what drove you to cheat
Quote from: Eli on March 03, 2018, 03:07:25 PMwhat drove you to cheatIt all came from me. I’m sure everyone’s slightly different but for me it was the high of feeling wanted and desired by another woman, my sex drive, my insecurities. I almost felt like I was coming from a place of lacking, that I HAD to nab this opportunity to cheat, like there wouldn’t ever be an opportunity in the future when/if I was single. It had absolutely nothing to do with my partner at all, nothing they could do would’ve changed the decision I made. It was a really dark time for me, it made me miserable and actually more paranoid of my partner. I confronted her about it and it was this huge ordeal we went through that is still not fully recovered. Since then I’ve been trying to live with a lot more integrity, both with other people and myself. Life is simpler like that when (like verb said) you’re honest with yourself and others. Been working for me so far.
Quote from: Jive Turkey on March 03, 2018, 03:32:01 PMQuote from: Eli on March 03, 2018, 03:07:25 PMwhat drove you to cheatIt all came from me. I’m sure everyone’s slightly different but for me it was the high of feeling wanted and desired by another woman, my sex drive, my insecurities. I almost felt like I was coming from a place of lacking, that I HAD to nab this opportunity to cheat, like there wouldn’t ever be an opportunity in the future when/if I was single. It had absolutely nothing to do with my partner at all, nothing they could do would’ve changed the decision I made. It was a really dark time for me, it made me miserable and actually more paranoid of my partner. I confronted her about it and it was this huge ordeal we went through that is still not fully recovered. Since then I’ve been trying to live with a lot more integrity, both with other people and myself. Life is simpler like that when (like verb said) you’re honest with yourself and others. Been working for me so far.would you say youre still in a position where cheating would be too tempting to pass upwould you say cheating usually comes from insecurity
Nah.I fuck with married bros tho. Their fault not mine.
Quote from: DAS B00T x2 on March 03, 2018, 05:38:04 PMNah.I fuck with married bros tho. Their fault not mine.Dude, thas gay.
Quote from: Dietrich Six on March 03, 2018, 08:03:43 PMQuote from: DAS B00T x2 on March 03, 2018, 05:38:04 PMNah.I fuck with married bros tho. Their fault not mine.Dude, thas gay.No it's not because they're straight
Quote from: Eli on March 03, 2018, 04:18:45 PMQuote from: Jive Turkey on March 03, 2018, 03:32:01 PMQuote from: Eli on March 03, 2018, 03:07:25 PMwhat drove you to cheatIt all came from me. I’m sure everyone’s slightly different but for me it was the high of feeling wanted and desired by another woman, my sex drive, my insecurities. I almost felt like I was coming from a place of lacking, that I HAD to nab this opportunity to cheat, like there wouldn’t ever be an opportunity in the future when/if I was single. It had absolutely nothing to do with my partner at all, nothing they could do would’ve changed the decision I made. It was a really dark time for me, it made me miserable and actually more paranoid of my partner. I confronted her about it and it was this huge ordeal we went through that is still not fully recovered. Since then I’ve been trying to live with a lot more integrity, both with other people and myself. Life is simpler like that when (like verb said) you’re honest with yourself and others. Been working for me so far.would you say youre still in a position where cheating would be too tempting to pass upwould you say cheating usually comes from insecurityGood questions 1. If like to say no, but I’m not actually certain. My sex drive is insanely high right now and what I’ve been doing is completely avoiding situations that could enable cheating. I doubt I would cheat again now but there’s always situations that could make it really difficult(just being honest) 2. Sometimes but not always. For some people it may not even be from low self esteem, they might have regular self esteem/security and cheating is even more of a self esteem booster. I was also reading how some people are addicted to that “high” of initially meeting someone and getting physical with them, like a mini honeymoon stage.
Quote from: MyNameIsCharlie on March 04, 2018, 01:35:28 AM17 fucking years. 1 lesson. Don’t trust anyone. If they can fuck you over, they eventually willI don't wanna be an asshole but I think your wife cheated on you a few times before that
17 fucking years. 1 lesson. Don’t trust anyone. If they can fuck you over, they eventually will
I Cheat.
Have you ever cheated on a partner or been cheated on?
