Are you happier single, or in a relationship?

Legit 8-Bit · August 08, 2014, 02:04:10 AM

I've never had a girlfriend and I feel shitty now, so I can only assume I'll happier in relationships. Or I could not.

Novice · August 08, 2014, 02:04:32 AM

Quote from: Weed Commando on August 08, 2014, 01:54:35 AM

Explain.

All of them....

In the end, it comes down to my freedom. It always gets taken away to some degree and I just can't handle that.

Reciffo_Smmoc · August 08, 2014, 02:09:42 AM

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Novice · August 08, 2014, 02:14:07 AM

Quote from: Weed Commando on August 08, 2014, 02:09:42 AM

Yeah, that is a real concern for me. I sometimes can't stand the thought of having to give away MUH FREEDOM. At least for the time being, that is.

You'll be ready when you feel like worrying about trivial problems that were created out of thin air.

Reciffo_Smmoc · August 08, 2014, 02:17:46 AM

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ABIGCOWPIE · August 08, 2014, 02:25:34 AM

NEVER HAD A GIRLFRIEND...
BUT IF IT'S SIMILAR TO A FRIENDSHIP I WOULD PREFER TO BE ALONE. I WAS HAPPY WITHOUT FRIENDS. I'M HAPPY NOW TOO, BUT NOW I'M AFFECTED BY WHAT OTHERS THINK OF ME. I'M ALSO LESS LIKELY TO HATE MYSELF SOMETIMES THOUGH BECAUSE MY FRIENDS DON'T JUDGE ME AS HARSHLY AS I JUDGE MYSELF.
MAYBE I JUST WANT TO BE ALONE BECAUSE I'M SCARED OF WHAT IT WILL BE LIKE TO HAVE A RELATIONSHIP. IT'S HIGH SCHOOL, I DON'T NEED TO WORRY ABOUT IT.

Magos Domina · August 08, 2014, 02:43:54 AM

I like being in a relationship. It depends on the person though.

Dustin · August 08, 2014, 05:25:25 AM

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Super Irish · August 08, 2014, 05:53:36 AM

Once you get into a relationship, it is like a drug. I felt content. It's also a nice confidence boost (at least for me, anyway). I was happy that I made them happy.

Before I made no effort to try to be in a relationship, mostly tried to avoid it. Now, I least feel I'd be more inclined to act on if I had a crush or whatever.

Spoiler

And by acting on it, I don't mean running around, getting off with people willy-nilly. I value a serious thing rather than the physical aspect.

Luke · August 08, 2014, 06:54:34 AM

It's better having someone. Feeling loved is better.

BlitzFiend · August 08, 2014, 06:58:39 AM

I'm afraid I don't know. I've never experienced anything resembling happiness in my life, and I absolutely suck at bonding with people.

Ásgeirr · August 08, 2014, 07:08:22 AM

Never been in a relationship. Not that i would want to anyway.

So ''happy'' single it is.

Onion Beetle · August 08, 2014, 08:18:24 AM

You raise an interesting choice.
As a matter such as this, there will always be pros and cons.

But from my personal experience, I have always been vastly happier
living alone away from everybody.

ABIGCOWPIE · August 08, 2014, 09:26:50 AM

Quote from: Doom DH on August 08, 2014, 06:58:39 AM

I'm afraid I don't know. I've never experienced anything resembling happiness in my life, and I absolutely suck at bonding with people.

*HUGS*
I WILL FIND A WAY TO MAKE YOU HAPPY, EVEN IF I HAVE TO FIND OUT WHERE YOU LIVE.

challengerX · August 08, 2014, 09:40:31 AM

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Kinder Graham · August 08, 2014, 09:43:43 AM

Never been in a relationship. I do know that much of my depression comes from being alone and such so I like to tell myself a relationship would fix it, Problem is I'm deeply afraid of rejection along with no having the confidence to tell somebody I like them. So just stuck in like a limbo state or whatever

ABIGCOWPIE · August 08, 2014, 04:31:06 PM

More Than Mortal · August 08, 2014, 04:33:13 PM

Quote from: challengerX on August 08, 2014, 09:40:31 AM

Don't know, never been in a relationship.

You'd probably beat them, because you're a dirty Arab.

And then she'd sue you for billions.

Erives · August 08, 2014, 04:50:32 PM

I like being alone but it gets to you.

Naru · August 08, 2014, 05:33:50 PM

I think I'm happy. I feel empty in general at the moment, but having her does make me happy.

challengerX · August 08, 2014, 05:53:37 PM

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Mad Max · August 08, 2014, 06:00:44 PM

I much prefer being in a relationship. Being single is fun for a little bit, partying with your buds, doing whatever you want, but I find it eventually gets lonely. It's nice sharing your life with someone.

kush mcgush (ง◕ل͜◕)ง · August 08, 2014, 06:07:30 PM

Im more me when im not in a relationship

Grapes · August 08, 2014, 06:10:12 PM

I'd think i'd be happier with my dick in something.

Erives · August 08, 2014, 10:55:51 PM

Quote from: Grapes on August 08, 2014, 06:10:12 PM

I'd think i'd be happier with my dick in something.

Wouldnt any man?

RadicalClass32 · August 08, 2014, 11:03:05 PM

I'm not interesting into anyone recently...

The Hån · August 08, 2014, 11:09:03 PM

I was in a relationship last month, and it was a disappointment. I'd rather just be single for a while.

while it's not really that i hate relationships in general., but high-school ones suck.

ΚΑΤΑΝΑΛΩΤΗΣ · August 08, 2014, 11:15:06 PM

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Mmmmm Napalm · August 08, 2014, 11:16:12 PM

Never been in one. Never will.

Cheat · August 08, 2014, 11:36:31 PM

I've never experienced the desire or drive to seek out a relationship, so I wouldn't know. I'm pretty content as I am, though.