If it makes you feel any better, we broke up because of money issues and the fact that I'm considered incompetent by her standards all because of not being able to find a job so easily like you can in other states. People fail to realize how hard it is to get a decent job in California, especially where I live. They think it's easy like in their state.
I've been happier being single again. I've missed that freedom. Long distance relationships are not worth it. They very rarely work and in my case it failed after a year.
I've gone back to music to a degree by picking up a new hobby. That's how my life has been lately.
Who says you need to be in a relationship to be happy? Find what you enjoy and enjoy it.