Do you think marriage would work out for you?

Mmmmm Napalm · June 15, 2016, 07:09:40 PM

As it stands, I don't think it would end well if I got married. I am a rather controlling person, don't like to go out much (aside from movies), and thus I don't think I would be a very good father or husband. Then again, I guess my fears are primarily because of my disposition, me being an introverted and not outdoors-y individual, and because of my parent's recent divorce.

I guess it's too early to tell.

MyNameIsCharlie · June 15, 2016, 07:11:34 PM

I think that everyone will agree with me when I say for me: no. Been there, have 15 T shirts and it did not work

June 15, 2016, 07:11:59 PM

I Don't Know But Sometimes I Think I Might Want To Get Married

lmao he edited the title

Ian · June 15, 2016, 07:12:15 PM

My end goal is to get married and raise a child so of course I would devote a part of myself to achieving such a goal.

🂿 · June 15, 2016, 07:12:57 PM

Tbh, no.

At least not right now in my life.

PSU · June 15, 2016, 07:14:41 PM

Verbatim · June 15, 2016, 07:40:06 PM

I'm one of those 'fraid-o'-commitment types.

Once I officially get up off my feet and start being the adult that I am, I'll likely have other, better things to worry about.

Desty · June 15, 2016, 07:43:24 PM

In Fable 2? Absolutely

IRL? Not sure at all. 0 confidence

DAS B00T x2 · June 15, 2016, 07:49:08 PM

I'd gay marry Pepsi

Turkey · June 15, 2016, 08:05:48 PM

It's worked out well for me. DINK is the way to be.

Thun · June 15, 2016, 08:09:14 PM

I don't know. I hope so.

I'd work my butt off trying to make my partner happy tho.

Aether · June 15, 2016, 08:09:30 PM

No way. I'm too sick and dependent to be worthy of making a life with someone.

Verbatim · June 15, 2016, 08:10:05 PM

Quote from: yekruTluftruH on June 15, 2016, 08:05:48 PM

DINK is the way to be.

come again

Elai · June 15, 2016, 08:14:21 PM

Yep. Just gotta find a good Christian qt to settle down with.

gats · June 15, 2016, 08:15:09 PM

im very comfortable on my own, dunno how i'd feel in a marriage where im compelled to spend time with my spouse
except pepsi of course

snee0rp · June 15, 2016, 09:53:43 PM

lolno

don't want to get JUSTed

True Turquoise · June 15, 2016, 09:54:43 PM

Yeah, easily.

The Lord Ruler · June 15, 2016, 10:08:23 PM

hell yeah just gotta find that right girl

Mmmmm Napalm · June 15, 2016, 10:21:26 PM

Quote from: Verbatim on June 15, 2016, 08:10:05 PM

Quote from: yekruTluftruH on June 15, 2016, 08:05:48 PM
DINK is the way to be.
come again

Dual Income No Kids

Quote from: Snake on June 15, 2016, 08:14:21 PM

Yep. Just gotta find a good Christian qt to settle down with.

Yeah, that's another thing; the addition of the factor of religious faith would make finding someone compatible even more difficult.

Elai · June 15, 2016, 10:29:18 PM

Quote from: Mmmmm Napalm on June 15, 2016, 10:21:26 PM

Yeah, that's another thing; the addition of the factor of religious faith would make finding someone compatible even more difficult.

The brethren church takes care of that for me, haha.

Dietrich Six · June 15, 2016, 11:36:10 PM

I'm not sure monogamy is for me. I'm a pretty abrasive person, selfish too. If think all of that would change if I had kids tho.

Mmmmm Napalm · June 15, 2016, 11:42:24 PM

Quote from: Snake on June 15, 2016, 10:29:18 PM

Quote from: Mmmmm Napalm on June 15, 2016, 10:21:26 PM
Yeah, that's another thing; the addition of the factor of religious faith would make finding someone compatible even more difficult.

The brethren church takes care of that for me, haha.

How so? Forgive me for my ignorance, but what are you referring to?

Tyger · June 15, 2016, 11:45:07 PM

I'll probably be married until I die or until I kill my wife

Elai · June 15, 2016, 11:45:16 PM

Quote from: Mmmmm Napalm on June 15, 2016, 11:42:24 PM

How so? Forgive me for my ignorance, but what are you referring to?

It's commonplace in my church to have simplified marriages. Meaning, if the girl's cute and a good Christian, you ask her father to date her which eventually ends up becoming a marriage. Very old-fashioned.

My folks don't belong to this church though so I get to make all the decisions for myself. Very liberating.

Mmmmm Napalm · June 15, 2016, 11:48:02 PM

Quote from: Snake on June 15, 2016, 11:45:16 PM

Quote from: Mmmmm Napalm on June 15, 2016, 11:42:24 PM
How so? Forgive me for my ignorance, but what are you referring to?

It's commonplace in my church to have simplified marriages. Meaning, if the girl's cute and a good Christian, you ask her father to date her which eventually ends up becoming a marriage. Very old-fashioned.

My folks don't belong to this church though so I get to make all the decisions for myself. Very liberating.

I see. Well, I suppose that simplifies things to an extent.

Elai · June 15, 2016, 11:49:49 PM

Quote from: Mmmmm Napalm on June 15, 2016, 11:48:02 PM

I see. Well, I suppose that simplifies things to an extent.

Yeah, it's definitely not for everyone. I suppose I just want companionship and someone who has similar goals and ideals as me when it comes to raising children, which, most women in the brethren church do. I'm not necessarily looking for love like most people are, though it would be nice.

Winy · June 15, 2016, 11:59:04 PM

That's really what I want most in life. To have someone that I love to spend the rest of my life with.

Death · June 16, 2016, 12:24:40 AM

I could be married within the year(Mormon perks) but I don't think I'm ready for it. I'm not developed enough. No career, no home(Soon I'll be living in an apartment)

TB · June 16, 2016, 12:50:23 AM

Quote from: Callus on June 15, 2016, 08:14:21 PM

Yep. Just gotta find a good Christian qt to settle down with.

Not working with her?

BaconShelf · June 16, 2016, 04:18:19 AM

Nah. Having to live and spend time with another person permanently would not work out for me. Main reason I want to go to uni is so I can live by myself.