The issue isn't with women in general (in most cases) but seems there's an issue with your confidence which might inherently make you incapable of forming new relationships.
Hmm, well if you plan on going to college. You've got some pretty big chances there.
Nah man. Keep your standards high. Because if you get a girlfriend.....ok.But if you get a wife? that is something special.Don't look for the temporary, look for something that will last.
Quote from: WORKSHOPWIZARD on December 08, 2014, 03:46:56 AMHmm, well if you plan on going to college. You've got some pretty big chances there.I'm from Australia, it's not like America College.
Pls expand on this because I am genuinely interested in what you are talking about?
I personally think it's maybe I'm annoying? maybe theres bad aspects of me they don't like, I didn't say the issue was the women, It's mainly focus on me. Because I see lots of idiots out there who somehow always get girlfriends or boyfriends once they break up, and this is just painful... Because I get nothing.. I just find this all hard to understand and deal with.
To me it seems that moving into an unknown community when he was 16 impaired his confidence because he was cast off in a wholly different community than what he was familiar, and comfortable with. I am not a psychoanalyst though. So I may be wrong.Quote from: Nexus the Star Lord Guy on December 08, 2014, 03:52:01 AMPls expand on this because I am genuinely interested in what you are talking about?
Quote from: WORKSHOPWIZARD on December 08, 2014, 03:46:56 AMHmm, well if you plan on going to college. You've got some pretty big chances there.Nah. Not unless you're the kind of guy who drinks and goes to parties, OP.
Quote from: Isara on December 08, 2014, 03:48:01 AMThe issue isn't with women in general (in most cases) but seems there's an issue with your confidence which might inherently make you incapable of forming new relationships.I personally think it's maybe I'm annoying? maybe theres bad aspects of me they don't like, I didn't say the issue was the women, It's mainly focus on me. Because I see lots of idiots out there who somehow always get girlfriends or boyfriends once they break up, and this is just painful... Because I get nothing.. I just find this all hard to understand and deal with.
I'm in the same boat. You have to give it time; some people are late bloomers. Give yourself time to grow and mature. Focus on your own development, and let romantic concerns take a backseat for now. Be yourself, but constantly strive to become a better version of yourself; eventually, surely, you'll come to meet someone. I understand how you feel right now. I am the last of my group of friends to remain a virgin, and it feels like I've been cheated.. given a bad hand of cards, as it were. However, I recognize that there is nothing I can do about it except move on and hope that one day I meet someone who wants to be with me. It will come with time, my friend.. surely
Quote from: Twitchyloner on December 08, 2014, 03:54:50 AMQuote from: Isara on December 08, 2014, 03:48:01 AMThe issue isn't with women in general (in most cases) but seems there's an issue with your confidence which might inherently make you incapable of forming new relationships.I personally think it's maybe I'm annoying? maybe theres bad aspects of me they don't like, I didn't say the issue was the women, It's mainly focus on me. Because I see lots of idiots out there who somehow always get girlfriends or boyfriends once they break up, and this is just painful... Because I get nothing.. I just find this all hard to understand and deal with.Have you ever gotten a straight response after a rejection, maybe a laundry list of complaints with what's wrong with you? How's your appearance? Are you well-kept or disheveled? Are you polite and even tempered, or are you erratic? Too boring, too weird, too devoted to your passion? Are you just constantly friend zoned?I know, in my experience, I've never been able to get a straight answer.
Quote from: Twitchyloner on December 08, 2014, 03:52:45 AMQuote from: WORKSHOPWIZARD on December 08, 2014, 03:46:56 AMHmm, well if you plan on going to college. You've got some pretty big chances there.I'm from Australia, it's not like America College.Hmm how so? And what about a job? Maybe you could try getting to know a coworker?
Have you ever though about broadening your standards? They could be too narrow.
Quote from: Mr. Admirals on December 08, 2014, 03:55:52 AMQuote from: WORKSHOPWIZARD on December 08, 2014, 03:46:56 AMHmm, well if you plan on going to college. You've got some pretty big chances there.Nah. Not unless you're the kind of guy who drinks and goes to parties, OP.That's not what I meant, I meant trying to talk to a girl, and trying to go out with her and all that. Of course it's much easier to do in school.
Quote from: WORKSHOPWIZARD on December 08, 2014, 03:58:25 AMQuote from: Mr. Admirals on December 08, 2014, 03:55:52 AMQuote from: WORKSHOPWIZARD on December 08, 2014, 03:46:56 AMHmm, well if you plan on going to college. You've got some pretty big chances there.Nah. Not unless you're the kind of guy who drinks and goes to parties, OP.That's not what I meant, I meant trying to talk to a girl, and trying to go out with her and all that. Of course it's much easier to do in school.Yeah when I lived in the city, it was alot easier meeting girls in schools. Then from city to a small surf snobby town.. it became alot harder to meet people. I was a total outkast.
Quote from: Twitchyloner on December 08, 2014, 04:12:23 AMQuote from: WORKSHOPWIZARD on December 08, 2014, 03:58:25 AMQuote from: Mr. Admirals on December 08, 2014, 03:55:52 AMQuote from: WORKSHOPWIZARD on December 08, 2014, 03:46:56 AMHmm, well if you plan on going to college. You've got some pretty big chances there.Nah. Not unless you're the kind of guy who drinks and goes to parties, OP.That's not what I meant, I meant trying to talk to a girl, and trying to go out with her and all that. Of course it's much easier to do in school.Yeah when I lived in the city, it was alot easier meeting girls in schools. Then from city to a small surf snobby town.. it became alot harder to meet people. I was a total outkast.Damn man, I take it that you wouldn't want to do internet dating sites as well?
Kill them all
Quote from: WORKSHOPWIZARD on December 08, 2014, 04:14:35 AMQuote from: Twitchyloner on December 08, 2014, 04:12:23 AMQuote from: WORKSHOPWIZARD on December 08, 2014, 03:58:25 AMQuote from: Mr. Admirals on December 08, 2014, 03:55:52 AMQuote from: WORKSHOPWIZARD on December 08, 2014, 03:46:56 AMHmm, well if you plan on going to college. You've got some pretty big chances there.Nah. Not unless you're the kind of guy who drinks and goes to parties, OP.That's not what I meant, I meant trying to talk to a girl, and trying to go out with her and all that. Of course it's much easier to do in school.Yeah when I lived in the city, it was alot easier meeting girls in schools. Then from city to a small surf snobby town.. it became alot harder to meet people. I was a total outkast.Damn man, I take it that you wouldn't want to do internet dating sites as well?Dude if I'm still struggling, within 2 years. I'll do it.
A struggle with sex life, because I have none.
