Really don't know if this is thread material. Maybe I feel like just letting shit go onto a forum because I know people here would understand, or throw insults at me which is fine.

I've traveled, I've had lots of different experiences seeing the world, Always moved house and places within and out of my country. I dress abit differently, Have my own style. I'm a good talker, I can come across as very confidence at times and I'm very genuine towards people. What I guess I'm doing is summing up myself as a Person, who has alot to give and offer to someone. I'm feeling tired and angry/depressed so I won't rant on, but do you struggle trying to meet someone?

I've always believed a Girl/Women shows signs that shes into you, you can just tell when you have someone. I've kissed a few girls and muck'd around alot, but that was when I was like 14-15. Now I'm 20 Years old and I'm still yet to meet someone. It didn't help moving to a small surf town at the age of 16, and experienced years of neglect from it. It was utterly painful to see other kids around me, getting drunk.. sleeping with countless women and I envy that badly. To a point where I do want to ... 'hurt them' or show them My pain. I completely understand the insanity that Elliot Rodgers went through. Bad example to use I know yes, but this shit drives me crazy. Do I waste it on a hooker? Do I accept to D-Grade myself because women just don't make a proper move on me? Or do I need to go out to clubs more and have to meet woman who are drunk to be into me? This is great, I need help.

The issue isn't with women in general (in most cases) but seems there's an issue with your confidence which might inherently make you incapable of forming new relationships.

Pls expand on this because I am genuinely interested in what you are talking about?

Nah man. Keep your standards high.
 Because if you get a girlfriend.....ok.


But if you get a wife? that is something special.
Don't look for the temporary, look for something that will last.

Not everyone wants to get married.

Quote from: WORKSHOPWIZARD on December 08, 2014, 03:46:56 AM

Hmm, well if you plan on going to college. You've got some pretty big chances there.

I'm from Australia, it's not like America College.

I'm pretty sure that's applicable beyond the US...

The issue isn't with women in general (in most cases) but seems there's an issue with your confidence which might inherently make you incapable of forming new relationships.

I personally think it's maybe I'm annoying? maybe theres bad aspects of me they don't like, I didn't say the issue was the women, It's mainly focused on me I know, compared to other boys out there I'd say Im a good decent looking dude.. then others.. yet.. nothing Because I see lots of idiots out there who somehow always get girlfriends or boyfriends once they break up, and this is just painful... Because I get nothing.. I just find this all hard to understand and deal with.

Hmm, well if you plan on going to college. You've got some pretty big chances there.

Nah. Not unless you're the kind of guy who drinks and goes to parties, OP.

To me it seems that moving into an unknown community when he was 16 impaired his confidence because he was cast off in a wholly different community than what he was familiar, and comfortable with. I am not a psychoanalyst though. So I may be wrong.

Quote from: Nexus the Star Lord Guy on December 08, 2014, 03:52:01 AM

Pls expand on this because I am genuinely interested in what you are talking about?

I see. Thank you.

Quote from: Isara on December 08, 2014, 03:48:01 AM

The issue isn't with women in general (in most cases) but seems there's an issue with your confidence which might inherently make you incapable of forming new relationships.

I personally think it's maybe I'm annoying? maybe theres bad aspects of me they don't like, I didn't say the issue was the women, It's mainly focus on me. Because I see lots of idiots out there who somehow always get girlfriends or boyfriends once they break up, and this is just painful... Because I get nothing.. I just find this all hard to understand and deal with.

Have you ever gotten a straight response after a rejection, maybe a laundry list of complaints with what's wrong with you? How's your appearance? Are you well-kept or disheveled? Are you polite and even tempered, or are you erratic? Too boring, too weird, too devoted to your passion? Are you just constantly friend zoned?

I know, in my experience, I've never been able to get a straight answer.

Quote from: Twitchyloner on December 08, 2014, 03:54:50 AM

Quote from: Isara on December 08, 2014, 03:48:01 AM

The issue isn't with women in general (in most cases) but seems there's an issue with your confidence which might inherently make you incapable of forming new relationships.

I personally think it's maybe I'm annoying? maybe theres bad aspects of me they don't like, I didn't say the issue was the women, It's mainly focus on me. Because I see lots of idiots out there who somehow always get girlfriends or boyfriends once they break up, and this is just painful... Because I get nothing.. I just find this all hard to understand and deal with.

Have you ever gotten a straight response after a rejection, maybe a laundry list of complaints with what's wrong with you? How's your appearance? Are you well-kept or disheveled? Are you polite and even tempered, or are you erratic? Too boring, too weird, too devoted to your passion? Are you just constantly friend zoned?

I know, in my experience, I've never been able to get a straight answer.

haha same thoughts I have dude all the time! I guess I'm still not ready or something..

Quote from: Twitchyloner on December 08, 2014, 03:52:45 AM

Quote from: WORKSHOPWIZARD on December 08, 2014, 03:46:56 AM

Hmm, well if you plan on going to college. You've got some pretty big chances there.

I'm from Australia, it's not like America College.

Hmm how so? And what about a job? Maybe you could try getting to know a coworker?

Both co-workers have boyfriends. I properly need to do more things, just working out work hours and I'll join gym. If I stay in the city, apply for a local theatre and do that.

Kill them all

Quote from: WORKSHOPWIZARD on December 08, 2014, 03:58:25 AM

Quote from: Mr. Admirals on December 08, 2014, 03:55:52 AM

Quote from: WORKSHOPWIZARD on December 08, 2014, 03:46:56 AM

Hmm, well if you plan on going to college. You've got some pretty big chances there.

Nah. Not unless you're the kind of guy who drinks and goes to parties, OP.

That's not what I meant, I meant trying to talk to a girl, and trying to go out with her and all that. Of course it's much easier to do in school.

Yeah when I lived in the city, it was alot easier meeting girls in schools. Then from city to a small surf snobby town.. it became alot harder to meet people. I was a total outkast.

Damn man, I take it that you wouldn't want to do internet dating sites as well?

Quote from: Twitchyloner on December 08, 2014, 04:12:23 AM

Quote from: WORKSHOPWIZARD on December 08, 2014, 03:58:25 AM

Quote from: Mr. Admirals on December 08, 2014, 03:55:52 AM

Quote from: WORKSHOPWIZARD on December 08, 2014, 03:46:56 AM

Hmm, well if you plan on going to college. You've got some pretty big chances there.

Nah. Not unless you're the kind of guy who drinks and goes to parties, OP.

That's not what I meant, I meant trying to talk to a girl, and trying to go out with her and all that. Of course it's much easier to do in school.

Yeah when I lived in the city, it was alot easier meeting girls in schools. Then from city to a small surf snobby town.. it became alot harder to meet people. I was a total outkast.

Damn man, I take it that you wouldn't want to do internet dating sites as well?

Dude if I'm still struggling, within 2 years. I'll do it.

Quote from: WORKSHOPWIZARD on December 08, 2014, 04:14:35 AM

Quote from: Twitchyloner on December 08, 2014, 04:12:23 AM

Quote from: WORKSHOPWIZARD on December 08, 2014, 03:58:25 AM

Quote from: Mr. Admirals on December 08, 2014, 03:55:52 AM

Quote from: WORKSHOPWIZARD on December 08, 2014, 03:46:56 AM

Hmm, well if you plan on going to college. You've got some pretty big chances there.

Nah. Not unless you're the kind of guy who drinks and goes to parties, OP.

That's not what I meant, I meant trying to talk to a girl, and trying to go out with her and all that. Of course it's much easier to do in school.

Yeah when I lived in the city, it was alot easier meeting girls in schools. Then from city to a small surf snobby town.. it became alot harder to meet people. I was a total outkast.

Damn man, I take it that you wouldn't want to do internet dating sites as well?

Dude if I'm still struggling, within 2 years. I'll do it.

Hopefully it won't have to come to that! Good luck man.