ADVICE. My first girlfriend just told me that she is in love with me still

Jive Turkey | Mythic Invincible!
 
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Hey fellas so my first girlfriend was when I was a sophomore in highschool. She was pretty cute, fit, and very sweet. I honestly fell in love with her srs

We broke up because she ended up with some Chad 19 year old football player. Broke my heart it really did. I went complete no contact, not replying to a single text or call or anything.

Well she just dropped a huge message to me about how she is still in love with me, and all this other super cheesey stuff that I really think is actually genuine. Over the years she has constantly tried to get closure with me, everytime I never even budged cause i'm kinda childish and also that's the point of no contact.

How do I reply to her? I'm not going to get back together with her obviously but I still do care about her a lot cause she was my first mannn. I really have no idea how i should reply


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Might sound lame, but how about asking what made her go for him while she lived happily with you.


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uhhh...

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Might sound lame, but how about asking what made her go for him while she lived happily with you.


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does this stuff even work?


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Tell her to fuck off


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Might sound lame, but how about asking what made her go for him while she lived happily with you.
It's cause he was a chad

6'1"
muscular
blonde
handsome

Me:
5'10"
Scrawny
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goofy looking

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Desty | Mythic Inconceivable!
 
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Might sound lame, but how about asking what made her go for him while she lived happily with you.
It's cause he was a chad

6'1"
muscular
blonde
handsome

Me:
5'10"
Scrawny
awkward
goofy looking

Easy upgrade
No, the point of my reply is to know what her mind set is by reading her reply, and to influence her.

She left you, so she'd think about why she did that, and she might realize that she would probably do it again.


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I got a number to help you with that

1-8OO-Don't-Fucking-Do-It


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"You are young. I am old. I am dead."
Might sound lame, but how about asking what made her go for him while she lived happily with you.
It's cause he was a chad

6'1"
muscular
blonde
handsome

Me:
5'10"
Scrawny
awkward
goofy looking

Easy upgrade
That should tell you everything you already need to know.


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Might sound lame, but how about asking what made her go for him while she lived happily with you.
It's cause he was a chad

6'1"
muscular
blonde
handsome

Me:
5'10"
Scrawny
awkward
goofy looking

Easy upgrade
And now that you're a chad she's crawling back

yeah nigga she's no good

move along
Brah believe me i'm like THE person to understand that sloots gonna sloot and all that, but the situation is kind of different. Even before I was how I am now she made various attempts of getting me back. Like every two months she would text me. All her friends would tell me how she still thought about me and stuff like that, and she would make various attempts to talk to me at public events. This has been going on for 3 years, but she never really confronted me so openly like she did now. 


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That is a tough one. If you really are not interested in getting back together, then tell her that. You can certainly tell her that you will always care about her, but that is it.


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I think you are contemplating gettinh back with jer otherwise you would continue your no response game.


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Didn't you want to have a gf?


What is she ugly now?


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Tell her to that you're done with her you pansy faggot. Be a man.


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Tell her you're gay.


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Tell her you're gay.
Tell her she made you gay.


 
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I really like what you've done with the no-contact thing. I'd keep doing that.


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Seems like a bad idea to me fam, she's had her chance but it's your choice if you still like her.