'm sorry to hear that Brute. I would say just keep on trying anyways. Like Ian Malcolm said in Jurassic Park, "Life will find a way..."
>keep on trying
kek

Stranger things have probably happened...

Mad Max · March 09, 2015, 10:59:51 AM

Quote from: TopWargamer on March 09, 2015, 10:34:26 AM

There is always that syndicate thing

Surrogate?

Sylvie · March 09, 2015, 11:01:08 AM

Quote from: RomanGladiator on March 09, 2015, 10:58:07 AM

Quote from: Sylvie on March 09, 2015, 10:57:18 AM
Quote from: RomanGladiator on March 09, 2015, 10:55:28 AM
I'm sorry to hear that Brute. I would say just keep on trying anyways. Like Ian Malcolm said in Jurassic Park, "Life will find a way..."
>keep on trying
kek
Stranger things have probably happened...

Well I don't think sex is strange, but trying for a baby you're incapable of having is pretty silly.

o______________o · March 09, 2015, 11:03:16 AM

I'm sorry to hear that man.

Girl of Mystery · March 09, 2015, 11:03:36 AM

Quote from: RomanGladiator on March 09, 2015, 10:58:07 AM

Quote from: Sylvie on March 09, 2015, 10:57:18 AM
Quote from: RomanGladiator on March 09, 2015, 10:55:28 AM
I'm sorry to hear that Brute. I would say just keep on trying anyways. Like Ian Malcolm said in Jurassic Park, "Life will find a way..."
>keep on trying
kek
Stranger things have probably happened...

If you're unable to have kids, no amount of sex will change that.

Jester · March 09, 2015, 11:05:29 AM

Quote from: Verbatim on March 09, 2015, 08:51:55 AM

It's not so bad.

You could adopt.