Basically, what the fuck do I do with my life

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It's a dilemma for everyone, I know. It hasn't come to me yet. I have my Bachelor's degree, but realized that doesn't mean shit and it can't just get you any job. I'm doing the work of a 16 year old, no wonder my dad said I'll never achieve anything. I am kind of envious he's an engineer. I applied to a graduate teaching program, but even if I get in it doesn't start until June. And if I don't, I don't know what the fuck I'll do.

 I'm not sure teaching is right, I've only subbed three days. Part of me wants to do it to meet women in the graduate program, and to do it so at least I'll have a career. There's this fantasy that I'll fall in love with a teacher if I get into that program. I'm almost 24 and I'm a fucking cart pusher, but it's all my own doing. I think now I understand why every one of the women I've met hasn't wanted to take it further. This is venting, yes. I fell into a trap after graduating and couldn't find a career. I was unemployed from May 2014 to February 2015, where I had to accept a retail job, and not even a management position. If you asked me what I really want to do, the answer is I don't know.


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Doesn't have his driver's license, has never had a job, graduated high school 2 years ago.

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jesus christ roman how many times do i have to tell you this, coming on here and whining about your problems to a bunch of randos who don't care about you isn't going to fix anything. actually there's a better chance you'll just be more depressed.

stop moping around during your free time, stop abusing alcohol, and fucking face your problems head on. nothing is ever going to change if you don't put in the effort.

you know what they say, the definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over and expecting a different result.


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I can get with more 24 year old women than you and i'm 17 with no job

It's not your career fella stop trying to blame it on that


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I can layout steps that would change your life, a complete 180, but you are too scared and lazy to do them.

A few lifechangers

-Get on TRT. You have low test it's so obvious and this will be a gamechanger
-Read the books "Think and Grow Rich, Psycho Cybernetics, Way of the Superior Man"
-Go back to school for something you actually like. Video games, star wars, fantasy books. Why not try to make it in the movie business writing or working on the technical aspects of movies? IDK


 
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You will find out who you are not a thousand times, before you ever discover who you are. I hope you find peace in yourself and learn to love instead of hate.
Your dad sounds like an ass, tell him you're a the result of his parenting.  If that doesn't shut him up you cuck his wife


 
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Basically what I got out of this was, fuck your dad.


 
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Tell your dad to go fuck himself.

Ha, beat you to it.


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Why are you guys mad at Romans dad?
 
Imagine having a 24 year old son living in your house that works at K-mart and does nothing but self loathe and masturbate all day long

I'd be pissed


 
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Why are you guys mad at Romans dad?
 
Imagine having a 24 year old son living in your house that works at K-mart and does nothing but self loathe and masturbate all day long

I'd be pissed
And the solution is to tell him he'll never achieve anything?
Better than coddling him and telling him it's all gonna be alright

The man is fed up


 
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Why are you guys mad at Romans dad?
 
Imagine having a 24 year old son living in your house that works at K-mart and does nothing but self loathe and masturbate all day long

I'd be pissed
And the solution is to tell him he'll never achieve anything?
Better than coddling him and telling him it's all gonna be alright

The man is fed up
Who said he needs to be coddled?

Please don't ever have kids
He's been coddled his whole life. His dad is not in the wrong in any way. Instead of crying to the internet about the "you'll never amount to anything" he should try to prove his dad wrong

But he won't even try


 
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To be honest you should probably find a therapist first, as in a proper one.

Work through your issues so that you stop hamstringing yourself in life, then you can go on to live a happy one.

Basically you are going to keep repeating the cycle over and over and over again, alcohol is going to make everything worse and you will never find satisfaction in life.

'If only I had X right now, then I'd be happy'

Then you get X, realise it isn't a magical bullet for happiness and it gets discarded, sabotaged or sour grapes'd.

I've seen this shit happen with every new thread you've made over the last god knows how long and it's about time you found a way to solve the problems instead of running from them.


 
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Okay slick, let's get down to brass tacks here.

1. Your dad's a bitch. You've got low self esteem and confidence problems.

2. A career doesn't mean fuck all if you don't enjoy it. But of course, you're stuck in a trap. You don't enjoy anything so you don't know where to go or how to start.

3. Ditch the fucking women. If you can't stand up on your own two feet, then you're not fucking ready to even try and manage ANYTHING with a partner. You need to put that aside for now, and focus on YOU.

4. This should be number 1 on the list. GET FUCKING HELP. A therapist, a psychologist, any one of those people, can take you apart, get down to the root of your mental problems, and guide you.

5. Docs don't provide miracle cures and solutions. The effort has to come from you. You have to be ready to change. You have to want to change, and seriosuly fucking listen to what they say and put some real damn effort into following what they say.

You're sitting here, right now, talking about your problems. Which means you're aware of them. Take a page out of my book. If you can talk about your problems here, then you can talk about your problems to a doc. If you can admit your problems on here, then you can get up and change things on your end of things, in real life.

It's your call. Remember that.



 
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Why are you guys mad at Romans dad?
 
Imagine having a 24 year old son living in your house that works at K-mart and does nothing but self loathe and masturbate all day long

I'd be pissed

You fucking jackass. Here's an idea, help him. HURR DURR


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Oh, hey.
Tbh, all you've really done is express how desperate you were to sleep with someone, rather then expressing any desire to be successful or get on the right track. You prioritized the wrong things and its biting you in the ass.

Get your shit together. The sex and all that pointless shit (in your case) will come when you get your life together. Stop moping about how your situation isn't ideal. Fix it, change it, figure out what you need to do. We aren't going to give you an agenda or game plan as to how to do that. Can we give you pointers? Yes. But ultimately you've shown very little in way of actually listening.

Drop the chase for women. Start the chase for a better life. Prove your dad wrong. Don't try, actually do it. Tell yourself you'll do it and commit. And grind until you get there.
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Tbh, all you've really done is express how desperate you were to sleep with someone, rather then expressing any desire to be successful or get on the right track. You prioritized the wrong things and its biting you in the ass.

Get your shit together. The sex and all that pointless shit (in your case) will come when you get your life together. Stop moping about how your situation isn't ideal. Fix it, change it, figure out what you need to do. We aren't going to give you an agenda or game plan as to how to do that. Can we give you pointers? Yes. But ultimately you've shown very little in way of actually listening.

Drop the chase for women. Start the chase for a better life. Prove your dad wrong. Don't try, actually do it. Tell yourself you'll do it and commit. And grind until you get there.
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Your dad sounds like an ass, tell him you're a the result of his parenting.  If that doesn't shut him up you cuck his wife
i couldn't think of anything more pathetic.

"I'm a loser and it's your fault, not mine."

If you're a loser, it's your own fault, and no amount of blaming everything other than yourself will change a thing.