"sexual preference" is just a euphemism for sexual bigotry

 
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If everybody's a bigot, nobody is.
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all humans are human

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Not wanting to fuck someone with downs syndrome isn't bigotry. It's borderline rape if you fuck a mentally handicapped person.


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but if i deny myself the emotional consent it's rape.




 
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Omnisexuality would mean you can't discriminate between ugly and attractive people
And since ugly and attractive is subjective, discriminating who you date or not is not bigotry
I would argue that the subjective nature of attractiveness only helps my point, actually. I could argue that everyone has their own personal bigotries. Some men like obese women, whereas I find obese women repulsive. That's my personal bigotry. Who said there has to be an objective standard for what's bigoted and what isn't?
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Physical attractiveness does play a role in relationships
That's sort of the question at its core, because you're absolutely right--it does play a role in relationships.

But should that be the case? Is that fair?


 
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Not wanting to fuck someone with downs syndrome isn't bigotry. It's borderline rape if you fuck a mentally handicapped person.
There's many other examples of things I wouldn't fuck that I feel a twinge of guilt over.

Obese women, blonde women, women with fake breasts, women with too many tattoos (like, more than 3), women who wear too much makeup, women with annoying voices, etc. etc. etc.

Just stupid little things that probably shouldn't matter and probably have nothing to do with whether they'd make a good romantic partner or not. It sounds a lot like bigotry and prejudice and discrimination to me.
Last Edit: June 25, 2016, 11:52:17 AM by Verbatim


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Not wanting to fuck someone with downs syndrome isn't bigotry. It's borderline rape if you fuck a mentally handicapped person.
There's many other examples of things I wouldn't fuck that I feel a twinge of guilty over.

Obese women, blonde women, women with fake breasts, women with too many tattoos (like, more than 3), women who wear too much makeup, women with annoying voices, etc. etc. etc.

Just stupid little things that probably shouldn't matter and probably have nothing to do with whether they'd make a good romantic partner or not. It sounds a lot like bigotry and prejudice and discrimination to me.

Not fucking people isn't bigotry. Denying someone as a romantic partner because of their looks when it's clear you're compatible is kind of shitty, but it isn't bigotry.

People are programmed, you don't blame a dog for chasing squirrels do you?


 
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Not fucking people isn't bigotry. Denying someone as a romantic partner because of their looks when it's clear you're compatible is kind of shitty, but it isn't bigotry.

People are programmed, you don't blame a dog for chasing squirrels do you?
"Blaming" isn't what I'm trying to do here. I'm just describing behavior.

I don't believe that bigotry necessarily connotes deliberation or malicious intent. It can be involuntary. Am I wrong?

If we're "programmed" to be bigots (an assertion I'm inclined to agree with), does that really excuse us? Unlike a dog, we're capable of contemplation, rationalization, and changing our behavior by reason alone. Should we stop pretending as though our attractions matter, in favor of a more accepting/loving society, or is that kumbaya-pie-in-the-sky nonsense?
Last Edit: June 25, 2016, 12:01:42 PM by Verbatim


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I don't think not wanting to be with someone because they slurp their soup is bigoted; a relationship isn't a job, you're going to discriminate. But I think the issue here is the contention that discrimination always means bigotry. I'd say that isn't true. Bigotry connotes a degree of intolerance or hostility. It may involve discriminating features when deciding whether to be with someone, but that's a long shot from saying that you won't stand in the same room as them because "x and y".


 
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Depends on your reasoning. If it just comes down to subconscious preference then no you're not a bigot but if it's because you think blacks are nigger monkeys then yeah you're bigoted bro 


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Not fucking people isn't bigotry. Denying someone as a romantic partner because of their looks when it's clear you're compatible is kind of shitty, but it isn't bigotry.

People are programmed, you don't blame a dog for chasing squirrels do you?
"Blaming" isn't what I'm trying to do here. I'm just describing behavior.

I don't believe that bigotry necessarily connotes deliberation or malicious intent. It can be involuntary. Am I wrong?

Bigotry to me is voluntary. As far as sexual attraction goes there's not much you can do.

If I have racist thoughts I can ignore them and not let them affect my judgement or treatment of the individual.

My dick won't get hard if some 350 pound woman spreads her legs. That's involuntary and pushing rope to prove a point isn't what I'm into.


 
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Depends on your reasoning. If it just comes down to subconscious preference then no you're not a bigot but if it's because you think blacks are nigger monkeys then yeah you're bigoted bro
What if it's both? African facial features are not attractive and I also don't want no ghetto queen in my house.


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I can love a fat woman, treat her with kindness, let her know I appreciate her, but don't expect me to fuck her on the reg.


 
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I don't think not wanting to be with someone because they slurp their soup is bigoted; a relationship isn't a job, you're going to discriminate. But I think the issue here is the contention that discrimination always means bigotry. I'd say that isn't true. Bigotry connotes a degree of intolerance or hostility. It may involve discriminating features when deciding whether to be with someone, but that's a long shot from saying that you won't stand in the same room as them because "x and y".
Would you say it has to be voluntary, too, and not a subconscious thing, in order to be a bigotry?


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I don't think not wanting to be with someone because they slurp their soup is bigoted; a relationship isn't a job, you're going to discriminate. But I think the issue here is the contention that discrimination always means bigotry. I'd say that isn't true. Bigotry connotes a degree of intolerance or hostility. It may involve discriminating features when deciding whether to be with someone, but that's a long shot from saying that you won't stand in the same room as them because "x and y".
Would you say it has to be voluntary, too, and not a subconscious thing, in order to be a bigotry?
I'd say bigotry is less to do with your thoughts and more about how they manifest. It's one thing to find a black person to be unattractive, it's another to refuse them basic human dignity because of it.


 
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Depends on your reasoning. If it just comes down to subconscious preference then no you're not a bigot but if it's because you think blacks are nigger monkeys then yeah you're bigoted bro
What if it's both? African facial features are not attractive and I also don't want no ghetto queen in my house.
The first reason is enough to negate the second. You're safe


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If they are not ugly and anything but a poo in loo, I'd fuck them.


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I've met people who believe this. If you're not willing to have sex without preference, then you're racist/sexist/homophobic/Transphobic/fat-shaming etc... My belief is that it's the same thing as we find here with anti feminist posts. It comes down to entitlement. The current generation truly believes it is entitled to sex. No one is willing to work for it. Almost no one, anyways. So, you sit on tumblr or a gaming forum and bitch how you got friendzoned, fat shamed etc...
i think you've completely missed the mark, actually--i don't think it's about entitlement at all

for some people, maybe--but certainly not everybody who has asked this question

my point is, it doesn't matter how "hard" you work; i will never want to have sex with you if you have down's syndrome--EVER! or anything else that i consider undesirable

in a way, i think that's kinda fucked up
You misunderstand me.

I'm saying that whoever claims sexual preference is discrimination is acting entitled. If a pink haired chubby tumblr feminist asked to fuck me, my telling her no isn't discrimination against her, just that I don't prefer 400 pound pink haired loudmouths. She is not entitled to my dick. She takes my rejection as an affront to her entitlement and claims that I'm fat shaming her.

Now, true, no amount of work will overcome some things. I have a thing for skinny black women. Our fat feminist friend, unless she were black (unlikely), could never burn enough calories to turn black (insert deathcamp oven joke here)

The point is the whole argument of preference equals discrimination is born in an attitude of entitlement. No one is entitled to love. If you don't have any partners, then you gotta work on yourself to get some. Maybe work more hours to afford better clothes, or get in better shape etc... In the end, everything comes down to working for it


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Preferring one set of traits over another is literally discrimination, but calling it bigotry seems disingenuous.


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You're not a bigot if you don't want to fuck black women, but you are one if you deny an aesthetic black woman sex when you want to have sex due to the fact that she is black.


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does this stuff even work?
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F as in I'm paying my respects to the brain dead people who believe that.
Like, I don't find black women sexually attractive.

what about black men?


 
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I wouldn't go so far as to call it "Bigotry," personally.

Seems a little extreme for the idea that's being described.


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You're not a bigot if you don't want to fuck black women, but you are one if you deny an aesthetic black woman sex when you want to have sex due to the fact that she is black.
I would, I don't consider myself racist.

I just don't like niggers.
If you're willing to fuck the niggers that you don't like and you don't hold any race above the other, then you're neither a racist or a bigot.


 
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]you don't think there's a kernel of truth to the statement?

i think it's just human nature to be bigoted--it's only a problem when you start imposing your will on other people

Like, I don't find black women sexually attractive. There's no logic behind it; I just don't. I think it would be fair to say that I'm bigoted, not that I can necessarily help it, nor should I be expected to. But it's still a prejudice that I have, and it's a little worrying.

Everyone is a Bigot in their own way, everyone is a hypocrite too.

To try and fight that is counterproductive.


 
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