I'm beginning to think I might have a depression

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I feel empty often, and find it hard to get excited for things. I do feel better when I distract myself with video games or netflix, but it stops shortly after. I find it hard to study and do housework like cooking and cleaning.

I've began to seriously consider seeking help as this is really starting to hurt my studies and frankly feels like shit. Should I go to the local psychiatric clinic?


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Forget the psychiatrist. See a psychologist instead.

Also, welcome to the club. I've been a member of depression here since the very beginning.


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Forget the psychiatrist. See a psychologist instead.

Also, welcome to the club. I've been a member of depression here since the very beginning.
It's called the adult psychiatric outpatient clinic (translation) but there's psychologists there as well apparently.


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I would recommend doing it since you have access.
I guess I will. But there's this stigma, you know? I know I wouldn't be judged for it, but I still feel like it would be something shameful about it.

I have just recently accepted the truth that I have problems, so I guess it'll take a little while until I'm ready for this.


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Forget the psychiatrist. See a psychologist instead.

Also, welcome to the club. I've been a member of depression here since the very beginning.
It's called the adult psychiatric outpatient clinic (translation) but there's psychologists there as well apparently.

Okay, good. See if you can make an appointment with a psychologist. I'm seeing one myself.


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Considered picking up new hobbies and stuff?


Also, it never hurts to go ask professionals, do it. 


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I feel like that often. Hm.
I'm too scared to go in and get diagnosed. So I'm just going to keep living in denial.
I'm a regular happy human. :)


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Thanks for the support guys, I think I'm going to seek professional help with this, and soon.


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Thanks for the support guys, I think I'm going to seek professional help with this, and soon.

You're welcome man. PM me anytime. My inbox is open. Even when I leave for a few days, I get an email when I got PMs so I'll know.


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Long live NoNolesNeckin.

Ya fuckin' ganderneck.
Mind and body are connected interdependently. When one is out of whack, so is the other, in some or even many forms.

Are you healthy physically? I mean REALLY.  . are you? Is your lifestyle healthy? Get to the bottom of it. No one, not even a psychiatrist/psychologist can analyze your life as well as you can.

Start paying better attention to what you're doing, how you're living, and even what you're putting into your body (both food and medicine) and be mindful of the consequences. Pay attention to the mechanics of your every day life.

I'm not saying that you shouldn't try to seek help from a professional, there's nothing wrong with giving it a shot. Just realize that you can't change unless you yourself are truly aware of what is happening to you, not someone else, even if they have a degree.

And ffs DON'T give in to the thought,"I am just broken, or I am just not right. I just have this condition so I will always be this way" That shit is a trap. It will take hold of you and then you will never escape the metaphorical pit you're digging yourself into.

You need to abide by the thought, "this rut is impermanent, I WILL overcome this. I AM overcoming this." And don't ever stop abiding by it.

No one ever attains a new mindset without repetition. Don't just wonder why you're feeling a certain way. Get to the bottom of it.
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Mind and body are connected interdependently. When one is out of whack, so is the other, in some or even many forms.

Are you healthy physically? I mean REALLY.  . are you? Is your lifestyle healthy? Get to the bottom of it. No one, not even a psychiatrist/psychologist can analyze your life as well as you can.

Start paying better attention to what you're doing, how you're living, and even what you're putting into your body (both food and medicine) and be mindful of the consequences. Pay attention to the mechanics of your every day life.

I'm not saying that you shouldn't try to seek help from a professional, there's nothing wrong with giving it a shot. Just realize that you can't change unless you yourself are truly aware of what is happening to you, not someone else, even if they have a degree.

And ffs DON'T give in to the thought,"I am just broken, or I am just not right. I just have this condition so I will always be this way" That shit is a trap. It will take hold of you and then you will never escape the metaphorical pit you're digging yourself into.

You need to abide by the thought, "this rut is impermanent, I WILL overcome this. I AM overcoming this." And don't ever stop abiding by it.

No one ever attains a new mindset without repetition. Don't just wonder why you're feeling a certain way. Get to the bottom of it.
I guess I'm not really that healthy, no. It's been even worse for the last couple weeks as I often don't feel like cooking a proper meal. Kind of a downward spiral I guess.

I don't feel that locked in, to be honest. I was able to be excited on a regular basis before, so I'll just have to find a way to be like that again. This is temporary, I won't let it stick with me to the grave.


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Long live NoNolesNeckin.

Ya fuckin' ganderneck.
I guess I'm not really that healthy, no. It's been even worse for the last couple weeks as I often don't feel like cooking a proper meal. Kind of a downward spiral I guess.
Well if you think you're unhealthy then that's one of the first things that you should get to the bottom of because it very likely has something to do with the mental issues you're having, especially if there was no significant external source to condition them.

Like, in my case, I have a condition that causes me to be malnourished and releases high levels of toxins into my bloodstream which, in turn, reach my brain and give me brain-fog, anxiety, irritability etc.


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I called my mom and we talked for about an hour. It felt good, I should do it more often.

She suggested going to the student care at campus before going to a clinic, so I'll try contacting them tomorrow.


 
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I browse memes and humour myself to mask the empty feeling inside
Getting diagnosed will feel pretty shitty


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I browse memes and humour myself to mask the empty feeling inside
Getting diagnosed will feel pretty shitty
My thoughts exactly.


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If you've been feeling flat and empty for a while, struggling to find interest in things and are starting to neglect personal care (cooking, cleaning etc) which is all pretty much what's listed in the OP then that's a pretty common signifier of depression.

So I'm glad you've already decided to go and see a psych of some kind, because I think it will be a sensible move to tackle this before it becomes set in and particularly hard to shift.

With regards to the stigma, it very often boils down to people just not understanding the condition. It's hard to know what it feels like if you haven't experienced it before, you can have colourful metaphors aplenty but they only do so much. It's bloody difficult going into a shrink's office for the first time, but they will be there to help you feel comfortable talking and to see what they can do to help you get better.



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If you've been feeling flat and empty for a while, struggling to find interest in things and are starting to neglect personal care (cooking, cleaning etc) which is all pretty much what's listed in the OP then that's a pretty common signifier of depression.

So I'm glad you've already decided to go and see a psych of some kind, because I think it will be a sensible move to tackle this before it becomes set in and particularly hard to shift.

With regards to the stigma, it very often boils down to people just not understanding the condition. It's hard to know what it feels like if you haven't experienced it before, you can have colourful metaphors aplenty but they only do so much. It's bloody difficult going into a shrink's office for the first time, but they will be there to help you feel comfortable talking and to see what they can do to help you get better.

Psy any reason why you're not an actual Psychologist yet?
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If you've been feeling flat and empty for a while, struggling to find interest in things and are starting to neglect personal care (cooking, cleaning etc) which is all pretty much what's listed in the OP then that's a pretty common signifier of depression.

So I'm glad you've already decided to go and see a psych of some kind, because I think it will be a sensible move to tackle this before it becomes set in and particularly hard to shift.

With regards to the stigma, it very often boils down to people just not understanding the condition. It's hard to know what it feels like if you haven't experienced it before, you can have colourful metaphors aplenty but they only do so much. It's bloody difficult going into a shrink's office for the first time, but they will be there to help you feel comfortable talking and to see what they can do to help you get better.

Psy and reason why you're not an actual Psychologist yet?
5 years of study down, 1 more and I'm a psychologist (although that's the title, in practice I'd be an assistant psychologist).
after that it's 4-5 more years and I'll be a fully fledged clinical psych.

It takes a long time.


 
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If you've been feeling flat and empty for a while, struggling to find interest in things and are starting to neglect personal care (cooking, cleaning etc) which is all pretty much what's listed in the OP then that's a pretty common signifier of depression.

So I'm glad you've already decided to go and see a psych of some kind, because I think it will be a sensible move to tackle this before it becomes set in and particularly hard to shift.

With regards to the stigma, it very often boils down to people just not understanding the condition. It's hard to know what it feels like if you haven't experienced it before, you can have colourful metaphors aplenty but they only do so much. It's bloody difficult going into a shrink's office for the first time, but they will be there to help you feel comfortable talking and to see what they can do to help you get better.

Psy and reason why you're not an actual Psychologist yet?
5 years of study down, 1 more and I'm a psychologist (although that's the title, in practice I'd be an assistant psychologist).
after that it's 4-5 more years and I'll be a fully fledged clinical psych.

It takes a long time.
I never knew pseudoscience was such a long road
Yep, you spend about a decade learning the arts of misdirection and dissembling.


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If you've been feeling flat and empty for a while, struggling to find interest in things and are starting to neglect personal care (cooking, cleaning etc) which is all pretty much what's listed in the OP then that's a pretty common signifier of depression.

So I'm glad you've already decided to go and see a psych of some kind, because I think it will be a sensible move to tackle this before it becomes set in and particularly hard to shift.

With regards to the stigma, it very often boils down to people just not understanding the condition. It's hard to know what it feels like if you haven't experienced it before, you can have colourful metaphors aplenty but they only do so much. It's bloody difficult going into a shrink's office for the first time, but they will be there to help you feel comfortable talking and to see what they can do to help you get better.
Thanks, it's good to get your perspective on this. I was hoping you'd show up, actually.

I was going to go to the student care at campus today, but I couldn't find them where they are supposed to be according to my uni's website. So I guess I'll go straight to the real deal, as they have clearer directions of where to find them and I can't be arsed to play detective to find people who may not even be able to help properly.


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If you've been feeling flat and empty for a while, struggling to find interest in things and are starting to neglect personal care (cooking, cleaning etc) which is all pretty much what's listed in the OP then that's a pretty common signifier of depression.

So I'm glad you've already decided to go and see a psych of some kind, because I think it will be a sensible move to tackle this before it becomes set in and particularly hard to shift.

With regards to the stigma, it very often boils down to people just not understanding the condition. It's hard to know what it feels like if you haven't experienced it before, you can have colourful metaphors aplenty but they only do so much. It's bloody difficult going into a shrink's office for the first time, but they will be there to help you feel comfortable talking and to see what they can do to help you get better.

Psy and reason why you're not an actual Psychologist yet?
5 years of study down, 1 more and I'm a psychologist (although that's the title, in practice I'd be an assistant psychologist).
after that it's 4-5 more years and I'll be a fully fledged clinical psych.

It takes a long time.

Damn. Well as far as this website goes, I certify you as Sep7agon's own Internet Psychologist


 
 
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If you've been feeling flat and empty for a while, struggling to find interest in things and are starting to neglect personal care (cooking, cleaning etc) which is all pretty much what's listed in the OP then that's a pretty common signifier of depression.

So I'm glad you've already decided to go and see a psych of some kind, because I think it will be a sensible move to tackle this before it becomes set in and particularly hard to shift.

With regards to the stigma, it very often boils down to people just not understanding the condition. It's hard to know what it feels like if you haven't experienced it before, you can have colourful metaphors aplenty but they only do so much. It's bloody difficult going into a shrink's office for the first time, but they will be there to help you feel comfortable talking and to see what they can do to help you get better.
Thanks, it's good to get your perspective on this. I was hoping you'd show up, actually.

I was going to go to the student care at campus today, but I couldn't find them where they are supposed to be according to my uni's website. So I guess I'll go straight to the real deal, as they have clearer directions of where to find them and I can't be arsed to play detective to find people who may not even be able to help properly.
No problem

That may be for the best, if you have access to it then making an appointment with the proper services is likely a good idea. You should be in good hands when you are seen, but if you ever have any questions or need to talk about it then feel free to PM me or quote me in here.