How to be less envious?

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Ever since I was a youngin' i've been an envious/jealous person. I have no idea WHY i  am like that but i hate it so much.

A big example and reocurring theme is when a guy gets a girl that I wanted. Like today, my sexy latina walks in the gym with this white dude player that goes there and always tells me how great I look. He isn't bad looking but seeing her with him made me rage. Ruined my workout

The thing is I can see how silly it is but I can't help the feeling. One of the worst feelings imo

Any advice?


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1) Don't give a fuck
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Ya fuckin' ganderneck.
1) Don't give a fuck
2) Fail at not giving a fuck
Sometimes I manage not to let #2 happen.


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I think envy is part of what turned me gay


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It sounds more like you feel entitled.


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I think envy is part of what turned me gay

More for me ¯\_(ツ)_/¯


 
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Goddamn Jive, it's so simple. You need a steady girlfriend for a while.


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It sounds more like you feel entitled.
Interesting.. Plz elaborate


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Goddamn Jive, it's so simple. You need a steady girlfriend for a while.
no way smh


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stop being a beta and ask girls out?


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Turn off the Envy skull.


 
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Goddamn Jive, it's so simple. You need a steady girlfriend for a while.
no way smh
then what's your plan genius :P


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stop being a beta and ask girls out?
I couldn't care less about dating them, asking girls out isn't the problem. It's them being with someone else that gets to me. Really unhealthy and bordering pathetic actually but i feel comfortable asking you guys for advices :)


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Goddamn Jive, it's so simple. You need a steady girlfriend for a while.
no way smh
then what's your plan genius :P
I forgot what it's like to have a girlfriend  :-[


 
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Goddamn Jive, it's so simple. You need a steady girlfriend for a while.
no way smh
then what's your plan genius :P
I forgot what it's like to have a girlfriend  :-[
I can still remember, if it's good you feel... free

free from expectations, the chase... you can focus and be yourself


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It sounds more like you feel entitled.
Interesting.. Plz elaborate
There's sort of a thin line between a feeling of jealousy and entitlement. From the sounds of it, you see some guy getting with a girl you want, and you think you deserve to have her, instead. It's not just a matter of wanting what somebody else has, it's the feeling that you should have it.


 
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fuck you
It sounds more like you feel entitled.


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Almost always, with moderation
I think envy is part of what turned me gay
Explain.


 
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That's a hard one to advise on since it's not neccessarily a habit, but more of an inherited trait.

I'd have no idea how a materialistic person would change that. Just like how I could never see myself getting pissed over material things or even really wanting them, or, how I'd change that.

The best bet is to rationalize things. Ask yourself the important questions. When you get envious or jealous, ask yourself why. You'll usually get a truthful answer back. How true it is, of course, depends on how afraid you are of reality, or acknowledging it.


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Almost always, with moderation


 
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You need to feel satisfied. Being confident that 'she's yours' is the only way to get over this fear of someone else taking her (envy).

Alternatively, get over the idea of 'owning' people -- you can't.


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I want you to lock yourself in 12x6 plywood closet. The only two items you are permitted to have within this compartment is a low intensity dynamo flashlight and a black permanent magic marker.

Before entering the void, set an alarm destined to ring each hour of the day. Input the dying screams of a Serengeti wildebeest as the alarm audio.

Sit inside the domain you have built. Lay in self meditation for a period of 4 hours each day. When the alarm sounds, turn on your flash light and inscribe the word GOD on the middle of your palm.

Choke yourself violently for a period of 30 minuites, increasing the rate of asphyxiation as your body becomes accustomed to this ritual.


You will live a life of envy in the periods between sessions, as you have been touched by God himself.


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Thanks for the replies guys