Quote from: Tryptameme on May 30, 2015, 11:55:59 AMQuote from: RomanGladiator on May 30, 2015, 11:48:08 AMNow I started talking to someone else. Blonde, 24, and another teacher. Last three women I did date were all older and teachers. It's because back in high school I thought one of mine was hot. I only want to be friends with benefits with this one, which is all I wanted with the last one but she accused me of wanting an insta-relationship.You shouldn't be wanting anymore than a friendship at this point. In your case it's better to just see her as a friend right now, invite her out for coffee or something nonchalant like that. That way you don't seem so pushy and intimidating for, what they think, wanting too much too fast.Why the fuck wants to be just friends with a woman?
Quote from: RomanGladiator on May 30, 2015, 11:48:08 AMNow I started talking to someone else. Blonde, 24, and another teacher. Last three women I did date were all older and teachers. It's because back in high school I thought one of mine was hot. I only want to be friends with benefits with this one, which is all I wanted with the last one but she accused me of wanting an insta-relationship.You shouldn't be wanting anymore than a friendship at this point. In your case it's better to just see her as a friend right now, invite her out for coffee or something nonchalant like that. That way you don't seem so pushy and intimidating for, what they think, wanting too much too fast.
Now I started talking to someone else. Blonde, 24, and another teacher. Last three women I did date were all older and teachers. It's because back in high school I thought one of mine was hot. I only want to be friends with benefits with this one, which is all I wanted with the last one but she accused me of wanting an insta-relationship.
Quote from: PSU on May 30, 2015, 12:42:52 PMQuote from: Tryptameme on May 30, 2015, 11:55:59 AMQuote from: RomanGladiator on May 30, 2015, 11:48:08 AMNow I started talking to someone else. Blonde, 24, and another teacher. Last three women I did date were all older and teachers. It's because back in high school I thought one of mine was hot. I only want to be friends with benefits with this one, which is all I wanted with the last one but she accused me of wanting an insta-relationship.You shouldn't be wanting anymore than a friendship at this point. In your case it's better to just see her as a friend right now, invite her out for coffee or something nonchalant like that. That way you don't seem so pushy and intimidating for, what they think, wanting too much too fast.Why the fuck wants to be just friends with a woman?PSU gets it. Because if you find her attractive you will always want more.
Quote from: RomanGladiator on May 30, 2015, 12:47:19 PMQuote from: PSU on May 30, 2015, 12:42:52 PMQuote from: Tryptameme on May 30, 2015, 11:55:59 AMQuote from: RomanGladiator on May 30, 2015, 11:48:08 AMNow I started talking to someone else. Blonde, 24, and another teacher. Last three women I did date were all older and teachers. It's because back in high school I thought one of mine was hot. I only want to be friends with benefits with this one, which is all I wanted with the last one but she accused me of wanting an insta-relationship.You shouldn't be wanting anymore than a friendship at this point. In your case it's better to just see her as a friend right now, invite her out for coffee or something nonchalant like that. That way you don't seem so pushy and intimidating for, what they think, wanting too much too fast.Why the fuck wants to be just friends with a woman?PSU gets it. Because if you find her attractive you will always want more.Man, given your current situation and the issues you're having, PSU is the last person you should be listening to.
Is there anything wrong with it? No of course not.Is it enjoyable? Not at all. Seriously, what do you do with a friend thats a girl? Sit around and watch netflix?
Quote from: PSU on May 30, 2015, 02:27:22 PMIs there anything wrong with it? No of course not.Is it enjoyable? Not at all. Seriously, what do you do with a friend thats a girl? Sit around and watch netflix?you can simply just be friends with a girl, you don't have to fuck every single you talk to. you know like talk about shit you both like, do things people do as normal friends. why does what's between their legs matter?
Quote from: goots on May 30, 2015, 02:29:37 PMQuote from: PSU on May 30, 2015, 02:27:22 PMIs there anything wrong with it? No of course not.Is it enjoyable? Not at all. Seriously, what do you do with a friend thats a girl? Sit around and watch netflix?you can simply just be friends with a girl, you don't have to fuck every single you talk to. you know like talk about shit you both like, do things people do as normal friends. why does what's between their legs matter?You didn't answer my question.What exactly do you do with a girl that's a friend?
Women don't make for very good friends. You can't have the connection you have with another man that you'd have with a woman as a friend. A good friend can be like a brother. You guys are down for whatever. A woman just isn't the same.
Quote from: Sandtrap on May 30, 2015, 08:25:23 PMwomen like a guy that's open and fluentThis is exactly what I mean. "Women like". Where a man is just your friend. It don't matter what he "likes" or doesn't like.
women like a guy that's open and fluent
Quote from: Sandtrap on May 30, 2015, 08:31:52 PMQuote from: challengerX on May 30, 2015, 08:30:12 PMWomen don't make for very good friends. You can't have the connection you have with another man that you'd have with a woman as a friend. A good friend can be like a brother. You guys are down for whatever. A woman just isn't the same.Holy fuck and I'm supposedly salty about being on my own.Who's salty?I'm saying you can't have the same friendship with a woman you can have with a man. What does that have to do with being alone or not?
Quote from: challengerX on May 30, 2015, 08:30:12 PMWomen don't make for very good friends. You can't have the connection you have with another man that you'd have with a woman as a friend. A good friend can be like a brother. You guys are down for whatever. A woman just isn't the same.Holy fuck and I'm supposedly salty about being on my own.
Quote from: Sandtrap on May 30, 2015, 08:42:15 PMQuote from: challengerX on May 30, 2015, 08:33:44 PMQuote from: Sandtrap on May 30, 2015, 08:31:52 PMQuote from: challengerX on May 30, 2015, 08:30:12 PMWomen don't make for very good friends. You can't have the connection you have with another man that you'd have with a woman as a friend. A good friend can be like a brother. You guys are down for whatever. A woman just isn't the same.Holy fuck and I'm supposedly salty about being on my own.Who's salty?I'm saying you can't have the same friendship with a woman you can have with a man. What does that have to do with being alone or not?You want me to wave my sign around? Big flashy lights on? Right. I was being sarcastic is all. Your statement could easily be viewed as a rather dreary sentiment of one who's had one too many failures with the mystery that are women kind.What on earth are you talking about? How are you being sarcastic of you're implying I have trouble with women because I don't consider them good friends?What you're boring is passive aggressive. Women are highly emotional and the ones I've known didnt share similar interests or really brought anything to the table to consider them an actual friend.
Quote from: challengerX on May 30, 2015, 08:33:44 PMQuote from: Sandtrap on May 30, 2015, 08:31:52 PMQuote from: challengerX on May 30, 2015, 08:30:12 PMWomen don't make for very good friends. You can't have the connection you have with another man that you'd have with a woman as a friend. A good friend can be like a brother. You guys are down for whatever. A woman just isn't the same.Holy fuck and I'm supposedly salty about being on my own.Who's salty?I'm saying you can't have the same friendship with a woman you can have with a man. What does that have to do with being alone or not?You want me to wave my sign around? Big flashy lights on? Right. I was being sarcastic is all. Your statement could easily be viewed as a rather dreary sentiment of one who's had one too many failures with the mystery that are women kind.
Quote from: Sandtrap on May 30, 2015, 08:40:24 PMQuote from: challengerX on May 30, 2015, 08:32:33 PMQuote from: Sandtrap on May 30, 2015, 08:25:23 PMwomen like a guy that's open and fluentThis is exactly what I mean. "Women like". Where a man is just your friend. It don't matter what he "likes" or doesn't like.Well, it does, technically. You tend to get along better with people who have similiar interests and similar intent. This applies to both sexes.Yeah, no. That isn't what I was saying. I'm talking about how you're saying "women like" which only proves my point that you need to be what "women like" and impress them. Which makes them shitty friends. A man isn't like that. He's your friend because you get along and you've been through things. QuoteYou're taking my definition of "women like" as if it's some literal written in stone shit. Women are people, plain and simple. Slightly different chemical balances and some workings in natural biology apart, that's it.If your "friend" no matter who they are, doesn't have some similar lines of thought or likes, then I'm sorry, you're doing what I like to call "coasting." People need a little bit of social interaction. And when they can't find a decent match, they latch on to the closest they can get.A "coaster" is one who will see a lot of passerby people they may call "friends." But the reality is they've never actually had a true friend before.You don't call somebody a friend if you've multiple conflicting interests. Or, at least, I don't. That's just setting yourself up for some grade A bullshit later on.I wasn't talking about similar interests, I was talking about how you can't just be friends with women without there being some type of bullshit. Women overly complicate things. They're not simple and honest like most men are.
Quote from: challengerX on May 30, 2015, 08:32:33 PMQuote from: Sandtrap on May 30, 2015, 08:25:23 PMwomen like a guy that's open and fluentThis is exactly what I mean. "Women like". Where a man is just your friend. It don't matter what he "likes" or doesn't like.Well, it does, technically. You tend to get along better with people who have similiar interests and similar intent. This applies to both sexes.
You're taking my definition of "women like" as if it's some literal written in stone shit. Women are people, plain and simple. Slightly different chemical balances and some workings in natural biology apart, that's it.If your "friend" no matter who they are, doesn't have some similar lines of thought or likes, then I'm sorry, you're doing what I like to call "coasting." People need a little bit of social interaction. And when they can't find a decent match, they latch on to the closest they can get.A "coaster" is one who will see a lot of passerby people they may call "friends." But the reality is they've never actually had a true friend before.You don't call somebody a friend if you've multiple conflicting interests. Or, at least, I don't. That's just setting yourself up for some grade A bullshit later on.
Not really, no. I don't get why you'd say something you don't mean.
Quote from: Sandtrap on May 30, 2015, 08:55:23 PMQuote from: challengerX on May 30, 2015, 08:51:58 PMQuote from: Sandtrap on May 30, 2015, 08:42:15 PMQuote from: challengerX on May 30, 2015, 08:33:44 PMQuote from: Sandtrap on May 30, 2015, 08:31:52 PMQuote from: challengerX on May 30, 2015, 08:30:12 PMWomen don't make for very good friends. You can't have the connection you have with another man that you'd have with a woman as a friend. A good friend can be like a brother. You guys are down for whatever. A woman just isn't the same.Holy fuck and I'm supposedly salty about being on my own.Who's salty?I'm saying you can't have the same friendship with a woman you can have with a man. What does that have to do with being alone or not?You want me to wave my sign around? Big flashy lights on? Right. I was being sarcastic is all. Your statement could easily be viewed as a rather dreary sentiment of one who's had one too many failures with the mystery that are women kind.What on earth are you talking about? How are you being sarcastic of you're implying I have trouble with women because I don't consider them good friends?What you're boring is passive aggressive. Women are highly emotional and the ones I've known didnt share similar interests or really brought anything to the table to consider them an actual friend.Oh for fuck's sake.I'll break it down.That statement.Made by you.Could, easily, be viewed, as the statement of one who has had one too many troublesome encounters with women.But the statement you made, wasn't that. Fuck. How to put it.That statement could be said by another person. And it could easily sound like ^^^^^ what I said up above. I know you aren't. And I'm not encinuating it.We clear now?Not really, no. I don't get why you'd say something you don't mean.
Quote from: challengerX on May 30, 2015, 08:51:58 PMQuote from: Sandtrap on May 30, 2015, 08:42:15 PMQuote from: challengerX on May 30, 2015, 08:33:44 PMQuote from: Sandtrap on May 30, 2015, 08:31:52 PMQuote from: challengerX on May 30, 2015, 08:30:12 PMWomen don't make for very good friends. You can't have the connection you have with another man that you'd have with a woman as a friend. A good friend can be like a brother. You guys are down for whatever. A woman just isn't the same.Holy fuck and I'm supposedly salty about being on my own.Who's salty?I'm saying you can't have the same friendship with a woman you can have with a man. What does that have to do with being alone or not?You want me to wave my sign around? Big flashy lights on? Right. I was being sarcastic is all. Your statement could easily be viewed as a rather dreary sentiment of one who's had one too many failures with the mystery that are women kind.What on earth are you talking about? How are you being sarcastic of you're implying I have trouble with women because I don't consider them good friends?What you're boring is passive aggressive. Women are highly emotional and the ones I've known didnt share similar interests or really brought anything to the table to consider them an actual friend.Oh for fuck's sake.I'll break it down.That statement.Made by you.Could, easily, be viewed, as the statement of one who has had one too many troublesome encounters with women.But the statement you made, wasn't that. Fuck. How to put it.That statement could be said by another person. And it could easily sound like ^^^^^ what I said up above. I know you aren't. And I'm not encinuating it.We clear now?
All too easy
