Quote from: Verbatim on March 27, 2016, 11:05:12 PMQuote from: SecondClass on March 27, 2016, 11:03:53 PMIf you look at a drug addict, and immediately look down on him and judge him, that's a character flaw on your part.Why is it a flaw to be intelligent, and to be aware of your own intelligence?You will always be wrong on this. It's called hubris, ya dip.
Quote from: SecondClass on March 27, 2016, 11:03:53 PMIf you look at a drug addict, and immediately look down on him and judge him, that's a character flaw on your part.Why is it a flaw to be intelligent, and to be aware of your own intelligence?You will always be wrong on this.
If you look at a drug addict, and immediately look down on him and judge him, that's a character flaw on your part.
Quote from: Verbatim on March 27, 2016, 11:05:12 PMQuote from: SecondClass on March 27, 2016, 11:03:53 PMIf you look at a drug addict, and immediately look down on him and judge him, that's a character flaw on your part.Why is it a flaw to be intelligent, and to be aware of your own intelligence?You will always be wrong on this.Looking down on people and judging how they choose to live their life doesn't make you intelligent, it makes you a douchebag.
Quote from: SecondClass on March 27, 2016, 11:07:11 PMQuote from: Verbatim on March 27, 2016, 11:05:12 PMQuote from: SecondClass on March 27, 2016, 11:03:53 PMIf you look at a drug addict, and immediately look down on him and judge him, that's a character flaw on your part.Why is it a flaw to be intelligent, and to be aware of your own intelligence?You will always be wrong on this.Looking down on people and judging how they choose to live their life doesn't make you intelligent, it makes you a douchebag.Then it's good to be a douchebag.
Quote from: The Hån on March 27, 2016, 10:59:46 PMQuote from: SecondClass on March 27, 2016, 10:49:45 PMQuote from: Verbatim on March 27, 2016, 10:35:10 PMQuote from: SecondClass on March 27, 2016, 10:11:29 PMOf course not, judging others means that you're insecure about yourself. Then it's good to be insecure about yourself.Being insecure about yourself isn't good or bad, it affects no one.Judging people, while making you look insecure, is also just a bad thing itself.but here's the thing. just because you judge someone on something doesn't mean you're insecure about that particular thing. like for example. i see someone smoking crack. i think they're a lousy crackhead. i'm not gonna have an inner debate with myself about if i'm not good enough because i dont smoke crack.Not about that particular thing, just in general. A stable, content person would look at the person smoking crack and feel sympathy. Someone down on their luck, who is in a bad place. They wouldn't make any character assumptions or look down on him. And they certainly wouldn't hate him, or think of him as a "lousy crackhead".If you look at a drug addict, and immediately look down on him and judge him, that's a character flaw on your part.
Quote from: SecondClass on March 27, 2016, 10:49:45 PMQuote from: Verbatim on March 27, 2016, 10:35:10 PMQuote from: SecondClass on March 27, 2016, 10:11:29 PMOf course not, judging others means that you're insecure about yourself. Then it's good to be insecure about yourself.Being insecure about yourself isn't good or bad, it affects no one.Judging people, while making you look insecure, is also just a bad thing itself.but here's the thing. just because you judge someone on something doesn't mean you're insecure about that particular thing. like for example. i see someone smoking crack. i think they're a lousy crackhead. i'm not gonna have an inner debate with myself about if i'm not good enough because i dont smoke crack.
Quote from: Verbatim on March 27, 2016, 10:35:10 PMQuote from: SecondClass on March 27, 2016, 10:11:29 PMOf course not, judging others means that you're insecure about yourself. Then it's good to be insecure about yourself.Being insecure about yourself isn't good or bad, it affects no one.Judging people, while making you look insecure, is also just a bad thing itself.
Quote from: SecondClass on March 27, 2016, 10:11:29 PMOf course not, judging others means that you're insecure about yourself. Then it's good to be insecure about yourself.
Of course not, judging others means that you're insecure about yourself.
Quote from: Solonoid on March 27, 2016, 11:06:29 PMQuote from: Verbatim on March 27, 2016, 11:05:12 PMQuote from: SecondClass on March 27, 2016, 11:03:53 PMIf you look at a drug addict, and immediately look down on him and judge him, that's a character flaw on your part.Why is it a flaw to be intelligent, and to be aware of your own intelligence?You will always be wrong on this. It's called hubris, ya dip.It's called hubris isn't actually a flaw, you dip.
Quote from: SecondClass on March 27, 2016, 11:03:53 PMQuote from: The Hån on March 27, 2016, 10:59:46 PMQuote from: SecondClass on March 27, 2016, 10:49:45 PMQuote from: Verbatim on March 27, 2016, 10:35:10 PMQuote from: SecondClass on March 27, 2016, 10:11:29 PMOf course not, judging others means that you're insecure about yourself. Then it's good to be insecure about yourself.Being insecure about yourself isn't good or bad, it affects no one.Judging people, while making you look insecure, is also just a bad thing itself.but here's the thing. just because you judge someone on something doesn't mean you're insecure about that particular thing. like for example. i see someone smoking crack. i think they're a lousy crackhead. i'm not gonna have an inner debate with myself about if i'm not good enough because i dont smoke crack.Not about that particular thing, just in general. A stable, content person would look at the person smoking crack and feel sympathy. Someone down on their luck, who is in a bad place. They wouldn't make any character assumptions or look down on him. And they certainly wouldn't hate him, or think of him as a "lousy crackhead".If you look at a drug addict, and immediately look down on him and judge him, that's a character flaw on your part.good sir, you took that example too literally and missed the point. judgement=/=insecurity.
Quote from: Verbatim on March 27, 2016, 11:07:36 PMQuote from: SecondClass on March 27, 2016, 11:07:11 PMQuote from: Verbatim on March 27, 2016, 11:05:12 PMQuote from: SecondClass on March 27, 2016, 11:03:53 PMIf you look at a drug addict, and immediately look down on him and judge him, that's a character flaw on your part.Why is it a flaw to be intelligent, and to be aware of your own intelligence?You will always be wrong on this.Looking down on people and judging how they choose to live their life doesn't make you intelligent, it makes you a douchebag.Then it's good to be a douchebag.well judging doesn't have to mean being a dick or look down on people. you can see someone doing something and deem it as bad.
Quote from: The Hån on March 27, 2016, 11:14:40 PMQuote from: Verbatim on March 27, 2016, 11:07:36 PMQuote from: SecondClass on March 27, 2016, 11:07:11 PMQuote from: Verbatim on March 27, 2016, 11:05:12 PMQuote from: SecondClass on March 27, 2016, 11:03:53 PMIf you look at a drug addict, and immediately look down on him and judge him, that's a character flaw on your part.Why is it a flaw to be intelligent, and to be aware of your own intelligence?You will always be wrong on this.Looking down on people and judging how they choose to live their life doesn't make you intelligent, it makes you a douchebag.Then it's good to be a douchebag.well judging doesn't have to mean being a dick or look down on people. you can see someone doing something and deem it as bad.Everyone makes those qualifiers, it takes a lot of effort just as a human to not do so. But what you can do is minimize how much you do it, and don't make your (probably wrong or incomplete) judgments known to the world.
i touch myself.
I don't see the point in it. If you stand there loudly judging someone for anything legal, they just think you an asshole. You won't change their behavior. They'll forget about you and go on to their next short relationship. You, however will remain in anger and judgement, living with it internally. You are the only one hurt by your judgement. As someone who did live to have sex with as many women as possible, I know I didn't and don't care what you think about my sexual proclivities. But... How you live and judge others is your affair. Now go on and post some personal attack on me about my low sperm count or how my wife left me. I don't care.
Original question aside I have my own. Legitimately how many people will you bump into in your lifetime that you can easily confirm without a doubt that they are highly sexually active? I'll answer. Likely very few. The only people being friends who are involved in your personal life to a degree enough that you can tell that they're sexually active, and passerby hookers on the street, depending on how much you travel or where you live. So to answer your question, no I don't judge. Because I don't travel and I have no friends.Even if I did, I don't see what the point would be.
Which is why I'm assuming that most people hate sexually active people for their attitude since you honestly can't tell who is sexually active or not unless they throw it in your face
Quote from: Sandtrap on March 27, 2016, 11:45:13 PMOriginal question aside I have my own. Legitimately how many people will you bump into in your lifetime that you can easily confirm without a doubt that they are highly sexually active? I'll answer. Likely very few. The only people being friends who are involved in your personal life to a degree enough that you can tell that they're sexually active, and passerby hookers on the street, depending on how much you travel or where you live. So to answer your question, no I don't judge. Because I don't travel and I have no friends.Even if I did, I don't see what the point would be.Usually it comes in the form of bragging or cocky behavior Which is why I'm assuming that most people hate sexually active people for their attitude since you honestly can't tell who is sexually active or not unless they throw it in your face
You are the only one hurt by your judgement.
Quote from: Precious Tritium on March 27, 2016, 11:48:14 PMWhich is why I'm assuming that most people hate sexually active people for their attitude since you honestly can't tell who is sexually active or not unless they throw it in your faceNot really, word gets around. You think all these poor girls who become pariahs because they're "sluts" get that way because they brag about the number of times they've fucked? Of course not.
Quote from: MyNameIsCharlie on March 27, 2016, 11:25:48 PMYou are the only one hurt by your judgement. I'm not hurt by it at all. Judging people is very empowering for me.
Not reallyThere's nothing wrong with sex itself But if it's unsafe and all you care about then that's the problem
Quote from: Precious Tritium on March 27, 2016, 11:42:55 PMNot reallyThere's nothing wrong with sex itself But if it's unsafe and all you care about then that's the problem Sex of any kind is a sin fucktard
Do you judge people who are highly sexually active?
