Put you in tiimeout, beat you, took away your allowance etc.?

My father would hit my bottom with a shoe and take away toys and television.

Spank me daddy 😩😩

For lesser trouble, just taking away the internet, TV and video games. For bigger shit, the above plus spanking my ass with a wooden board and staying in my room until dinner, and then until bedtime.

taking away tv/video games

being hit with various shit, like a belt, tree branch, and the good ol chancla

Very well, where do I begin? My father was a relentlessly self-improving boulangerie owner from Belgium with low grade narcolepsy and a penchant for buggery. My mother was a fifteen year old French prostitute named Chloe with webbed feet. My father would womanize, he would drink, he would make outrageous claims like he invented the question mark. Some times he would accuse chestnuts of being lazy, the sort of general malaise that only the genius possess and the insane lament. My childhood was typical, summers in Rangoon, luge lessons. In the spring we'd make meat helmets. When I was insolent I was placed in a burlap bag and beaten with reeds, pretty standard really. At the age of 12 I received my first scribe. At the age of fourteen, a Zoroastrian named Vilma ritualistically shaved my testicles. There really is nothing like a shorn scrotum, it's breathtaking, I suggest you try it.

I got yelled at a few times but nothing more. My brother was the little cunt that pissed off the family.

I used to get hit when I was younger but my parents just kicked me out when I'd act up in my teens.

Quote from: Eli on May 05, 2018, 09:21:23 PM

I used to get hit when I was younger but my parents just kicked me out when I'd act up in my teens.

That's kinda fucked up.

I needed it. I was a handful.

There should never come a point where you have to hit your child and in no scenario is it justified.

Quote from: TBlocks on May 05, 2018, 09:55:09 PM

There should never come a point where you have to hit your child and in no scenario is it justified.

That’s very easy to say.

And it's doable in practice. My parents never laid a hand to me. I know many people who  have never been hit by their parents.

Quote from: TBlocks on May 05, 2018, 10:04:40 PM

Quote from: MyNameIsCharlie on May 05, 2018, 10:00:45 PM

Quote from: TBlocks on May 05, 2018, 09:55:09 PM

There should never come a point where you have to hit your child and in no scenario is it justified.

That’s very easy to say.

And it's doable in practice. My parents never laid a hand to me. I know many people who  have never been hit by their parents.

Not in every case. Like spanking, it doesn’t work on all kids. I am not advocating for actual hitting. But in some kids spanking has to be an option.

that is actual hitting

there is no way around this

i would let my children kill me before i'd lay a hand on them

Children have simple minds, some arent open to negotiations. Everyone understands pain tho, if they hurt because they do something then they wont do it again.

There is a level of severity that you dont cross of course. Spanking is minor and effective. Punching your child in the face is not.

Quote from: MyNameIsCharlie on May 05, 2018, 10:20:34 PM

Quote from: TBlocks on May 05, 2018, 10:04:40 PM

Quote from: MyNameIsCharlie on May 05, 2018, 10:00:45 PM

Quote from: TBlocks on May 05, 2018, 09:55:09 PM

There should never come a point where you have to hit your child and in no scenario is it justified.

That’s very easy to say.

And it's doable in practice. My parents never laid a hand to me. I know many people who  have never been hit by their parents.

Not in every case. Like spanking, it doesn’t work on all kids. I am not advocating for actual hitting. But in some kids spanking has to be an option.

that is actual hitting

there is no way around this

Spanking isn’t hitting if controlled. It isn’t the same if you lightly slap their bottom as full on hitting them. It still gets their attention.

Case in point: I had to spank my youngest. I am not proud of this. He punched another kid. He will be expelled from preschool. He has to know this is serious. Now, 5 weeks later, no incidents.

I didn’t like it. I still feel like shit. But, lesson learned.  Two light slaps to the bottom and no repeat behavior.

Quote from: Shhhhhh on May 05, 2018, 10:50:08 PM

Quote from: MyNameIsCharlie on May 05, 2018, 10:20:34 PM

Quote from: TBlocks on May 05, 2018, 10:04:40 PM

Quote from: MyNameIsCharlie on May 05, 2018, 10:00:45 PM

Quote from: TBlocks on May 05, 2018, 09:55:09 PM

There should never come a point where you have to hit your child and in no scenario is it justified.

That’s very easy to say.

And it's doable in practice. My parents never laid a hand to me. I know many people who  have never been hit by their parents.

Not in every case. Like spanking, it doesn’t work on all kids. I am not advocating for actual hitting. But in some kids spanking has to be an option.

that is actual hitting

there is no way around this

Spanking isn’t hitting if controlled. It isn’t the same if you lightly slap their bottom as full on hitting them. It still gets their attention.

Case in point: I had to spank my youngest. I am not proud of this. He punched another kid. He will be expelled from preschool. He has to know this is serious. Now, 5 weeks later, no incidents.

I didn’t like it. I still feel like shit. But, lesson learned.  Two light slaps to the bottom and no repeat behavior.

whatever the fuck you think you need to tell yourself

Just a simple grounding, that’s all.