so tell me about your love life

tryna get one with someone? already w/ someone? dont even care?

theres this girl in my ochem/bio class that im interested in, ive talked to her in class but ima try to get her phone number... even though the quarter is pretty much over

hby

Not interested in anyone right now, no. I need to get my life together first.

Going on 8 years with my fiance, things are well.

thats good to hear, i hope for the best for u in the future

In distant relationship which lasts for around 1,5 years and can be characterized as something between love and friendship, maybe because distance or maybe because we both are people who used to go alone in their lives and while we don't mind being in such relationship, neither of us were actively searching for it. Still nice to have each other.

mm interesting, im not sure if i could handle a long distance

that seems like a good person to be with, something like a reflection of you? if that makes sense

my what life?

I made a tinder profile and I ended up taking out a girl on a date back in November which was the first time I've ever taken a girl out. She was pretty cool and the vibe I got from her was good and she had a good job and was doing good for herself, also she just got out a of a 4-year relationship. She'd text me "good morning " with emojis and shit every day and I'd call and talk to her on her lunch. Then one day she stopped doing that. I texted her and didn't get a response back ever again from this girl. I looked up her profile on Instagram some time later and saw two initials in her bio with some heart emojis so it became clear to me that she must have gotten back with her ex. I was upset, but I moved on.

I matched with a 28 year old on there because getting with an older girl is one of my fantasies. Anyways we'd talk on the phone but I kept losing interest as time went on and once she told me how her family is and the things she told me, I immediately nope'd out of there. The thing is that I called this woman and told her I wasn't interested anymore and that "I found someone else" even though I didn't and she still wanted to do things with me. I ghosted her but she kept calling me while I was at work so I had to block her number.

And just recently, I was talking to this girl who's a year older than me that I went to school with. She's in nursing school or whatever it's called during the mornings and works nights like me but gets off earlier than I do. Because of our schedules and days I work/she works, it's super difficult for us to meet and do something, at least that was her excuse. The days I had off and she had off we never did anything because she "was busy" even though she would still go out with her friends. The other night she was at a barbecue with some other guy and once I saw that, I'd had enough of the excuses. I wasted some of my fucking vacation hours for this girl man.

I talked to another girl I went to school with. Back in high school she knew I had a crush on her and she wanted me to talk to her but I was too scared of rejection and was super shy back then. Again, complicated schedules were between me and her so we never got to hang out. This one especially hurts the most because I got a feeling I'm the one that screwed things up with this girl because of the dumb stuff I'd tell her, and she hands down was the most gorgeous and most successful of these girls I talked about. She probably thought I was just super awkward and weird and moved on. I'm such a fucking retard for screwing this one up and I'm pretty sure I'll never win her back.

The funny thing is that a guy I know came to me... ME... of all people for advice on a girl he liked. He listened to me and he ended up getting with a girl and now they've been together for 7 months now LOL

At this point, I'm convinced that I just have the worst luck when it comes to this stuff. Whenever I think I have something going with a girl, everything just falls to shit and I end up with nothing but disappointment each time. Myself, I think, is probably what I should blame the most. If I knew what I knew now I would go back and take all those opportunities I had that I was too scared to take.

that seems like a good person to be with, something like a reflection of you? if that makes sense

Yes and yes, that makes sense.

might check out dating apps again in the near future, heh.

I made a tinder profile and I ended up taking out a girl on a date back in November which was the first time I've ever taken a girl out. She was pretty cool and the vibe I got from her was good and she had a good job and was doing good for herself, also she just got out a of a 4-year relationship. She'd text me "good morning " with emojis and shit every day and I'd call and talk to her on her lunch. Then one day she stopped doing that. I texted her and didn't get a response back ever again from this girl. I looked up her profile on Instagram some time later and saw two initials in her bio with some heart emojis so it became clear to me that she must have gotten back with her ex. I was upset, but I moved on.

I matched with a 28 year old on there because getting with an older girl is one of my fantasies. Anyways we'd talk on the phone but I kept losing interest as time went on and once she told me how her family is and the things she told me, I immediately nope'd out of there. The thing is that I called this woman and told her I wasn't interested anymore and that "I found someone else" even though I didn't and she still wanted to do things with me. I ghosted her but she kept calling me while I was at work so I had to block her number.

And just recently, I was talking to this girl who's a year older than me that I went to school with. She's in nursing school or whatever it's called during the mornings and works nights like me but gets off earlier than I do. Because of our schedules and days I work/she works, it's super difficult for us to meet and do something, at least that was her excuse. The days I had off and she had off we never did anything because she "was busy" even though she would still go out with her friends. The other night she was at a barbecue with some other guy and once I saw that, I'd had enough of the excuses. I wasted some of my fucking vacation hours for this girl man.

I talked to another girl I went to school with. Back in high school she knew I had a crush on her and she wanted me to talk to her but I was too scared of rejection and was super shy back then. Again, complicated schedules were between me and her so we never got to hang out. This one especially hurts the most because I got a feeling I'm the one that screwed things up with this girl because of the dumb stuff I'd tell her, and she hands down was the most gorgeous and most successful of these girls I talked about. She probably thought I was just super awkward and weird and moved on. I'm such a fucking retard for screwing this one up and I'm pretty sure I'll never win her back.

The funny thing is that a guy I know came to me... ME... of all people for advice on a girl he liked. He listened to me and he ended up getting with a girl and now they've been together for 7 months now LOL

At this point, I'm convinced that I just have the worst luck when it comes to this stuff. Whenever I think I have something going with a girl, everything just falls to shit and I end up with nothing but disappointment each time. Myself, I think, is probably what I should blame the most. If I knew what I knew now I would go back and take all those opportunities I had that I was too scared to take.

i see, it must be difficult for you

i was never expecting to get with both of my exes, it just kinda came up. what im tryna say is that maybe youll get with someone that you never planned to?

 im not saying you should try to get with the first girl who breathes your way, but ig life is full of surprises. thats kinda the reason im against the dating sites (my friends got into it for a lil bit too) cuz i just feel like that makes it too forced. im not gonna try to stop you from using it or whatever, but thats my two cents in your situation

im not saying you should try to get with the first girl who breathes your way, but ig life is full of surprises. thats kinda the reason im against the dating sites (my friends got into it for a lil bit too) cuz i just feel like that makes it too forced. im not gonna try to stop you from using it or whatever, but thats my two cents in your situation

It's not that because I realized that the problem all along is me. I'm always saying that I need to focus on myself mentally and physically so that way I can be more confident but I never do shit because it's something I'm not used to doing.

One of my coworkers has inspired me in changing the way I am though. Trying to be like him, or even greater, is something I want to be.

As bright as my future.

haha you know me, since i'm comin, i come correct if i'm comin at all you know, that's usually how i roll