I didn't choose the banter life the banter life chose me.
People argue for an assortment of reasons. That's about as silly as asking"why do we fight wars man..."
Quote from: Kits on June 11, 2016, 05:19:57 PMI didn't choose the banter life the banter life chose me.That's the thing. Why did the banter life choose you? Or me even?I know that was a joke meme you posted, but still.What does it accomplish?
Quote from: Decimator Omega on June 11, 2016, 05:21:20 PMQuote from: Kits on June 11, 2016, 05:19:57 PMI didn't choose the banter life the banter life chose me.That's the thing. Why did the banter life choose you? Or me even?I know that was a joke meme you posted, but still.What does it accomplish?It makes you stronger and it also makes you see well at least hear the other side. It makes you more of a well rounded person.
Quote from: Kits on June 11, 2016, 05:26:00 PMQuote from: Decimator Omega on June 11, 2016, 05:21:20 PMQuote from: Kits on June 11, 2016, 05:19:57 PMI didn't choose the banter life the banter life chose me.That's the thing. Why did the banter life choose you? Or me even?I know that was a joke meme you posted, but still.What does it accomplish?It makes you stronger and it also makes you see well at least hear the other side. It makes you more of a well rounded person.It doesn't make me any stronger if I lose each time in an argument. Any point I make it always falls on deaf ears.
Quote from: Decimator Omega on June 11, 2016, 05:27:09 PMQuote from: Kits on June 11, 2016, 05:26:00 PMQuote from: Decimator Omega on June 11, 2016, 05:21:20 PMQuote from: Kits on June 11, 2016, 05:19:57 PMI didn't choose the banter life the banter life chose me.That's the thing. Why did the banter life choose you? Or me even?I know that was a joke meme you posted, but still.What does it accomplish?It makes you stronger and it also makes you see well at least hear the other side. It makes you more of a well rounded person.It doesn't make me any stronger if I lose each time in an argument. Any point I make it always falls on deaf ears.There is nothing wrong with "losing" unless you learn nothing from the failure.
It accomplishes making people realize the truth about something. Which is, like, kind of important.
Quote from: Kits on June 11, 2016, 05:32:03 PMQuote from: Decimator Omega on June 11, 2016, 05:27:09 PMQuote from: Kits on June 11, 2016, 05:26:00 PMQuote from: Decimator Omega on June 11, 2016, 05:21:20 PMQuote from: Kits on June 11, 2016, 05:19:57 PMI didn't choose the banter life the banter life chose me.That's the thing. Why did the banter life choose you? Or me even?I know that was a joke meme you posted, but still.What does it accomplish?It makes you stronger and it also makes you see well at least hear the other side. It makes you more of a well rounded person.It doesn't make me any stronger if I lose each time in an argument. Any point I make it always falls on deaf ears.There is nothing wrong with "losing" unless you learn nothing from the failure.I know, but never once have I managed to get my point of you across to someone in hopes that they at least understand where I'm coming from.
Quote from: Decimator Omega on June 11, 2016, 05:34:36 PMQuote from: Kits on June 11, 2016, 05:32:03 PMQuote from: Decimator Omega on June 11, 2016, 05:27:09 PMQuote from: Kits on June 11, 2016, 05:26:00 PMQuote from: Decimator Omega on June 11, 2016, 05:21:20 PMQuote from: Kits on June 11, 2016, 05:19:57 PMI didn't choose the banter life the banter life chose me.That's the thing. Why did the banter life choose you? Or me even?I know that was a joke meme you posted, but still.What does it accomplish?It makes you stronger and it also makes you see well at least hear the other side. It makes you more of a well rounded person.It doesn't make me any stronger if I lose each time in an argument. Any point I make it always falls on deaf ears.There is nothing wrong with "losing" unless you learn nothing from the failure.I know, but never once have I managed to get my point of you across to someone in hopes that they at least understand where I'm coming from.Then you should try to better explain your position without succumbing to anger.
Quote from: Winy on June 11, 2016, 05:33:45 PMIt accomplishes making people realize the truth about something. Which is, like, kind of important.And if you fail at that like I always do?
Quote from: Decimator Omega on June 11, 2016, 05:35:06 PMQuote from: Winy on June 11, 2016, 05:33:45 PMIt accomplishes making people realize the truth about something. Which is, like, kind of important.And if you fail at that like I always do?Get better at arguing.
Quote from: Luciana on June 11, 2016, 05:20:48 PMPeople argue for an assortment of reasons. That's about as silly as asking"why do we fight wars man..."But why do we fight wars? Why can't we be friends?
Quote from: Winy on June 11, 2016, 05:39:23 PMQuote from: Decimator Omega on June 11, 2016, 05:35:06 PMQuote from: Winy on June 11, 2016, 05:33:45 PMIt accomplishes making people realize the truth about something. Which is, like, kind of important.And if you fail at that like I always do?Get better at arguing.Thisnot every argument has to end in insults
I mean, they're normally a good way of gaining perspective.
Quote from: Decimator Omega on June 11, 2016, 05:21:58 PMQuote from: Luciana on June 11, 2016, 05:20:48 PMPeople argue for an assortment of reasons. That's about as silly as asking"why do we fight wars man..."But why do we fight wars? Why can't we be friends?A plethora of reasons.Resources, fundamental differences in beliefs, etc.And friends can fight. It's not black and white.
Quote from: TBlocks on June 11, 2016, 05:41:15 PMQuote from: Decimator Omega on June 11, 2016, 05:21:58 PMQuote from: Luciana on June 11, 2016, 05:20:48 PMPeople argue for an assortment of reasons. That's about as silly as asking"why do we fight wars man..."But why do we fight wars? Why can't we be friends?A plethora of reasons.Resources, fundamental differences in beliefs, etc.And friends can fight. It's not black and white.Friends can fight, and unfortunately friendships can end as a result even if the conflict gets too heated.
Quote from: Decimator Omega on June 11, 2016, 05:43:14 PMQuote from: TBlocks on June 11, 2016, 05:41:15 PMQuote from: Decimator Omega on June 11, 2016, 05:21:58 PMQuote from: Luciana on June 11, 2016, 05:20:48 PMPeople argue for an assortment of reasons. That's about as silly as asking"why do we fight wars man..."But why do we fight wars? Why can't we be friends?A plethora of reasons.Resources, fundamental differences in beliefs, etc.And friends can fight. It's not black and white.Friends can fight, and unfortunately friendships can end as a result even if the conflict gets too heated.That's life though.
Quote from: Kits on June 11, 2016, 05:43:52 PMQuote from: Decimator Omega on June 11, 2016, 05:43:14 PMQuote from: TBlocks on June 11, 2016, 05:41:15 PMQuote from: Decimator Omega on June 11, 2016, 05:21:58 PMQuote from: Luciana on June 11, 2016, 05:20:48 PMPeople argue for an assortment of reasons. That's about as silly as asking"why do we fight wars man..."But why do we fight wars? Why can't we be friends?A plethora of reasons.Resources, fundamental differences in beliefs, etc.And friends can fight. It's not black and white.Friends can fight, and unfortunately friendships can end as a result even if the conflict gets too heated.That's life though.Then that makes life, and living as a whole, extremely shitty in my opinion.
Quote from: Luciana on June 11, 2016, 05:40:21 PMQuote from: Winy on June 11, 2016, 05:39:23 PMQuote from: Decimator Omega on June 11, 2016, 05:35:06 PMQuote from: Winy on June 11, 2016, 05:33:45 PMIt accomplishes making people realize the truth about something. Which is, like, kind of important.And if you fail at that like I always do?Get better at arguing.Thisnot every argument has to end in insultsThat's the other problem. I can never find the right words to even get better at arguing. Its like what I want to say is in my head, but when I try to speak I can't even muster it. Or even write it in this case.The idea is there but the words aren't. If that even makes any sense.
Quote from: Decimator Omega on June 11, 2016, 05:44:47 PMQuote from: Kits on June 11, 2016, 05:43:52 PMQuote from: Decimator Omega on June 11, 2016, 05:43:14 PMQuote from: TBlocks on June 11, 2016, 05:41:15 PMQuote from: Decimator Omega on June 11, 2016, 05:21:58 PMQuote from: Luciana on June 11, 2016, 05:20:48 PMPeople argue for an assortment of reasons. That's about as silly as asking"why do we fight wars man..."But why do we fight wars? Why can't we be friends?A plethora of reasons.Resources, fundamental differences in beliefs, etc.And friends can fight. It's not black and white.Friends can fight, and unfortunately friendships can end as a result even if the conflict gets too heated.That's life though.Then that makes life, and living as a whole, extremely shitty in my opinion.Good friends worth having will make up with you after you've had a fight. If not then they're not worth your time anymore. That's adulthood and it sucks, but like you said in the other thread you have to make the most of your short life and not get wrapped up in such petty arguments. If someone is obviously trolling do not engage because you will not win.
Quote from: Decimator Omega on June 11, 2016, 05:41:40 PMQuote from: Luciana on June 11, 2016, 05:40:21 PMQuote from: Winy on June 11, 2016, 05:39:23 PMQuote from: Decimator Omega on June 11, 2016, 05:35:06 PMQuote from: Winy on June 11, 2016, 05:33:45 PMIt accomplishes making people realize the truth about something. Which is, like, kind of important.And if you fail at that like I always do?Get better at arguing.Thisnot every argument has to end in insultsThat's the other problem. I can never find the right words to even get better at arguing. Its like what I want to say is in my head, but when I try to speak I can't even muster it. Or even write it in this case.The idea is there but the words aren't. If that even makes any sense.I do, but it's just something you need to improve on then.
Can I ask you guys something?
