How does one become more dominant

Jim · June 03, 2016, 07:34:47 PM

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Kitsune 狐 · June 03, 2016, 07:36:34 PM

become swole

June 03, 2016, 07:37:19 PM

why would you want to be

sub life is best life

June 03, 2016, 07:38:15 PM

also you can't just "become" dominant

true dominance is just something you're born with

Jim · June 03, 2016, 07:38:20 PM

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June 03, 2016, 07:41:03 PM

Quote from: Jim on June 03, 2016, 07:38:20 PM

Quote from: SecondClass on June 03, 2016, 07:37:19 PM
why would you want to be

sub life is best life
what if a woman prefers dom men and you're switch anyway but just normally a sub

then you're a phony

🂿 · June 03, 2016, 07:42:12 PM

I can do both with a woman.

Jim · June 03, 2016, 07:43:27 PM

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June 03, 2016, 07:44:18 PM

Quote from: Jim on June 03, 2016, 07:43:27 PM

Quote from: SecondClass on June 03, 2016, 07:41:03 PM
Quote from: Jim on June 03, 2016, 07:38:20 PM
Quote from: SecondClass on June 03, 2016, 07:37:19 PM
why would you want to be

sub life is best life
what if a woman prefers dom men and you're switch anyway but just normally a sub
then you're a phony
Switch is a real thing

yeah ik

Jim · June 03, 2016, 07:53:58 PM

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Kitsune 狐 · June 03, 2016, 07:58:30 PM

Quote from: Jim on June 03, 2016, 07:53:58 PM

Quote from: SecondClass on June 03, 2016, 07:44:18 PM
Quote from: Jim on June 03, 2016, 07:43:27 PM
Quote from: SecondClass on June 03, 2016, 07:41:03 PM
Quote from: Jim on June 03, 2016, 07:38:20 PM
Quote from: SecondClass on June 03, 2016, 07:37:19 PM
why would you want to be

sub life is best life
what if a woman prefers dom men and you're switch anyway but just normally a sub
then you're a phony
Switch is a real thing
yeah ik
ok

there was a panel at DragonCon about BDSM and they mentioned switches. If you're not naturally dominant there is a way to learn to be dominant you just have to have a patient partner who's willing to work with you. Or you know there are videos on the internet...

Jim · June 03, 2016, 08:56:10 PM

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Kitsune 狐 · June 03, 2016, 08:57:26 PM

Quote from: Jim on June 03, 2016, 08:56:10 PM

Quote from: Kits on June 03, 2016, 07:58:30 PM
Quote from: Jim on June 03, 2016, 07:53:58 PM
Quote from: SecondClass on June 03, 2016, 07:44:18 PM
Quote from: Jim on June 03, 2016, 07:43:27 PM
Quote from: SecondClass on June 03, 2016, 07:41:03 PM
Quote from: Jim on June 03, 2016, 07:38:20 PM
Quote from: SecondClass on June 03, 2016, 07:37:19 PM
why would you want to be

sub life is best life
what if a woman prefers dom men and you're switch anyway but just normally a sub
then you're a phony
Switch is a real thing
yeah ik
ok

there was a panel at DragonCon about BDSM and they mentioned switches. If you're not naturally dominant there is a way to learn to be dominant you just have to have a patient partner who's willing to work with you. Or you know there are videos on the internet...
Hmm well thanks friendo

no problemo >.> my best friend is into that kind of stuff and she's told me a lot about it, aaand I've read 50 shades of cringe... I mean gray.

MyNameIsCharlie · June 03, 2016, 11:16:36 PM

Takes time. You transition in baby steps. The hard part is learning to take control when the other party goes submissive. Not just dominance, but the timing and all that. You can't rush it or you're just beating someone in a sexual way. For true BDSM you take your time and use anticipation most of all. That's the hard part. Letting it build until she feels the spank before you deliver it. When you're the sub, you get to experience it, delivering it is harder.

OysteinAarseth · June 03, 2016, 11:17:56 PM

jim, gib me succ bby, while i spank u like a naughty avocado