How do I boost my confidence

 
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I love you, son.
fuck off chally we all know you're a fatass


 
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That is a remote possibility. This is also a straw man. My point is the more physically fit you are the better your chances of protecting yourself and your loved ones from others.
i mean, weapons exist

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That's just not true. When you're in a near death situation, all philosophy, religion, whatever goes out the window and fear, desperation, and the will to live kick in on overdrive. You'd wish you had the strength to do so.
well yeah, but that's called being irrational

what i believe in my most irrational state of mind is the exact opposite of what i actually believe

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I just don't really care at this point in my life and having fun right now is more important for my mental well being than exercising.
same here

so you shouldn't be responding to me at all, unless you aim to sympathize

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That's true, but that's why I think it's something that should be taught to children at a young age and in a fun way, to make sure all kids feel included and motivated. But I guess you might as well wish for world peace, with the way PE teachers are.
all my PE teachers were fat pieces of shit, which i thought was hilarious

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I don't like gyms and I don't recommend anybody goes to them. It's a waste of money, a stupid culture, and generally a waste of time. Just do push-ups, sit-ups, burpies, whatever in your own home and you'll likely have better results than going to the gym half assed like it's a job. And before anybody else says that's bullshit, it's not. It works, and I was in good shape because I was worried I'd need to be in good shape to protect myself in case something happened.
i could probably stomach doing 50 of each of those every day or so

but i'm the kind of person who needs a tangible end to strive for, and i just don't


 
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On top of all of that and to your point about the first 2 points just being good things to develop in the first place, learning to listen is another great tool for general use. Paraphrasing is a good way to do this.

Asking questions is another great way to get anyone talking. An interesting sort of thing is that people love talking about themselves. So asking questions (without sounding like you're interrogating them of course) is a great way to keep up conversation. "How was work today?" "Oh that's good / bad, that must've felt pretty ________. What did you say to them?" stuff like that.

An advantage to this is that if she starts asking questions about you and stuff you're doing it's a decent indicator she might be interested.

Also just in general listening is a pretty good habit to acquire.
This is some good advice and I've been thinking about asking her these same questions. Small talk is all I really have time for whenever I get the chance to talk to her because we're always busy.

Also some other info about her is that she's beautiful, has nice hips, keeps to herself, and is rather shy. She doesn't seem like a social person because I usually see her walk by herself and talk to 1 or 2 other girls that she works with.

The girl that works in my department who used to work in hers told me that she is single too.
i gave you good advice bitch and you didn't like my post

fuck you


 
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holy fuck your peoples arguments with verb are fucking retarded

you don't need to work out to save yourself from a situation that risks your life, and you don't need to workout to be a beefcake

It's simply desirable to stay in shape for a myriad of reasons, attraction to men/women being the least of which. Unless you wanna die early and from complications, or feel miserable, don't get fat and don't abuse your body.


 
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holy fuck your peoples arguments with verb are fucking retarded

you don't need to work out to save yourself from a situation that risks your life, and you don't need to workout to be a beefcake

It's simply desirable to stay in shape for a myriad of reasons, attraction to men/women being the least of which. Unless you wanna die early and from complications, or feel miserable, don't get fat and don't abuse your body.
i think the amount of lifetime that you would "gain" from exercising is the same amount of time you would have to spend exercising for it to make a difference that isn't negligible

in other words, i could spend 5 years to gain 10 years, or i could, you know

not do that, because it's the same difference

what is the difference between someone who dies at 65 and someone who dies at 70

you're just old for another five years, big whoop, nobody lives forever


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i gave you good advice bitch and you didn't like my post

fuck you

People are fucking retarded.
There ^


 
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I'd get with you in arguments but I think old age is retarded too, but no I was thinking 40's and 50's, and I encourage you to do research on what obesity does to you, along with exercise in general. It's not even about life and death either, it's about every day activities that can be miserable on you.

your ignorance on it is pretty telling
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I'd get with you in arguments but I think old age is retarded too, but no I was thinking 40's and 50's, and I encourage you to do research on what obesity does to you, along with exercise in general

your ignorance on it is pretty telling
but nobody here is obese, and living to 40s and 50s is basically guaranteed for the average person

if i wasted several years of my life exercising, i'd probably find ways to justify it too


 
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It was an example

average lifespan is 71 for men, 81 for women, so you're about 20 years off with that unless you hop over to Africa maybe.

you've already wasted several years of your life on here so it's not that bad a step up


 
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It was an example

average lifespan is 71 for men, 81 for women, so you're about 20 years off with that unless you hop over to Africa maybe.
that's what i'm saying, it's practically guaranteed for you to live up to 40-50 range, and you don't need to exercise to do it, because the average lifespan is much higher than that, and most people don't get "enough" exercise

so what i'm saying is, does it REALLY matter

is it REALLY worth it
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I mean I think Luciana's point is that you might live to be 40 - 50 but the quality of your life might suffer. Various issues that add up to make it less enjoyable.


 
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so what i'm saying is, does it REALLY matter

is it REALLY worth it
ye


 
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I mean I think Luciana's point is that you might live to be 40 - 50 but the quality of your life might suffer. Various issues that add up to make it less enjoyable.
I would further argue that but with Verb it's impossible as he'll do his usual bigger picture humanity is pointless thing, and his mind is already made up, so

let him keep being verb

talk with him about how the new Zelda wasn't that amazing and suffers from the same open world crap MGS V suffered from


 
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so what i'm saying is, does it REALLY matter

is it REALLY worth it
ye
no, i'm afraid not


 
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I mean I think Luciana's point is that you might live to be 40 - 50 but the quality of your life might suffer. Various issues that add up to make it less enjoyable.
the world is shit, i'm poor as a motherfucker, and everyone's a fucking idiot but at least i have abs :DDDD

what a joke


 
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I mean I think Luciana's point is that you might live to be 40 - 50 but the quality of your life might suffer. Various issues that add up to make it less enjoyable.
the world is shit and everyone's a fucking idiot but at least i have abs :DDDD

what a joke
i rest my case


 
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I mean I think Luciana's point is that you might live to be 40 - 50 but the quality of your life might suffer. Various issues that add up to make it less enjoyable.
I would further argue that but with Verb it's impossible as he'll do his usual bigger picture humanity is pointless thing, and his mind is already made up, so

let him keep being verb
Oh yeah, if you want to talk about wastes of time in the big picture, it's a prime example. I was just trying to succinctly state the general point. That point of course, I agree with wholeheartedly. I see people who are in their 30's or 40's who look older than my parents who are in their 60's. They workout regularly and have always been into that kind of stuff. (Mom used to be a fitness instructor.)

On a completely unrelated note, a lot of people enjoy working out for the sake of doing it.


 
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>working out will save you from diabeetus
only money can save you from cancer


 
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I mean I think Luciana's point is that you might live to be 40 - 50 but the quality of your life might suffer. Various issues that add up to make it less enjoyable.
the world is shit and everyone's a fucking idiot but at least i have abs :DDDD

what a joke
i rest my case
I actually wasn't expecting that response exactly from him. Good call.


 
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On a completely unrelated note, a lot of people enjoy working out for the sake of doing it.
people do that with anything really

sad neets and depressed people (me) use video games as escapeism so they don't commit suicide for another day

normies hang out with friends or workout cuz it releases good feelings in brain

then you have the weirdos who want to get away from everyone and enjoy nature, so they go hunting


 
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>working out will save you from diabeetus
only money can save you from cancer
tell that to steve jobs


 
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I mean I think Luciana's point is that you might live to be 40 - 50 but the quality of your life might suffer. Various issues that add up to make it less enjoyable.
the world is shit, i'm poor as a motherfucker, and everyone's a fucking idiot but at least i have abs :DDDD

what a joke
lmao, have fun with your various nagging physical ailments that could have been prevented from spending a bit of time doing some exercise.


 
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>working out will save you from diabeetus
only money can save you from cancer
tell that to steve jobs
he was assassinated though


 
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I mean I think Luciana's point is that you might live to be 40 - 50 but the quality of your life might suffer. Various issues that add up to make it less enjoyable.
the world is shit, i'm poor as a motherfucker, and everyone's a fucking idiot but at least i have abs :DDDD

what a joke
lmao, have fun with your various nagging physical ailments that could have been prevented from spending a bit of time doing some exercise.
don't, you'll only encourage him more