I've hooked up with 3 people in my life so far. It was pretty fun but it was only a hookup and left much to be desired. I have yet to fall in love or be in a relationship.

4th relationship so far.

How long were your hookups?

Not too surprising for a forum like this, but almost non-existent.

I'm at that age where it's starting to get pretty cringe to still be going to college bars/college parties, which doesn't exactly make it easy to meet people. I'm planning on giving dating apps a try after I get some things situated with my career, which has been giving me a decent amount of stress and anxiety.

i havent really made any attempts to get with someone, ever since i broke up with a previous gf like 2 years ago

im not saying i was absolutely devastated by it or something, but i just dont WANT to try

i mean, i still get interested in girls but i dont make any attempts

although, the other day my first ex contacted me outta the blue and it seems like she wants to be friends? i dont know but im wary

After the last girl went haywire I thought I would apathetic to the idea, but a female friend of mine is showing confusing(?) signs. We've hung out a lot 1:1, some of which were her initiating plans; but neither of us have mentioned the subject to each other yet. Although January is almost over we have Christmas gifts to exchange. My thought process is, if there is any chemistry there it'll develop even with things going at an absolute snail's pace.

>tfw no traditional natsoc honorary 3d happa waifu gf to repopulate grorious Nippon with

😂 I don't understand half of what you said but I'm sure it's hilariously degenerate

We're getting there.

i dont want a relationship

pretty much exactly how i want it to be going

clapping ass on the daily?

OT: been in a relationship for nearly 2 years so pretty good

Quote from: Genghis Khan on January 23, 2020, 09:55:49 AM

Nearly 30 and still no relationship 

Have you tried showing her your MAGA hat collection?

how do you think they met?

Ah yes trap comic

Current relationship status: Gamer 

Been in a healthy happy relationship for over a year now. The girl is perfect, super gorgeous, sexy body, very sweet, shy. INSANELY loyal like to the death which I really value, my family loves her and she’s completely head over heels in love with me. Legit wife material

The only problem is ME. I’m at a stage right now where my body is in the top 1% of people, my looks are better than ever, and I have a lot of money. Thanks to constantly improving myself, reading, meditating etc my confidence is sky high. I genuinely feel like I can get any girl and tbh I’d even be happy just by myself.

A Ton of really beautiful high quality women hit me up now and whenever I go places. the temptations are really strong and I feel like I’m at Stage that I’ve been working towards my whole teen life. Got to stay loyal, So that’s my dilemma currently

Maybe it's going to seem like I'm coming out of the blue here, considering that I'm new to this site. I know nobody here and so I have no real purchase of opinion nor credence of claims. But I'm not new to forums, nor life in general. And I like talking about life with people.

I knew a man at one time, near the end of his life. I saw him in action even in his old age. The only way to describe this man's natural affinity in dealing with women was magnetic attraction. Everywhere he went, with most women he met, there was always a hint of something more behind their eyes or voices. In his youth, this phenomenon was ever present, which led him through a strange life.

He cheated weekly, probably daily on his first wife. And his testament to me was this. "Being involved with so many women was an incredible boost to my ego, an addictive one. At the time, I didn't see the damage I caused my wife, because all I thought to myself was that "she was just jealous."

I'm sure I could delve into much discussion of the facets of this man's life, but I'll skip to the moral point about love. At one point in my life I experienced love and had it forcibly taken away from me. People take love for granted. They throw partners, people away like trash, in pursuit of what?

You already seem to know your dilemma. But I think it's a fair thought to ask you the question, are you aware of how much damage you could inflict on the person who currently loves you, or at least is in the beginning stages of it? People's lives can sometimes irreversibly be changed by love, or loss of it.

I'd like to thank you by the way. I don't get much chance for meaningful conversation or thoughtful insights from people. Reading your post gave me something interesting to think about.